# Ghosting: what is happening on the other end, for the people who don't notice you? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 6, 2015, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133 "2015-04-06T13:13:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![blackshaman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ac8455/32.png) [@blackshaman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blackshaman)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2015, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/1 "2015-04-06T13:13:24Z")
I have been reading up on things and come across this ghosting phenomena (I believe I may have done it once as well). I am interested to know if it has been discussed as to what is happening on the other end of the situation, ie the people who do not see, acknowledge, notice you. Do they ignore you, are they afraid to look, do you literally disapear? When you have ghosted and tried direct communications, what has been the reaction? Hmmm… ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2015, 4:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/2 "2015-04-06T16:19:52Z")
> [@blackshaman](#): > > I have been reading up on things and come across this ghosting phenomena (I believe I may have done it once as well). > > I am interested to know if it has been discussed as to what is happening on the other end of the situation, ie the people who do not see, acknowledge, notice you. Do they ignore you, are they afraid to look, do you literally disapear? When you have ghosted and tried direct communications, what has been the reaction? > > Hmmm… Yes, there are tons of posts on ghosting here on the board. Read up on it for a half hour or so and you will get a good feel for what it is. It happens sometimes, even when you are being careful about your personal dosages. It has happened blatantly to me a couple of times. Once was a time I was at a rock and roll show downtown at a large nightclub. It was a popular band and I knew it was going to be crowded and wild so I went with a high dose of [P75](https://a314.com/product/p75/) and tuth. It was like I was literally invisible. People were literally walking right into me like I wasnt there. It wasnt the odd drunk guy either. Every 2-3 minutes someone was stepping on my foot or bumping into me or falling into me. I was getting pissed off, so I eventually left. The other time I went to a networking event (business) that I knew there would be many attractive single ladies. It was after work in a happy hour type setting. I wore A314 from earlier, but then bumped it with 4 sprays of tuth.(too much) I tried to talk to about 20 different women and all I got were smarmy attitudes, courtesy laughs, and awkward blowoffs. Guys were excluding me a bit from conversations as well. Ever walk up to a group of people talking at a party and stand next to them and they dont “invite” you in to the conversation? Awkward. Best advice if you want to salvage the evening is to go to the bathroom and scrub the mones off as best you can. This still may not help as your first impressions may still be plaguing you. You may just have to write it off and call it a night. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2015, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/3 "2015-04-06T17:39:41Z")
> [@blackshaman](#): > > I am interested to know if it has been discussed as to what is happening on the other end of the situation, ie the people who do not see, acknowledge, notice you. Do they ignore you, are they afraid to look, do you literally disapear? When you have ghosted and tried direct communications, what has been the reaction? > > Hmmm… It would depend on the individual, the particular pheros involved and the situation but it could be all of these and more. One example I can think-of is the recoiling “keep the-fuck away from him!” ghosting you might get fro an OD of an overt Androstenone product like TUTH or IJ and the more gentle, “no, I’ll leave him alone - he clearly has a lot on his mind and shouldn’t be bothered” sort-of ghosting that you can get from too much A314. ---
**Author:** ![blackshaman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ac8455/32.png) [@blackshaman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blackshaman)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2015, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/4 "2015-04-06T21:03:48Z")
Thank you CP and mc. So it’s not so much that they can consciously smell the pheros and covers, but more that something is wrong? I am wondering what the other people would be experiencing ie do they see you or do they ignore you. I know its hypothetical/hard to say. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2017, 3:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/5 "2017-05-27T15:18:39Z")
> [@blackshaman](#): > > Thank you CP and mc. > > So it’s not so much that they can consciously smell the pheros and covers, but more that something is wrong? > > I am wondering what the other people would be experiencing ie do they see you or do they ignore you. > > I know its hypothetical/hard to say. I’ve worn mixes that caused me to be disinterested in socializing with other people to which I found myself walking passed people trying hard not to make eye contact or invoke friendliness. I imagine ghosting works like this, like the target just gets a vibe that they don’t want to interact with the wearer at that time. so they avoid them.. Just my opinion as I have no idea what it’s like to be ghosted. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2017, 4:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/6 "2017-05-27T16:14:23Z")
All of that can happen and more, depending on person/environment - OD response varies widely between individuals. Contact sometimes closes the gap but response can be edgy/uncomfortable/avoidant or the ghosting can trip into aggressive. Best one I ever had was a good ten feet semicircle of empty space around me in an otherwise heaving bar. Time to add some socials! ---
**Author:** ![rtj666](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/71c47a/32.png) [@rtj666](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rtj666)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2017, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/7 "2017-05-27T17:59:42Z")
> [@mobocaster](#): > > Best one I ever had was a good ten feet semicircle of empty space around me in an otherwise heaving bar. Time to add some socials! Are you sure that wasn’t the Vindaloo? 😉 😃 ---
**Author:** ![ScentHound](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scenthound/32/1840_2.png) [@ScentHound](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScentHound)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2017, 6:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/8 "2017-05-27T18:09:59Z")
Carry a togo of P96 whenever you try out a new mix/dosage. P96 is the ultimate buffer of both none and rone. TAC will also buffer none but I’m not sure if it will buffer rone equally well.. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2017, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/9 "2017-05-27T22:13:37Z")
> [@ScentHound](#): > > Carry a togo of P96 whenever you try out a new mix/dosage. P96 is the ultimate buffer of both none and rone. > TAC will also buffer none but I’m not sure if it will buffer rone equally well.. Great advice! ---
**Author:** ![ScentHound](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scenthound/32/1840_2.png) [@ScentHound](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScentHound)\ **Post date:** [June 1, 2017, 12:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ghosting-what-is-happening-on-the-other-end-for-the-people-who-dont-notice-you/64133/10 "2017-06-01T12:01:37Z")
> [@rtj666](#): > > Are you sure that wasn’t the Vindaloo? 😉 😃 I almost DIED from eating a kill-rated vindaloo om Curry Road in Manchester.. I now know why the dish ends on ‘LOO’!!