# Girl once attracted to me....ignores me **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 6, 2009, 5:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433 "2009-07-06T05:34:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![merridew87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/91b2a8/32.png) [@merridew87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/merridew87)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 5:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433/1 "2009-07-06T05:34:53Z")
The thing is that I bought pheromones from Smartmones Ammunition and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)… And I used both on a girl and she stared at me for a couple of days That was wonderful… This happened just the week after my mother died this year on Feb. She stared at me playing with the hair…and I am infatuated with her… Well now she has a boyfriend and he is handsome… I am going to go back to Mexicali since I am studying in Guadalajara for two years… Right now iam using some subliminal mp3s to change…right now I feel depressive… I cannot change things… I want to be extroverted …I want to love myself… You see i want my mother back…but I cant… This girl does not like me… I am going back to do some course on NLP and EFT and change… I cannot take a course in here since I do not have money Everytime that I pass by and I see her in her car she does not say hi… She ignores me…and she knows that i like her… ---
**Author:** ![Taibo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/taibo/32/1396_2.png) [@Taibo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Taibo)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 5:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433/2 "2009-07-06T05:41:45Z")
Well when she was staring at you, what did you do? Did you talk to her or ask her out? If you didn’t then she probably thinks you didn’t like her at time and she moved on with another guy. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 7:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433/3 "2009-07-06T07:10:56Z")
I’m also an introvert by nature, with some extrovert qualities on some days if I’m lucky but I’m usually fairly shy. However, I can feel your pain about losing your mom too. It’s very hard, and I just lost mine in May so still very recent, but all I can say is that if you can try to go seek the help of a therapist. I did and it helped going through a group therapy session, being around people who are also feeling the same way you are makes you feel better. Knowing that you’re not alone in this pain helps in a way, but of course it’s still hard. However, we both have to remain strong. As far as seeking help to increase your self esteem and be more outgoing, I think that’s awesome and nothing wrong with self improvement. However, it’s not your fault that you’re an introvert. People are just born with different personalities. I had asked my therapist why some kids are born this way, and she assured me that some kids are just born this way so not your fault. So as mentioned, trying to help yourself out is a great idea. However, also realize that it’s normal by nature. As far as the girl goes, please share with us some more information regarding the situation the two of you once shared and how it might’ve changed. If you think there’s no hope in having a chance with her, I can say for sure just forget about her as dwelling on the would’ve should’ve’s won’t help you as my therapist also mentioned. > [@merridew87](#): > > The thing is that I bought pheromones from Smartmones > > Ammunition and Instant Female Magic… > > And I used both on a girl and she stared at me for a couple of days > > That was wonderful… > > This happened just the week after my mother died this year on Feb. > > She stared at me playing with the hair…and I am infatuated with her… > > Well now she has a boyfriend and he is handsome… > > I am going to go back to Mexicali since I am studying in Guadalajara for two years… > > Right now iam using some subliminal mp3s to change…right now I feel depressive… > > I cannot change things… > > I want to be extroverted …I want to love myself… > > You see i want my mother back…but I cant… > > This girl does not like me… > > I am going back to do some course on NLP and EFT and change… > > I cannot take a course in here since I do not have money > > Everytime that I pass by and I see her in her car she does not say hi… > > She ignores me…and she knows that i like her… ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 9:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433/4 "2009-07-06T09:58:16Z")
Ah dunno, you just said she currently has a BF, used to like you but is ignoring you now. Think about it, she’s behaving right and is a girl of integrity. If she was your GF, wouldn’t want her to steer clear of guys trying to hit on her, especially ones she was interested in before being your GF? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 10:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433/5 "2009-07-06T10:44:16Z")
True as well, maybe she does want to say hi but I mean c’mon! Girls who show their boyfriends respect are HARD to come by nowadays. So this is obviously a pretty good piece of advice and common sense regarding how a good girl should act. So she’s probably just showing her man respect, which is good. > [@Gegogi](#): > > Ah dunno, you just said she currently has a BF, used to like you but is ignoring you now. Think about it, she’s behaving right and is a girl of integrity. If she was your GF, wouldn’t want her to steer clear of guys trying to hit on her, especially ones she was interested in before being your GF? ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2009, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-once-attracted-to-me-ignores-me/30433/6 "2009-07-06T23:19:45Z")
Oneitis is a bad place to be. All the energy you spend being consumed by this woman can be put to better use in finding a wonderful gal that is available.