# Gf is self conscious **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 30, 2015, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869 "2015-08-30T04:10:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jazzysax](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bbe5ce/32.png) [@jazzysax](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jazzysax)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2015, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/1 "2015-08-30T04:10:34Z")
my gf is self-conscious and I wish she would show more skin sometimes but almost always wears stuff to cover up her natural beauty. If I were to give her [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) for her birthday,will that give her more self confidence to show more things? 😉 ---
**Author:** ![a12449404](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85e7bf/32.png) [@a12449404](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/a12449404)\ **Post date:** [September 18, 2015, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/2 "2015-09-18T20:33:08Z")
How long have you and your Gf been involved? Are you aware of anything ‘why’ she ‘feels’ self conscious? about what? Self confidence also comes from your partner encouraging you. Im not seeking to turn this into a therapy session - Im pointing out theres are few moving parts to this situation - parts which could be relevant [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) - or any other product is not going to morph an introvert into an exhibitionist or adult film auditioner.. Now, what I would suggest is you perhaps gifting her some of the MX’35’ series (135/225/335) and perhaps one of the putatives whose specific number I cannot recall - but I’ve seen reviewed by women who report a confident ‘self effect’ - this is where some self help and reading come into play. Id suggest product which she could wear daily which would enhance her social ‘signature’ - the improved feedback and interaction could open her up and slowly bring out a more confident girl.. Think about her, and then what ‘you’ want - see what happens. ---
**Author:** ![adventure](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/7feea3/32.png) [@adventure](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/adventure)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 5:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/3 "2015-09-27T17:52:10Z")
> [@jazzysax](#): > > my gf is self-conscious and I wish she would show more skin sometimes but almost always wears stuff to cover up her natural beauty. If I were to give her instant sexiness for her birthday,will that give her more self confidence to show more things? 😉 I would go with p83 in her favorite scent. This one has encouraged me to dress sexier and show off more skin. So much so that I won’t even spray it until after I get dressed and have already made up my mind that I will not change my outfit no matter how much I feel like it. p78 makes me think my skin looks gorgeous. It doesn’t make me want to show more skin, but it does make me enjoy looking at my own skin. I don’t think either of the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) makes me want to show more skin. I’ve only tried mx135 in the series. This one does enhance perception and will make her feel very comfortable in her skin. It doesn’t make me want to show even more skin, just makes me very comfortable with areas that I wasn’t comfortable with. Which could lead to someone developing a confidence in that area. ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2015, 9:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/4 "2015-09-28T21:14:43Z")
I’m sorry I don’t have a pheromone suggestion for you, just a cliche one. I’d say **just ask her** …but gently…if I may suggest something to the effect…“I think you are stunning and wish you would allow me to see more of you”, “why do you cover so much of yourself up?” Granted if she is wearing clothes that suit her style, religion or one of many other possibilities, you may not be getting very far with this. I think the answer she gives you when you approach the question sweetly will be able to provide some detail for you, that you can both work with. Again my apologies, it’s just not enough information for me, and I guess I’m not that good at [pheromones](https://a314.com/) yet…it’s a tough call without more details, and I’d rather not pry. I do recommend you talk to her and ask if there is a reason she covers herself up more than you care for, and if she doesn’t have a reason walk through a store with her or show her a picture in a magazine of something you’d “LOVE ON HER” (with matching excitement on your face) and based on her response possibly continue the conversation…Yea, this answer might involve a bit of talking…though mones can help her based on her answer. it’s just a thought, and at least you will have more information for your problem…mones can’t fix everything, but if you really get to the heart of the issue, they might surely be able to help. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2015, 2:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/5 "2015-09-29T14:30:14Z")
Give her IShine. The objective is to let her shine. You don’t need to encourage her to show more skin. That’s a bad move mister. Showing some skin is not a good way to judge one girl’s confidence level. If she’s comfortable with not showing a lot of skin then let her be. Remember, a comfortable girl is sexier even if less skin is exposed. But if the objective is to seduce her, you should do the TUTH then. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2015, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/6 "2015-09-29T20:22:56Z")
> [@Dee\_A](#): > > Showing some skin is not a good way to judge one girl’s confidence level. If she’s comfortable with not showing a lot of skin then let her be. Remember, a comfortable girl is sexier even if less skin is exposed. DEE nailed it here!! it seems there may still be something missing from the equation, but her recommendations are pretty solid, she knows her stuff. I hope everything sorts out, sorry I couldn’t be of more use. ---
**Author:** ![jazzysax](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bbe5ce/32.png) [@jazzysax](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jazzysax)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2015, 1:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/7 "2015-11-30T01:14:27Z")
Thanks Gals! her birthday is coming up, and I really want to help her with pheros. I’m her 4th boyfriend and all the others have been abusive which is why I think she feels self conscious. We’ve been only dating 6 months so that could also be it. I never considered instant shine as a woman confidence booster. I always though IS/A was the way to go. ---
**Author:** ![Lillian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lillian/32/1269_2.png) [@Lillian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lillian)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2015, 8:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gf-is-self-conscious/64869/8 "2015-11-30T08:51:50Z")
That might be all the reason to take it slow…shrug you can’t rush comfort, but you can encourage it