# Girly advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [April 5, 2011, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girly-advice/49717 "2011-04-05T06:13:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Like7UP\_nVerhaditNeverwil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ce73a5/32.png) [@Like7UP\_nVerhaditNeverwil](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Like7UP_nVerhaditNeverwil)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2011, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girly-advice/49717/1 "2011-04-05T06:13:41Z")
Recently me and my cousin have been going out to get girls numbers and we been doing pretty good but I realized some girls don’t hook to my approach, I hate having to make excuses to talk to them and I like to be direct where my cousin does the opposite.I know there are different types of girls.I am trying to learn an indirect(which I find super difficult)approach in order to get more success. I don’t want any pick up lines, but rather some advice from guys and girls of situation you been in where it all seem natural like you weren’t even looking to to get a number but things went pretty smooth that you got or gave your number out. example.Went in a store to look at shirts happen to be two cute girls in that area folding cloths on the discount table.So my cousin grabs this shirt thats tamarin orange and I thought it was hideous, i try stopping him from buying it but he wasn’t taking it so I involved the two girls of course there being nice and what not and I tease em on just trying to make a sale etc.We move em all around the store trying on things just having fun…I think I even grab some real ugly shirts just for the fun of it.We never ended up buying anythign but we left with there numbers.the whole thing felt like we got there number not becuase there looks but because they actually enjoyed our company and we saved them from there boredom. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2011, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girly-advice/49717/2 "2011-04-05T20:16:08Z")
The best line that works EVERY-TIME without exception for me, is I say hi 🙂. Then I comment about something situational: OMG I thought I was having the most fun here, but you guys (always call them guys at first), wow you guys look the most excited around (this works particularly well if they look bored). Pause then crack a smile. NEVER base any interactions on looks. By basing it on looks you are saying she has more value than yourself. How would you know? She could be a horrible person but because she has a nice butt you are telling her she is better than you. However, and this is where it gets tricky, never also waste good openers on someone you don’t want moaning your name later either. I talk to everyone, but I use my game for those I want to bang. After you use an opener like above you should be prepared to use a couple more situational stacks. Keep talking though and within 5 minutes you will know if she is worth your time. Is she smiling, interacting, body turned in? These are all IOI’s and set the hook. If she is turned away and giving one word answers, looking around and bored then your opener didn’t hook her. Use comedy, but do not put on a show. You cannot teach natural conversation, so just have a natural conversation. Be prepared to do ALL THE TALKING for at least 20-30 minutes. After that stage you’ll need to move into isolation and comfort. You can set up the opener by building rapport before you even get there. You’ll want to use hypnotic rapport which essentially is following her movements but unlike a mirror there is a short three second delay. If she brushed her hair, three seconds later you brush your hair. Watch her breathing and get in tune with it. After a few minutes of doing this she will get the feeling like she knows you before you even approach. Know this though: If she catches you its over. So be gentle about it and always use a slight delay. You are not mimicking her, just building a connection. Hope this helps. ---
**Author:** ![Like7UP\_nVerhaditNeverwil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ce73a5/32.png) [@Like7UP\_nVerhaditNeverwil](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Like7UP_nVerhaditNeverwil)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2011, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/girly-advice/49717/3 "2011-04-05T22:40:19Z")
I forget what book I read about mirroring body language for report but I remember it saying something like if she crosses her left leg over you want to do the same with the opposite leg\> I was in ged class and there was this really anoy girl that like me and we sat at the same table(unfortunately)but I notice she did lots of he same things if I scratched my face she would do it a few seconds later\>I notice this a lot in her and then I started noticing it in other people as well.weird thing after a while I actually stated liking the girl and we became friends. I actually have my own version of that opener, but it goes Like gee You guys look more fun then a Friday night bingo at the senor center, it always works if you bring the right energy to people who look like there going to die if they don’t find something exciting hahaha actually didn’t even remember that untill now…good times 🙂