# From Pherlure to Dial **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 15, 2010, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034 "2010-03-15T14:58:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![nestersan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/50afbb/32.png) [@nestersan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nestersan)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/1 "2010-03-15T14:58:46Z")
Hello guys, Found this website from hunting around as a result of the DIAL [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) soap, and decided after reading some articles to make a purchase. My first post : `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/lounge/new-pheromone-infused-dial-men-magnetic-33655-2.html#post318192` I was kinda interested in Pherlure from back then, but never made a purchase. I am seeing weird behavior from a chick I know after the dial soap thing, so I am now very interested. I usually prefer older women (35+), but I am kinda insecure and not good at openers. The bottles i purchased weren’t expensive, so I guess I will experiment and see what happens. Cheers, Nester-san ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 3:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/2 "2010-03-15T15:10:53Z")
> [@nestersan](#): > > Hello guys, > > Found this website from hunting around as a result of the DIAL pheromone soap, and decided after reading some articles to make a purchase. > > My first post : > `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/lounge/new-pheromone-infused-dial-men-magnetic-33655-2.html#post318192` > > I was kinda interested in Pherlure from back then, but never made a purchase. I am seeing weird behavior from a chick I know after the dial soap thing, so I am now very interested. I usually prefer older women (35+), but I am kinda insecure and not good at openers. > > The bottles i purchased weren’t expensive, so I guess I will experiment and see what happens. > > Cheers, > > Nester-san Hey, welcome Nester! Tell us a little bit more about yourself. This pheromones definitely help. You can use Instant Openness and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) to get that mature cool vibe. What exactly seems to be your problem? Initiating conversations? Would you tell us a bit about how you interact with other people? If you don’t mind providing some information in a bit more detail, we can definitely help you. As you do this, you will be able to receive the $25 gift certificate 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 3:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/3 "2010-03-15T15:18:54Z")
Welcome to pherotalk! Have you purchased products from the andritics store already? If yes, then what did you buy? In order to suggest any products you need to tell us more about your personality? and where you are planning to use pheromones? In that way we can suggest products for your situation and also you qualify for 25$ gift certificate 🙂 Anyway Instant Openness would be good for you since you have hard time to open conversations. It helps you keep conversation going. To get some confidence, and respect, you could try A314. It gives you lot of respect and confidence. Or you can try Instant Gentleman, it is soften version of A314 and more approachable. Instant Shine is also something to consider. Makes you and those around you feel better and gives you some youtfull shine and confidence. TUTH gives you some sexual spark and it is good specially if you are looking 35+ womans. (but you need to combine this with [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) like Instant Openness and Instant Shine) ---
**Author:** ![nestersan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/50afbb/32.png) [@nestersan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nestersan)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 3:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/4 "2010-03-15T15:50:02Z")
Bought to go bottles of “[Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)”, and “Turn up the heat”. I am kinda jaded world weary, but secretly an optimist. I usually appear to be different people to different people. The girl mentioned in my post thinks I dislike women intently for shady behavior, but other women who know me think that I think women are the greatest thing since the wheel. I am not a seeker of one nights stands, nor am I opposed to an Orgy. Recently Single, I am not looking for another relationship. I have had two girlfriends, both very long term. (10 yrs +7 yrs) The women I like tend to be all bisexual, which I dont mind at all. I have had the odd threesome with the commited girldfriend as one of the women. I prefer very intelligent women who are still fun, and are not burdened by their smarts. I go for mature women (35+) which maybe 55 being upper limits. I am an introvert who wants to be an extrovert, but I am ridiculously self-conscious (emotionally abusive home situation when I was a child). I am the guy women want to spent their lives with, after the have been wild (reasons why my first gf and I broke up) I do have a type, as all the women I have dated (dated only no sex), including my ex’s have similiar body types/facial features, even though they are very racially diverse. I think I may have said too much…lol What I want: A little confidence, I find I am great in converstions, but I am totally scared with initiating the conversation. I get put off very easily, and I am not the type of person who is good at hiding stuff, so you can read my emotions very easily. I have actually dated since my last GF, nothing came of them, but I was comfortable enough to seek out, make a date, go and enjoy myself. The women seemed pleased enough to want a repeat, but I was not interested enough to make another go at it. ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 4:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/5 "2010-03-15T16:38:57Z")
lol, na its not too much, we’re here to help you =). They don’t see the type of person you are until you open up to them or they open you up. Specifically for the girl that you mentioned in your post, you should use Instant Openness as well as [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) (this gives the boyfriend vibe but is not as strong in “alpha” figure as a314). I was wondering, the girl you know, how well do you know her? or how long have you known her? The IO (Instant Openness) will help her open up and will be a great aid in easing initiating conversations, ofcourse but while this is happening Instant Gentleman will help view you as a POTENTIAL. I may be wrong, if someone who is well experienced can correct me (you may know the answer yourself Nesteran), but as you get mature in general, women tend to like more and more “manly” figures? If this is so, the a314 in place for IG will definitely be a good idea because it is a confidence booster as well. More than the IG. Use the Shine to your advantage. Also, do you see her everyday or on a schedule? If so, you should try IO and IG or a314 on the first day. If it goes well, try shine + a314 or IG and keep the TUTH with you. As it goes on, when you feel its the right time.. everything’s going good, TUTH it 😛 ---
**Author:** ![nestersan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/50afbb/32.png) [@nestersan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nestersan)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/6 "2010-03-15T17:13:47Z")
I am not interested in her sexually, she is not really my type, and her being my ex’s friend (who i still love very much) makes her even more off limits. I am really just interested in the responses to the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) in a mostly scientific “for my edification” kinda way. Also, I am dragged out to clubs every couple of months or so by another female friend, and I would like to be able to ask women to dance and not be so self conscious. I am actually Hyper-Masculine myself, which is weird, considering the mess of insecurites that is me. I find as I get older, particularly since I broke up with my ex, that I am very assertive with women. I take charge and basically dictate the way things will be without being overbearing. I have found that women respond very positively to it. It is very hard for me to do at times, because I am very non-confrontational and kinda laid back. But I do see where I talk to and compliment directly without being overtly sexual and basically lay my cards out, i get better responses. I will see a woman in traffic and tell her she is beautiful without expecting anything or being lecherous, and i do get responses. This is not something I would have done even a year ago. ---
**Author:** ![seekingadvice](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@seekingadvice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/seekingadvice)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 6:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/7 "2010-03-15T18:31:25Z")
For the club scene, use [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), a314, and keep TUTH with you in your pocket. It works a charm, according to people on other threads. You seem though as you know what you’re doing (dictating, taking charge in a good way) when it comes to women, it’s just the initial moment. For those initial moments, IO should work well for you. As for the experiment with the “off limits” person goes, I think you can try what I mentioned but, if your truly not going to do anything, experiment a bit and see how she reacts but don’t go further 😛 ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [March 15, 2010, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/8 "2010-03-15T23:44:01Z")
Hello Nesstersan, I just read the reference thread: “pheromone-infused” Dail for Men Magnetic Attraction Enhancing Body Wash. I guess, that’s what first caught my attention to your posting. I use this product maybe once a week, matter of fact, today I use it. Now that I think about, four women during the day that were seated across from me, “looked at me straight in the eyes.” I lowered by eyes, because these women were older than me; I wasn’t even thinking about that Dail stuff. I just thought that, like it is normally because I was really sharply dressed, as others girls were also checking me througout the day. It was a good day for me. Okay, let’s return to my focus to you again and your posting memtioned just above. Nesstersan, I just have to tell you, it sounds like you had an very interesting **DAY TWO** from your description of it, the time you spent with her during the movie and afterwards. ALOT MESSAGES! DAIL SOAP??? 🙄… I can see how the events of that day alone could possibily spark interests in researching pheromones. I have a quesition, will you be using the **Instant Shine** and **Turn up the heat,** around her much? If you’re desiring to get closer to her, you should really get some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and in a hurry while things are fresh in her mind. Yes Sir!!! It also, helpful with establishing long term relationships; I know you already know this, but just thought I would interject it again. 🙂 Maybe, I should start paying more attention when using **Dial for Men Magnetic Attraction Enhancing Body Wash?🙄** Cheers, MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 12:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/9 "2010-03-16T00:02:34Z")
[quote=“nestersan”] “I am not interested in her sexually, she is not really my type, and her being my ex’s friend (who i still love very much) makes her even more off limits.” **I CAN RESPECT THAT 🙂** "I find as I get older, particularly since I broke up with my ex, that I am very assertive with women. " **YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO 🙂** “I take charge and basically dictate the way things will be without being overbearing. I have found that women respond very positively to it.” **THAT’S BEING SMART 🙂** T ake care of yourself, it’s been my pleasure, for we all can learn something from each other if we are open-minded enough.🙂 MVKBugatti ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 9:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/from-pherlure-to-dial/37034/10 "2010-03-16T21:54:20Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.