# From Average to Rockstar - Pheromones to help Facilitate Change - 19/m/UK **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 20, 2015, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-average-to-rockstar-pheromones-to-help-facilitate-change-19-m-uk/63875 "2015-02-20T06:20:21Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![masalmehdar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecc23a/32.png) [@masalmehdar](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/masalmehdar)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2015, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-average-to-rockstar-pheromones-to-help-facilitate-change-19-m-uk/63875/1 "2015-02-20T06:20:21Z")
For over 6 years, I never really had an actual relationship because I wasn’t a confident guy and never received much attention from the opposite sex. Perhaps this is due to me lacking in confidence and self-esteem area. I just want to spice my life up for the better in terms of female seduction and following my dreams by being confident about what I do. After reading many testimony’s about fellow PheroTalkers regarding their experience, I have concluded that is now… my time, my time to shine, my time to recuperate from being the lonely guy who never had any friends and become “Alpha” Thanks! * * * Disclosure: I editied your thread title for readability. No animals were harmed in the process. Back to your regularly scheduled program. ---
**Author:** ![Gia\_L](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gia_l/32/2096_2.png) [@Gia\_L](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gia_L)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2015, 6:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-average-to-rockstar-pheromones-to-help-facilitate-change-19-m-uk/63875/2 "2015-02-20T06:56:38Z")
Welcome masalmehdar! Or should I say Mr. Rockstar! You’re arsenal is going to grow quickly my friend. And this journey is going to be so fun for you. At your age I would recommend 2X [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for sure. We have so many great pheromones and I’m sure as our resident experts chime in you will get some great advice! Just remember, have fun! Oh, and create a journal in the Men’s section. It’s a great way to keep track of all the fun you’re going to have! Here’s a good example of someone who just started one: [Being the bad-ass im meant to be](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/being-the-bad-ass-im-meant-to-be/63736) Your $25 gift certificate is fist pumping in your email inbox! It might have gotten lost in junk or spam (too many drinks…lol), so check there too. Gia L 😃 ---
**Author:** ![mrseeker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrseeker/32/5177_2.png) [@mrseeker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrseeker)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2015, 10:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-average-to-rockstar-pheromones-to-help-facilitate-change-19-m-uk/63875/3 "2015-02-20T10:25:26Z")
Hey, Welcome to the party! Like Gia already said, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) will make you the rockstar of the party, the trend setter, the guy that shows off that he is the VIP. I never tried Instant Shine myself, but from what I heard on the forums it does true to its name. Note that when you use pheromones, you need to behave like one. So, if you use Instant Shine to be the rockstar, then I would say you need to act like a VIP (not a bossy Bieber with demands, but an alpha guy who shows that he is the one who can make or break the vibe in the club). When I started using A314 I also changed my whole life. Since then, I am taking a regular shower, changed from a beard into a smooth silky shave, changed my wardrobe, I even started thinking about getting a business suit to match my personality. Looks, smell, behaviour… They all show off who you really want to be. I see pheromones as an extension of my body language, but you gotta have trust in them. Most effects described here may look dodgy, but it takes experimentation and confidence in yourself. Not all pheromones work on the first try, but I do know that they have years of research on each and every one of them, and they DO work in the right circumstances. ---
**Author:** ![Kalpan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9de0a6/32.png) [@Kalpan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kalpan)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2015, 11:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-average-to-rockstar-pheromones-to-help-facilitate-change-19-m-uk/63875/4 "2015-02-20T11:09:29Z")
I will like to add something as a warning. You will need to learn how to managed friendship and various relationship. I recommend 2 books. 1. how to make friends and influence people - Dale carnegie 2. How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships - Leil Lowndes Please do read them or you are heading for disaster. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) are dangerous stuff. They are like money. Lots of money can get you in lots of disaster. You need to learn how to manage it.