# Good Evening, All! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 24, 2008, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167 "2008-07-24T01:29:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lulu\_luxe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/77aa72/32.png) [@lulu\_luxe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lulu_luxe)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/1 "2008-07-24T01:29:12Z")
I’m Lulu and I’m excited to learn about [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and how to use them. I haven’t tried any yet because I know there are many fakes and I want to do my research before I get started. Thanks for “listening”. Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/2 "2008-07-24T01:33:48Z")
Hey lulu babe!!! Welcome to the forum! I’m happy that more girlies are joining the forum! You haven’t tried pheros yet huh? prepare to get addicted babe lol! Now what effects or reactions are you looking for? it’ll help the gals recommend you stuff that’ll meet you’re expectations. Meanwhile, I highly suggest you try instant sexiness. It’s a great confidence booster. There are 2 types, instant sexiness a (angelina jolie type) and [instant sexiness b](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) (marilyn munroe type) so it’s up to you to choose which type of gal you are. But note, is-b only comes in full size. I’ll be checking this post again 😉 ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/3 "2008-07-24T01:40:49Z")
Hi Lulu welcome abroad. please tell us a bit more about yourself in order to qualify for the $15 GC. also tell us a bit more on what you Androtics [Pheromone Research](https://pheromonelabs.com/) elooking for in pheromones? date? relationship? or social?? after that we can then make some suggestions based on your situation and our experience 😛 have fun 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/4 "2008-07-24T01:45:46Z")
Hello Lulu, and welcome to this forum! I guess you made a great decision to wait, since indeed there are so many fake [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) out there. But dont worry, all item here are real and very effective too 🙂 Like selva and k24 just said, a little more about yourself would be very good and helpful here! Anything from your personality to some goals you want to achieve by trying some pheromones will be fine! So see you soon! ---
**Author:** ![lulu\_luxe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/77aa72/32.png) [@lulu\_luxe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lulu_luxe)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/5 "2008-07-24T01:58:53Z")
Well, I live in Chicago, which is a lot of fun except for how cold it gets. LOL. I work in an industry predominately ruled by men, but I do alright for myself and don’t have a desire to have my co-workers flirt with or want me anymore than they already do. I work in the entertainment industry on the tech side, so trust me, the same rules and code of conduct don’t apply. They have no problem hitting on me. I’m here because I want my ex back. I want him to trust me again, feel calm around me, and most importantly I want him to rip my f\*\*\*ing clothes off!! Or atleast make it very difficult to resist me. A little background on us: no, I didn’t cheat but we just weren’t getting along and I was traveling so much for work that a distance and resentment grew from him. I’m home now and I’m ready to try everything to get him back in my arms. And worse case scenario, give me a boost if I do end up having to hit the market again. I hope this was enough info. ---
**Author:** ![lulu\_luxe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/77aa72/32.png) [@lulu\_luxe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lulu_luxe)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 2:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/6 "2008-07-24T02:05:55Z")
Hello again! ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/7 "2008-07-24T03:31:36Z")
Sorry to hear what happened with your ex, shit happens in life. Anyways, hope things work out for you sweetie 🙂 But keep in mind, pheros wont change person’s thoughts about you. They just _enhance_ you. You should read this post > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… Alrighty, to make him feel relaxed, I find instant shine nice. It makes people around me in a light-happy mood, all smiley. if you want to drive him crazy, and rip your clothes off (lol!) Lust after me is great, but it apparently smells, due to high cops. So it’ll take some time and experiments to find your right amount in a sweet spot with a good cover scent. Instant honesty will help people open up, and it can be very intimate depending on discussion ofcourse (from posts I’ve read) But like I’ve mentioned give the instant line a go. Hardly anybody gets disappointed. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is a better start. Slow and steady wins the race right? lol When you first start off, don’t feel discouraged if you don’t get hits or if they are too subtle. You’re body is adjusting to your new signature, and so are other people. So give’em a chance lol. Have fun sweetie 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![lulu\_luxe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/77aa72/32.png) [@lulu\_luxe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lulu_luxe)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 4:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/8 "2008-07-24T04:08:59Z")
Yes, I probably should have prefaced my statement that I don’t expect miracles or think pheromones are some magikal potion meant to charm men unwittingly. LOL! What I would like is to make him feel safe, at ease, and/or calm around me. And ofcourse I’d be lying if I didn’t say I would also like to try and re-arouse his sexual feelings for me. I know he still has them so I kinda want give him a kick in the pants if you know what I mean. I’m open to any and all suggestions. Thank you all! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 4:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/9 "2008-07-24T04:31:44Z")
Hopefully one of the ladies will be back to give you their perspective but .. You kinda have several options: For the re-arousal part - Instant Sexiness a or b depending on your personality and what he goes for … the A version is more aggressive than the B version … depends on what kinda girl you are and/or what kinda girl he goes for … Instant Shine can help pick up both your mood and his … maybe help him to feel happy around you and happy to be around you … [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) can help generate feelings of connection and deeper conversation … but be ready for some _honest_ conversation … meaning you may not be happy with what you hear sometimes … But again these products only enhance you and possibly help you steer him … actually paddling that canoe will be up to you. ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 8:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/10 "2008-07-24T08:52:35Z")
Welcome to the forum! If you do go with the suggestions that the other members have made, I’d recommend you check out [Kitten's Curious Combos](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/kittens-curious-combos/6017) and [LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383) I’m sorry to hear what happened with your ex. Hopefully, pheros will help you either recapture his heart and form new meaningful relationships in your life. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 9:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/11 "2008-07-24T09:57:35Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest some socials, I find men respond well to the emotionally. IH IO and Ishine are great. I also suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) because every women should have a bottle of it. LAM is smelly as hell but great for getting the blood flowing in the right direction. If you have questions just ask. Look forward to chatting with you. 😃 **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![SiriusC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/siriusc/32/1764_2.png) [@SiriusC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SiriusC)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 12:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/12 "2008-07-24T12:35:15Z")
> [@](#): > > and most importantly I want him to rip my f\*\*\*ing clothes off!! then… > [@](#): > > I’d be lying if I didn’t say I would also like to try and re-arouse his sexual feelings for me. Haha, that’s hilarious! Be careful though. I’ve known guys to go back to ex’s for easy sex ONLY. The girls thought they were back in but the guys had understood that it was just sex. I hope the products help, though. Also, I think that you’ll find that there’s a lot of genuine people here, even if you think that these MIGHT be fake or even if you’ve purchased them & don’t get much of an effect. ---
**Author:** ![lulu\_luxe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/77aa72/32.png) [@lulu\_luxe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lulu_luxe)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/13 "2008-07-25T01:54:04Z")
Wow, thanks everyone. I’ve been learning alot and am looking forward to trying some of your suggestions. Any advice on mixing the Instant lines together? For example, how many sprays of IS, IS/a, IO? Again, thank you, I kindly await your advice. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SiriusC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/siriusc/32/1764_2.png) [@SiriusC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SiriusC)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 1:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-evening-all/16167/14 "2008-07-25T13:29:49Z")
> [@lulu\_luxe](#): > > Wow, thanks everyone. I’ve been learning alot and am looking forward to trying some of your suggestions. Any advice on mixing the Instant lines together? For example, how many sprays of IS, IS/a, Instant Openness? Again, thank you, I kindly await your advice. 🙂 From my very casual experience I would say try not to overdo it. I once put on maybe 8 different products for what I thought where all legit reasons. You’ll read reports of OD-ing. And it all seems to differ between individual people. Sometime 1 or 2 will be fine, sometimes you’'ll get better results with 4 or 5 shots. FOr your products I would say a solid 2 sprays each