# Getting my 1st Pheros Today: Quick Question **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 16, 2013, 8:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009 "2013-05-16T08:29:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TREEBEARD9000](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/treebeard9000/32/2175_2.png) [@TREEBEARD9000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TREEBEARD9000)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 8:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009/1 "2013-05-16T08:29:24Z")
I just placed my first order (1x IS, 1x AMMO , 1x TUTH ) and they are arriving today. I realize that I’m 20 and that the TUTH might just be overkill, but my girlfriend and I already get pretty physical. We haven’t had sex though. -in fact, she’s a virgin (which I think makes her nervous when we get close)- Do you think the TUTH , AMMO , or IS could help in this situation? The feelings of intimacy are there, just restrained. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 8:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009/2 "2013-05-16T08:31:55Z")
Not having experience with a similar situation… I’m _guessing_ it would be better to put her in a more relaxed state than a sexually ravenous state if there is already a sexual desire there. ---
**Author:** ![TREEBEARD9000](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/treebeard9000/32/2175_2.png) [@TREEBEARD9000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TREEBEARD9000)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 8:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009/3 "2013-05-16T08:35:34Z")
Interesting. I don’t know why I missed that obvious observation. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009/4 "2013-05-16T08:36:29Z")
IH/IS would be my suggestion here - Encourages trust, closeness and sharing, whilst remaining feelgood and engaging. Just what is often needed to help someone go the next step. Pair with some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) or just maybe a small amount of TUTH. Failing that, go with Ammo/IS - Its the next least like just unzipping your cock in front of her! But keep some TUTH on hand to apply if things start getting steamy and she’s no problem with it but don’t apply till she is well in the mood - and you may not need to anyway. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![TREEBEARD9000](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/treebeard9000/32/2175_2.png) [@TREEBEARD9000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TREEBEARD9000)\ **Post date:** [May 16, 2013, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009/5 "2013-05-16T08:41:24Z")
Thanks for the specifics, mobo. If I’d ordered IH, then I’d totally use it. I’ll have to get it next time around. Sounds pretty universally useful (according to the other posts I’ve perused through). I’ll try your suggestion, though. A combo off Ammo and IS was kinda what I was thinking, too. Danke for the speedy confirmation. ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2013, 4:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-my-1st-pheros-today-quick-question/59009/6 "2013-05-17T04:00:35Z")
> [@ryanmercer](#): > > Not having experience with a similar situation… I’m _guessing_ it would be better to put her in a more relaxed state than a sexually ravenous state if there is already a sexual desire there. This man is right, more aggressive products like Tuth wont help you out. Unless she doesnt find you hot enough to get wet, which I doubt 🙂 PS: Wouldve recommend 40 mu [P83](https://a314.com/product/p83/) and the IShine you have, paired with just a little spray of Tuth or Ammo