# Getting ready for it... **URL:** \ **Category:** A314 Insider's Club\ **Created:** [October 5, 2010, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-ready-for-it/42335 "2010-10-05T01:35:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 1:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-ready-for-it/42335/1 "2010-10-05T01:35:18Z")
This is going to sound incredibly sad, but I arranged my day so I could be here to pick up this stuff (too bad it doesn’t get here til tomorrow after my day is done ☹ ) but as I am getting mentally prepared for this stuff, I’m really excited beyond belief honestly! and from the sounds of it, it does seem to be a real life changer and I do walking into this do believe that this product with change my life (not using as a crutch but as a catalyst). Should I act as if I am changing into this new self or should I pretend not to be wearing any like some of the other mones out there? I fully believe in the power of mones (my new obsession actually!). so to properly handle this awesome new power that lays before me, what should I do? should I acted like my normal self? Should I begin molding into the new alpha that I shall become? Any advice what you guys did when you first used this product? I would love nothing more but to get the absolute full effect of this product in everyway without(minimum) negative side effects. Thanks for your help guys~! ---
**Author:** ![England](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/england/32/1163_2.png) [@England](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/England)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 2:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-ready-for-it/42335/2 "2010-10-05T02:29:53Z")
Try not to consciously think about things like: “Don’t forget back straight!” “I need to keep control of my voice!” “Oh shit I need to slow my movements down!” To be Alpha you don’t think these things, you do them. It might take a while but you will slowly start to notice more respect. Even better are the self effects, A314 makes me feel…“glowing” is the only word I can use to describe it. If you know (not think) you are Alpha and you know who you are and where you want to be, it will all come naturally. Dont forget: Are thoughts facts? No. Are actions? Yes. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-ready-for-it/42335/3 "2010-10-05T03:23:29Z")
> [@samuraitea](#): > > This is going to sound incredibly sad, but I arranged my day so I could be here to pick up this stuff (too bad it doesn’t get here til tomorrow after my day is done ☹ ) but as I am getting mentally prepared for this stuff, I’m really excited beyond belief honestly! and from the sounds of it, it does seem to be a real life changer and I do walking into this do believe that this product with change my life (not using as a crutch but as a catalyst). Should I act as if I am changing into this new self or should I pretend not to be wearing any like some of the other mones out there? I fully believe in the power of mones (my new obsession actually!). so to properly handle this awesome new power that lays before me, what should I do? should I acted like my normal self? Should I begin molding into the new alpha that I shall become? Any advice what you guys did when you first used this product? I would love nothing more but to get the absolute full effect of this product in everyway without(minimum) negative side effects. Thanks for your help guys~! That’s EXACTLY what you should do. I’ve read a few posts from skeptics about how the congruency thing is bull and that if mones really worked you wouldn’t have to be congruent with them. Well obviously if it’s just a communication signal and not mind control congruence makes more sense. Like I used the example once of wearing a shirt that says “worlds nicest guy” now people might actually believe that sign…until you walk up to a stranger and punch him in the face. So what’s this got to do with A314? Well it’s a slow burn product. I was actually ready to give up on it after the first couple of days. But I stuck it out and by the second week I’d noticed a lot of little changes had been building up over time. In hindsight this makes sense. Attraction products work fast because attraction can be instantaneous for most people…respect? eh that usually takes a bit more time and effort to earn. Also the way I look at using a product like A314 or creating your signature signal with an A314 base is this. Use it and don’t change and you may experience some effects but not much and they’ll disappear after a while. Don’t use it, and try to change your image, personality etc and people that know you and have gotten comfortable with you compartmentalized in the little box they have you in may resist attempts at changing yourself. You’re pretending to be something you’re not, you’re faking, not being real etc. But combine the two, and the changes in behavior seem more real and authentic, they resist less. You’re not pretending or being a “try hard”…you’ve changed and are growing into something better. ---
**Author:** ![empath](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/empath/32/2351_2.png) [@empath](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/empath)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2010, 1:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-ready-for-it/42335/4 "2010-10-05T13:30:50Z")
All the advice here is great! and way to have a great attitude about it! Just remember that changes in YOU wont happen overnight, but they will happen. I can tell I’ve changed a lot since I first started a year ago, most of it has to do with A314. Keep us posted! ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2010, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/getting-ready-for-it/42335/5 "2010-10-07T00:55:27Z")
> [@England](#): > > Try not to consciously think about things like: > > “Don’t forget back straight!” > “I need to keep control of my voice!” > “Oh shit I need to slow my movements down!” > > To be Alpha you don’t think these things, you do them. It might take a while but you will slowly start to notice more respect. Even better are the self effects, A314 makes me feel…“glowing” is the only word I can use to describe it. > > If you know (not think) you are Alpha and you know who you are and where you want to be, it will all come naturally. > > Dont forget: Are thoughts facts? No. Are actions? Yes. I disagree with a lot of your post. In the beginning you may have to actually think about these things to get them right. They’re like dance moves, you will need to practice so your body moves smoothly and not all jumpy with you stepping on people’s toes. So IMO you should every now and then do a self-check. How am I holding myself? Am I leaning into people? Leaning away? Or am I standing strong in my space? Am I speaking too fast, too slow? Too high, too low? There is nothing wrong with working on some physical traits of an alpha male while working on those inner traits, that way in about a month you’ll find yourself doing these things from muscle memory and truly being confident. Also, sorry man but I don’t get the whole thoughts aren’t facts bit. I get what you’re trying to do, instill into someone to take action instead of sitting back and thinking about things. But thoughts are definitely facts..or can be that is.