# Getting back with EX **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 6, 2010, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849 "2010-07-06T19:50:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![instinct](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4af34b/32.png) [@instinct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/instinct)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/1 "2010-07-06T19:50:53Z")
Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up about a month ago, I had some issues that I have worked through, mostly just being a boring boyfriend (date night was pizza and tv, never did anything exciting). Anyway, we lived together for many years, but the last 6 months it had been long distance while I set up our new house. She recently has been with a new guy and I have been dating around. She actually left me for him. She had planned to come here and visit me for 2 weeks, and stay in my guest bedroom And I decided that I honestly wanted to do a re-try of the relationship, just hold me and her relationships off for 2 weeks, and see if we could get back together, she agreed. She will be here in 10 days, she’s not really into the new guy, just into having a new guy, you know, the process of getting with someone new is exciting. She wants excitement. My life is much more exciting now. (going out many times a week, jet ski-ing, wake boarding, camping/hiking) Anyway, her complaints where that the passion and fun/excitement had worn off. We had been living mostly as just friends, with sex about once a week for maybe 2 years. Since then, I have made major changes to my appearance (lost a lot of weight, 15 more lbs at least to go though) and have built a great fun lifestyle that I know she would love. I am just looking for a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) to help push her over the edge and make the decision to get back together, it would mean leaving her family, friends, and boyfriend. She is coming for 2 weeks and if it works out, she will just stay. I have tried ammo/ IH / IO in the past with little to no results, and honestly, just loosing weight and getting a new hair cut has given me great results and I usually get a pretty high caliber girl interested in me everyday, however, I really just want to get back with my ex. I am on a very limited budget, so I was thinking of going with a to-go for a while, and I would get a314 but I have tried it once, and I think I am pretty confident as it is and didn’t really notice much for results, and the price is way too high for me. Would TUTH be a good choice? Maybe instant shine? I want her to see me as a new, fun and exciting guy. She already knows I am dependable and trustworthy, and when we fell in love, I had a lot more edge (rock band, long hair, ect…). I think she is going to be very nervous when she gets off the plane, do I hug him, do I kiss him, do we go home and hang out or do we go home and have sex, I want this to push her towards excitement and arousal, that’s what was missing the last 2 years. But actually going forward with it, would mean leaving her current boyfriend and moving in with me, so it would feel risky for her, and she has some doubts. I originally asked her to come for 6 weeks, and she said that we would make it 2 and if it worked out, she would just stay. Btw – I’m 23, I work out a lot, I have a very high sex drive (more than you can imagine), I come as as very laid back, but I do have a VERY aggressive side (but not temperamental). I don’t know if this matters on what I choose. I used to be read as arrogant and jerky, but since I lost weight I think I come off more as fun and cocky. Thanks. Edit: What I am looking for is that old “butterflies” and “sexual tension” feeling we used to ahve, at least for the first few days. If I can get that, I’ll be made. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/2 "2010-07-06T19:58:27Z")
Old memories + IH would work well. Throw in some AMMO in there for some well balanced tension. Rewire her emotions by showing her the new you while giving her that bonding feeling. ---
**Author:** ![instinct](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4af34b/32.png) [@instinct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/instinct)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/3 "2010-07-06T20:01:06Z")
> [@P51Mustang](#): > > Old memories + IH would work well. Throw in some AMMO in there for some well balanced tension. Rewire her emotions by showing her the new you while giving her that bonding feeling. “Old memories” is a phero?? ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/4 "2010-07-06T20:03:58Z")
No lol I’m sorry. Old memories that remind her of the fun times you’ve had plus the new memories you’re making with her plus the [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) would show her how you had fun in the past, how much fun your’e having now (building memories) and to help tie it together the bonding aspect of Instant Honesty. ---
**Author:** ![instinct](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4af34b/32.png) [@instinct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/instinct)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 8:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/5 "2010-07-06T20:05:12Z")
I’ve got that part covered logistic wise, I guess Im seeing if there is anything that amplifies that butterflies feeling you get. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 8:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/6 "2010-07-06T20:14:18Z")
From experiences IH would work. I just got my [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) and can’t comment on the effects. But based on readingwould be either that or P75 at \<2.5mcg dose. For P83 gotta find sweet spot. TUTH would be able to work just I don’t know if the butterflies will be in the stomach… ---
**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/7 "2010-07-06T20:22:58Z")
A little dose of TAF and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) if you go well right from the start. ---
**Author:** ![instinct](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4af34b/32.png) [@instinct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/instinct)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/8 "2010-07-06T20:48:41Z")
> [@magicj76](#): > > A little dose of TAF and Instant Honesty if you go well right from the start. so TAF+IH will help to create butterflies? I was originally going to do IS + TUTH, I wanted to come off as vibrant and full of energy, but with strong sex appeal. ---
**Author:** ![Cohengunn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f04885/32.png) [@Cohengunn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cohengunn)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/9 "2010-07-06T22:46:34Z")
Be careful with the TUTH too much will have her thinking that your really horny-U don’t want to come across desperate for sex-I would definetly suggest using a couple of sprays of shine and either IO or IH when u pick her up from the airport, will break the akwardness make her feel at ease, if you have ammo that wouldn’t hurt either when u get her back to your and u sense that things are turning sexual that really the best time to apply the TUTH she won’t be able to resist Good luck man ---
**Author:** ![instinct](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4af34b/32.png) [@instinct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/instinct)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/10 "2010-07-06T23:47:03Z")
Ok, lets say I can afford 3 to-go bottles, what would you get? I was going to go with [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)+IS @ airport, and then when things get closer, spray on some tuth back home. > [@Cohengunn](#): > > Be careful with the TUTH too much will have her thinking that your really horny-U don’t want to come across desperate for sex-I would definetly suggest using a couple of sprays of shine and either IO or IH when u pick her up from the airport, will break the akwardness make her feel at ease, if you have ammo that wouldn’t hurt either when u get her back to your and u sense that things are turning sexual that really the best time to apply the TUTH she won’t be able to resist > > Good luck man ---
**Author:** ![Bearcat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bearcat/32/739_2.png) [@Bearcat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bearcat)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 11:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/11 "2010-07-06T23:52:00Z")
I’m suprised that no one has said [MX297](https://a314.com/product/mx297/). MX297 would really make that “new, exciting man” vibe shine. The attraction has been there before, I doubt you will have trouble getting it again. Read up on [MX297](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx297-collective-reports/38527) and consider that for your needs. ---
**Author:** ![instinct](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/4af34b/32.png) [@instinct](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/instinct)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/12 "2010-07-07T00:06:42Z")
> [@Bearcat](#): > > I’m suprised that no one has said MX297. MX297 would really make that “new, exciting man” vibe shine. The attraction has been there before, I doubt you will have trouble getting it again. Read up on [MX297](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mx297-collective-reports/38527) and consider that for your needs. I think this looks like “IT”. If I wanted to added an extra “exciting” or “edge” kick to it, what would you add to it? ---
**Author:** ![Cohengunn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f04885/32.png) [@Cohengunn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cohengunn)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/13 "2010-07-07T00:17:57Z")
I would make shine my priority, TUTH if u have the inclination that it going to turn sexual as it turns of my god that was great in to holy mother of friggen Jesus that was awesome!and from my experience instant honesty Is far more potent and appropraite for your situation as u’ve known this girl for a long time so that over IO again I hope it works out for u act as you want her to see you and the rest will fall into place ---
**Author:** ![Warren](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/97f17d/32.png) [@Warren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warren)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 3:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/14 "2010-07-07T03:53:50Z")
> [@instinct](#): > > Anyway, her complaints where that the passion and fun/excitement had worn off. > > I have tried ammo/ IH / IO in the past with little to no results… > > I am on a very limited budget, so I was thinking of going with a to-go for a while… > > Would TUTH be a good choice? Maybe instant shine? I want her to see me as a new, fun and exciting guy. TUTH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) would be good choices. P83 and TAF would also be worth a try. So would P86 if you could find some! ---
**Author:** ![Bearcat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bearcat/32/739_2.png) [@Bearcat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bearcat)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2010, 1:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/15 "2010-07-07T13:02:01Z")
> [@instinct](#): > > I think this looks like “IT”. If I wanted to added an extra “exciting” or “edge” kick to it, what would you add to it? In my opinion, [MX297](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx297/) is the most complete product that I have tried. It rarely needs anything but if I had to pick something to go with it, I would choose P83. The reason that I would choose P83 is because it acts as a disinhibitor. MX2297 gives you the VIP vibe and P83 makes her feel loose and comfortable. I prefer 3 shots of MX297 and 30mcg of P83 but everyone is different. ---
**Author:** ![ami81](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@ami81](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ami81)\ **Post date:** [July 8, 2010, 7:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-back-with-ex/39849/16 "2010-07-08T07:17:46Z")
> [@instinct](#): > > “Old memories” is a phero?? lol, we wished it was.