# Girl Unsure of Feelings, Low Self-esteem **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 14, 2009, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049 "2009-04-14T18:44:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![FastJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/7c8e57/32.png) [@FastJ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FastJ)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 2:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/21 "2009-04-24T02:39:16Z")
> [@total1989](#): > > the question i ask myself is do i like her for her, or do i like her because she was/is a challenge > > When i think quality wise she is lacking in some places, but they say love is blind… That it is. The real question though is, can you answer your own question honestly. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/22 "2009-04-24T02:43:05Z")
> [@xev](#): > > You might think about the long term ramifications of starting a relationship with someone with low self-esteem…do you know why she has this problem? ya i completely agree, every guy has a personality type that he does better with (there’s actually a whole school of seduction based on this) for me i am horrible with low self esteem women and cranky women even tho a buddy of mine goes for these types. From my experience these types of women tend to need constant reassurance which may end up being like a part time job for you (im talkin from experience here folks, no disrespect to women as i’ve had self esteem issues for the majority of my life) ---
**Author:** ![total1989](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/48db29/32.png) [@total1989](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/total1989)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/23 "2009-04-24T02:55:19Z")
> [@meow333x](#): > > ya i completely agree, every guy has a personality type that he does better with (there’s actually a whole school of seduction based on this) > for me i am horrible with low self esteem women and cranky women even tho a buddy of mine goes for these types. From my experience these types of women tend to need constant reassurance which may end up being like a part time job for you (im talkin from experience here folks, no disrespect to women as i’ve had self esteem issues for the majority of my life) Yea, I get what you mean, tell-tale signs of insecurity, one second shes like im so pretty, next second shes saying her friend is prettier than her. ---
**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/24 "2009-04-24T03:08:55Z")
> [@total1989](#): > > Yea, I get what you mean, tell-tale signs of insecurity, one second shes like im so pretty, next second shes saying her friend is prettier than her. wow that almost sounds bipolar man. lol no seriously it goes deeper than that. people in general want to find in others what they don’t have in themselves. and the less they have it the more they dig for it. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 3:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/25 "2009-04-24T03:20:47Z")
> [@total1989](#): > > If you read double your dating, … Guess I’ll have to try getting some book learning. Thanks for the hint. ---
**Author:** ![deeddy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/deeddy/32/1779_2.png) [@deeddy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/deeddy)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 6:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/26 "2009-04-24T06:43:22Z")
I didn’t have any time to read the thread to the end, but I would suggest not pushing your luck with TUTH. All she needed was [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). This one was a neglected gem in my collection until I had the very first chance to try it. I had exactly the same situation and was amazed by its results! She needs some masculine warmth and safety and that’s where Instant Gentleman comes in… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![total1989](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/48db29/32.png) [@total1989](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/total1989)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/27 "2009-04-24T21:58:42Z")
Well she is def feeling a fear of loss, txted me last night for a little, then i said im busy now, wasnt even 9:30am this morning and i get another text from her. I will try a314 and instant gentleman, this weekend when i see her ---
**Author:** ![pherophreak](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherophreak/32/1531_2.png) [@pherophreak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherophreak)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2009, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049/28 "2009-04-24T22:51:02Z")
> [@total1989](#): > > Well she is def feeling a fear of loss, txted me last night for a little, then i said im busy now, wasnt even 9:30am this morning and i get another text from her. I will try a314 and instant gentleman, this weekend when i see her Pushing is effective, but dont overuse it or it will be overly affective and you could wind up pushing her too far. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girl-unsure-of-feelings-low-self-esteem/28049.md?page=1)