# Good books/resources for body language and pickup

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 7, 2008, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983 "2008-09-07T02:00:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![tfer15](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfer15/32/711_2.png) [@tfer15](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfer15)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/1 "2008-09-07T02:00:43Z")

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if any of you can suggest good books on how to use body language and something good for game, please let me know.

please include title and author and if you can where to get it at.

thank you

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**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/2 "2008-09-07T02:09:10Z")

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best thing to do is get out there, practice makes perfect. they can only say no.

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**Author:** ![guitarz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ba9def/32.png) [@guitarz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/guitarz)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/3 "2008-09-07T04:20:04Z")

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PIckup —

The mystery method

Better yet buy the Venusian Arts Handbook from [Amazon.com](http://Amazon.com)

Body Language -

John alexander : how to become an alpha male

Also Try Revelation by Venusian arts which covers everything From Body language and pick up to basic communication

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**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 4:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/4 "2008-09-07T04:50:11Z")

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eric at [approachanxiety.com](http://approachanxiety.com) has some good pieces on this  
read the archives at [fastseduction.com](http://fastseduction.com)  
google sean messenger  
corey skyy  
posts here by tacitus on subcommunication and by steveo on game generally

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 1:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/5 "2008-09-07T13:40:36Z")

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> **[The Science of Influence: How to Get Anyone to Say "Yes" in 8 Minutes or Less!:...](https://www.amazon.com/Science-Influence-Anyone-Minutes-Less/dp/0471670510)**
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> The Science of Influence: How to Get Anyone to Say Yes in 8 Minutes or Less! \[Hogan, Kevin\] on Amazon.com. \*FREE\* shipping on qualifying offers. The Science of Influence: How to Get Anyone to Say Yes in 8 Minutes or Less!

A favorite of Jasmins and one of mine as well 😉

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**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2008, 1:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/6 "2008-09-07T13:52:34Z")

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Body language project. It’s not a physical book, you have to download it as an e book but it’s the best book I’ve read about body language. Most body language concentrate on buisness body language whilst the body language project is all about courtship body language.

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [September 8, 2008, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/7 "2008-09-08T17:39:55Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> [Amazon.com: The Science of Influence: How to Get Anyone to Say “Yes” in 8 Minutes or Less!: Kevin Hogan: Books](http://www.amazon.com/Science-Influence-Anyone-Minutes-Less/dp/0471670510)
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> A favorite of Jasmins and one of mine as well 😉

I hung out with Kevin when I was in Vegas in June/July. We went out and he is a very cool guy.

I also HIGHLY recommend: [Amazon.com: The Definitive Book of Body Language: Barbara Pease, Allan Pease: Books](http://www.amazon.com/Definitive-Book-Body-Language/dp/0553804723/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1220895569&sr=8-1)

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**Author:** ![Bonecrkr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9d8465/32.png) [@Bonecrkr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bonecrkr)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 3:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/8 "2008-09-09T03:59:46Z")

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Lance Mason’s stuff is very good but very expensive. Sean Messenger has some good stuff that is cheap as hell.

I’ve heard some good things about the product Thundercat has out (Pure Personality). I haven’t gotten my hands on it yet though.

MOST of the seduction community stuff is utterly worthless crap. Worse than crap…stuff that hurts your game tremendously.

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**Author:** ![PheroQuirk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/9e8a1a/32.png) [@PheroQuirk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroQuirk)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 4:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/9 "2008-09-09T04:07:50Z")

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[Subtle Alpha Dominance](http://therawness.com/subtle-alpha-dominance/) i liked this clip, though he was a bit mean.

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**Author:** ![Eldros](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/eldros/32/279_2.png) [@Eldros](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Eldros)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 4:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/10 "2008-09-09T04:08:10Z")

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> [@How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333):
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> Multiple looks. Women have much better If you catch us looking at you more than once, it’s probably becuse we’re attracted and we can’t help it. You catching us looking at all. Women look at you fast. If you catch us looking at you, this may be because we’re attracted. Not always (I get horrified when I see someone catching me looking when I’m not actually interested), but often. You guys have muscle, but we have social muscles. WHen you catch us being less than discreet, we often mean it and/…

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**Author:** ![tfer15](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfer15/32/711_2.png) [@tfer15](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfer15)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 4:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/11 "2008-09-09T04:34:34Z")

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Nice guys.

thanks alot.

warms my heart to see how much people care. lol. kool.

thanks for the info.

hope some books arnt to expensive. lol

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**Author:** ![nosemolester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nosemolester/32/1782_2.png) [@nosemolester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nosemolester)\
**Post date:** [September 9, 2008, 1:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/12 "2008-09-09T13:38:04Z")

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very good recommendations fastseduction wouldn’t work on me.

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**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\
**Post date:** [September 11, 2008, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/13 "2008-09-11T17:18:16Z")

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good suggestions guys! great resources

also checkout [pickuppodcast.com](http://pickuppodcast.com)  
my friends are running this.  
They’ve gotten really big alreaedy.. really fast.  
They hang out with Mystery all the time and the rest of the well-known PUAs.  
Were on Maxim (satellite radio) and Playboy.

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**Author:** ![tfer15](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfer15/32/711_2.png) [@tfer15](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfer15)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2008, 4:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/14 "2008-09-16T04:41:37Z")

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so im reading this book called… The Difinitive Book of Body Language… pretty intense. probly the best book to read besides the mystery method.  
well worth the time.

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [September 16, 2008, 5:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/15 "2008-09-16T05:33:43Z")

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> [@SteveO](#):
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> I hung out with Kevin when I was in Vegas in June/July. We went out and he is a very cool guy.
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> I also HIGHLY recommend: [Amazon.com: The Definitive Book of Body Language: Barbara Pease, Allan Pease: Books](http://www.amazon.com/Definitive-Book-Body-Language/dp/0553804723/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1220895569&sr=8-1)

> [@tfer15](#):
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> so im reading this book called… The Difinitive Book of Body Language… pretty intense. probly the best book to read besides the mystery method.  
> well worth the time.

Yep that’s what I said

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**Author:** ![savior1110](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9d8465/32.png) [@savior1110](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/savior1110)\
**Post date:** [September 17, 2008, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/16 "2008-09-17T03:08:14Z")

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if anyone uses torrents, you can pm and ill give you a link for a zip file that contains like 40 books about body language and persuasion

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**Author:** ![Terrah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/terrah/32/529_2.png) [@Terrah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Terrah)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 2:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/17 "2009-08-06T14:31:03Z")

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Try this - FASCINATING!! ;D

> **[Undercover Sex Signals: A Pickup Guide For Guys: Lowndes, Leil: 9780806527932:...](https://www.amazon.com/Undercover-Sex-Signals-Pickup-Guide/dp/0806527935)**
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> Undercover Sex Signals: A Pickup Guide For Guys \[Lowndes, Leil\] on Amazon.com. \*FREE\* shipping on qualifying offers. Undercover Sex Signals: A Pickup Guide For Guys

(u can get it off torrents)

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**Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 2:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/18 "2009-08-06T14:48:26Z")

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> [@tfer15](#):
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> Nice guys.
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> thanks alot.
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> warms my heart to see how much people care. lol. kool.
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> thanks for the info.
> 
> hope some books arnt to expensive. lol

One of the best things I have ever read and/or listened to is not a book on body language, but one on how to reprogram your mind.

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey is excellent. It may sound lame, but the CD’s are excellent to listen to, and truly present an effective means of communicating to others that seems to just transform how you interact with people in general. Its definitely worth a listen. I am of the occult mindset, and this particular product, when viewed in light of that kind of thought really opens up the mind.

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**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/19 "2009-08-06T15:53:12Z")

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The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

I’m reading through this one now, and I wish I had read it earlier. Fascinating mixture of male and female seductive roles.

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**Author:** ![Caramello](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/caramello/32/2412_2.png) [@Caramello](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Caramello)\
**Post date:** [August 6, 2009, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-books-resources-for-body-language-and-pickup/18983/20 "2009-08-06T17:01:01Z")

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Tyler Durden’s Blueprint.  
It’s not exactly about pickup methods or body language, since acting conscious about it is usually counter-productive.It’s about being confortable being **your real self**.🙂

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