# Going out as a single. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 19, 2010, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/going-out-as-a-single/36390 "2010-02-19T21:32:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hercs63](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8c91f0/32.png) [@hercs63](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hercs63)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/going-out-as-a-single/36390/1 "2010-02-19T21:32:38Z")
Most of my mates are busy this weekend, so therefore may be tempted to go out to a bar on my own tomorrow for a couple of drinks. Now what should I use, any recommendations, Pls??? My signature contains what Phero’s I’ve got… ---
**Author:** ![stevios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@stevios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stevios)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 9:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/going-out-as-a-single/36390/2 "2010-02-19T21:51:00Z")
This is going to sound like a really nobby reply, but what are you trying to achieve? 🙂 And are you going for a city bar where people aren’t massively friendly (e.g. London, don’t shout at me for my generalisation, I know lots of people in London are friendly!) or somewhere where people are more up for a laugh with strangers (e.g. Newcastle)? Or a small town? And are you going to a bar where music is so loud you have to shout or a more chilled place? Looking at what you’ve got, in my few months experience: **For starting to speak to people and conversation flowing:** A314 for confidence, IS, and IO. Not sure on your age but for me (nearly 36) 2 drops of A314, IS x 4 and IO x4 does the trick. You’ll have to be the conversation starter though. Alternative option: A314 and CTTM2 and IS. With CTTM2 I get more people open on me than with IO or IH though the emphasis is still on me. **For attraction:** I’ve only just got [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and only have one experience of it so far but I’m sure it is legendary for a reason. I’m very tempted to throw some IH on too when I get used to using it on its own. Ammo + IH + IS I’m imagining is going to be quite awesome. **For sitting having a pint and not feeling self-conscious:** A314 and IS I think location is important - it can dictate the vibe you want to give off. In the UK I had nights out clubbing in London where I think A314 would have been amazing and nights out clubbing in Newcastle where Ammo would have been equally special. I can’t think of many nights in Newcastle where I’d have chosen A314 over Ammo though. (If anyone in Newcastle reads this don’t take it the wrong way - I just found status was less of an issue there than some London clubs.) TUTH I struggle to get along with so haven’t really used it enough in a public situation to give an opinion on and I’ve not used anything else you’ve listed. Good luck, and let us know how you get on! ---
**Author:** ![hercs63](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/8c91f0/32.png) [@hercs63](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hercs63)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/going-out-as-a-single/36390/3 "2010-02-19T23:54:25Z")
Well, in Manchester, actually. Possibly, go to a bar, then hopefully some females are aware of my presence & then have a chat with me, without me being self-consusus about being Mr billy no-mates…🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2010, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/going-out-as-a-single/36390/4 "2010-02-20T00:20:21Z")
> [@hercs63](#): > > Well, in Manchester, actually. > Possibly, go to a bar, then hopefully some females are aware of my presence & then have a chat with me, without me being self-consusus about being Mr billy no-mates…🙂 You actually have a situation that you could turn in your favor. Instead of using that as a reason to be self-concious, use it as a reason to approach more people. Especially if you are not in a bar where you know too many people. State you are new to the area (if you don’t go out there often than you are!) and are simply looking to meet some people. Play that up and you could have a good night. A314 is great for making first impressions, maybe pair it with some IO and Shine to make it more social. Bring along a to-go of TUTH if the moment calls for it 🙂.