# GetHerBack intro **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 9, 2013, 7:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171 "2013-10-09T07:58:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![GetHerBack](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/58956e/32.png) [@GetHerBack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetHerBack)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2013, 7:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/1 "2013-10-09T07:58:15Z")
As the username says… I’m 32 and my long-distance relationship girlfriend of 2 years (she’s 24) has been sleeping with this new guy, which is fine because we’re in an open relationship, but what’s not fine is that she’s falling for him, even though she KNOWS he’s not relationship material. Our rule was sex with others is okay, but we’re emotionally committed. I didn’t care to pursue other women because I have lots of work to do, but she’s a student and meets new guys on a constant basis, goes partying and to clubs etc. She just has this unbelievable chemistry with the guy, so I need to resort to some help… I’ll be visiting her and I’ve just ordered the following stack: IO and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) - to woo her friends and DHV IH - to help talk to her on a deep level and maybe find out what’s so hot about the new guy A314 - I’ll be trying to meet the dude, and he needs to know who’s the boyfriend Turn Up The Heat - what the other guy seems to have naturally (he’s 9 years younger than me) Ammo 2X - since it’s the best seller here. I’ll also be doing some dating of my own, to re-balance the relationship and have a backup in case she loses her mind and dumps me. What would fellow mone users recommend for: a) getting her back and proofing her against falling for her hookup dudes in the future b) me getting some new girls (Caucasian, for hookups, not necessarily high-status) Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![sharkndragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sharkndragon/32/426_2.png) [@sharkndragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sharkndragon)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2013, 9:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/2 "2013-10-09T09:24:08Z")
Hey there, welcome to the forum. How old are you? How old is she? This can play a factor in how you use the mones you purchased. Good stack, btw… I’ll be blunt. I don’t think there’s any proofing her against falling for a guy. Attraction is natural, it’s chemistry, it’s spiritual…whatever you want to call it. No amount of cockblocking will curb attraction if it’s there… and you’re fighting an uphill battle in a long distance relationship AND trying to keep her from falling for other guys. With that said, I think what you’re after here is a Fallout mix. Given enough exposure to you and the signature, when you two are apart, she’ll have this uncontrollable urge to be around you, can’t stop thinking about you, etc. Knowing her age will help determine if what you have could be used in such a manner, but in the meantime, AMMO and IH can be a good start. Use the IH to connect on a deeper level, rather than pry into her mind, and you might have a better go at things. Do a search for “fallout” and read up a bit. Goodluck, too… that’s a tough situation my friend. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2013, 9:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/3 "2013-10-09T09:45:21Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum My advice: walk away. You won’t listen but walk away. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) aren’t magic and open relationships don’t work. The advice you were looking for: You’ve got good logic in your choices, I would not run turn up the heat and ammo at the same time though, the each have their place. I’d add P83 everything you plan to be around her 20-50mcg you’ll have to find what works best yourself. ---
**Author:** ![GetHerBack](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/58956e/32.png) [@GetHerBack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetHerBack)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2013, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/4 "2013-10-09T18:36:44Z")
Thanks Shark and Ryan for the welcome. I’m 32, she’s 24, and we’ve had pretty good sexual chemistry, though not exactly explosive. When we met, she was shy and insecure, and now after living apart and having hookups, she gained a lot of self-confidence. Maybe Ryan is right… but I want to give it a fair try first (yep, Ryan is right, at least for now). Anyway, [is this the thread on the Fallout effect?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-users-have-you-experienced-fallout/33690) It talks about A314, so I’m happy I ordered it. Looks like what I need… or did you mean a more complex mix Shark? ---
**Author:** ![sharkndragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sharkndragon/32/426_2.png) [@sharkndragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sharkndragon)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2013, 2:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/5 "2013-10-10T02:15:47Z")
That is One of the threads, and a314 is often considered to be a key ingredient, though it’s not the only one, and not all fallout mixes include it. IH, p74, p75 is another one gaining traction. Do a search for “Creating Nuclear Fallout”. Looks like Ryan was right 😉 Seriously though, good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Styr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/styr/32/5195_2.png) [@Styr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Styr)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2013, 2:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/6 "2013-10-10T14:47:23Z")
It appears that you have everything figured out already. It is not often I see such dedication from new members. 🙂 The fallout mix - or one of them, as there are several options - is something worth trying. For best effects however, you have to get her exposed to the mix multiple times. I dpn’t know how often you see each other, but the “fallout” mixes usually require more exposure. That said, it will certainly benefit you, help you show your status to the other guy and might get her to value you more. 1 - A314 is the primary component, together with IH and P74. 2 - A314 and androstadienone. You are going to need either androstadienone (google for liquid alchemy labs or love scent), or try MX413 (an Androtics A-1 alternative), or P74 for it to work. I would also recommend P83 - it is well suited for most mixes. It is a very good disinhibitor. Another one that few other speak of is P95 - This one is my favourite putative of all time. (Albeit I have not tried all of them) It is highly social and seems to have a sexual undertone. It makes the girls giggle and bond with you. In one case the girl could not stop from bumping into me. You do not need to expand your arsenal, however. The products you have will work miracles too. I would try some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), IO and a bit of IH and talk to the other guy. IO in the mix will make you both more talkative. Chances are he will realize that the two of you are together and will come respect you enough to leave her alone. Not mentioning the effect it will have on the girl. 🙂 Welcome onboard. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2013, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getherback-intro/60171/7 "2013-11-05T15:51:17Z")
Welcome Getherback, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!