# Good morning and hello **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 18, 2008, 6:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023 "2008-11-18T18:06:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![uleric](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/f1d935/32.png) [@uleric](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/uleric)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 6:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023/1 "2008-11-18T18:06:12Z")
Morning everyone, Name is Rick and I am 37 y/o out of Seattle. Im visiting the boards, and hoping to find some ‘help’ for me to reconnect with my wife again. Weve been married 12 years and she has changed a tremendous amount since we were originally dating. I am just hitting my stride sexually, wanting it more than I ever have in my lifetime, and she has decided that sex just isn’t her thing. Her preference would be to have sex once a year, but if I pester her enough, I can get it every couple weeks. I know this all sounds pretty common for a lot of guys… Anyway, I honestly do love the woman, and I don’t want this to be a reason for a divorce. Im hoping that I can find a way to get her in the mood easier, and what would be really nice… is if she took the initiative and jumped my bones instead of me having to ‘pester’ her. I was hoping that there might be a scent that would help my situation. Down and depressed in Seattle… Rick ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023/2 "2008-11-18T18:12:20Z")
Hi Rick and welcome, believe me there are lots of us in the same boat as yourself. Have a look at [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), Instant Honesty for warmth and communication. You may find Instant Shine to be a good pick me up. For the bedroom, Turn up the Heat, if you want something a little softer, then double strength ammo should fit the bill. have a search for bosshank, there is a really good link for married guys in his signature thread that I heartily recommend. There’s a good crowd of nice people on here, learn from them and enjoy it! ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 6:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023/3 "2008-11-18T18:26:37Z")
Hey Rick, welcome to the forum. You have my sympathies. I agree with all of diamond’s suggestions. I’d like to add Instant Honesty to your list, it will encourage deeper discussions than [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), which women need to bond. Bosshank’s links are good ,as diamond says. Here’s the one diamond refers to: [Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) Look for the Boss’s posts in the Men’s section (actually, he’s everywhere!) Good luck with you here… ---
**Author:** ![yasserthekid1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/yasserthekid1/32/1011_2.png) [@yasserthekid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/yasserthekid1)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 7:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023/4 "2008-11-18T19:02:15Z")
Hello Rick and welcome to the pherotalk’s forum… Yes, Diamond’s recommendations are the best way to solve your sexual problems man… I would add some [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), because as a personal experience, it’s AMAZING!!!.. anyways, welcome man and anything else, just ask the forum, we’ll be glad to help you ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2008, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023/5 "2008-11-18T21:35:23Z")
Hello Rick and welcome to the forum. > [@Robbie](#): > > Look for the Boss’s posts in the Men’s section (actually, he’s everywhere!) To include this thread … lol. > [@diamond](#): > > have a search for bosshank, there is a really good link for married guys in his signature thread that I heartily recommend. > [@Robbie](#): > > Bosshank’s links are good ,as diamond says. Here’s the one diamond refers to: [Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) Look for the Boss’s posts in the Men’s section (actually, he’s everywhere!) Man - I thought my ears were burning … and for good reason … lol. Seriously though, I hope the thread is useful. I just started it and after that a lot of smart people here added in. If you have a question ask here or in the mens forum. > [@diamond](#): > > There’s a good crowd of nice people on here, learn from them and enjoy it! Yes there are and we are always happy to help as best we can. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2008, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-morning-and-hello/23023/6 "2008-11-19T10:06:40Z")
Hello Rick Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I think you got some good suggestions. TUTH to arouse her and IH to create a more intimate connected feeling. Perhaps some IFM to get past last minute resistance as well. Keep in mind that your wife knows you natural mone signature and has preconditioned responses to you. It may take a few trys and playing with the amount you use to see full results. Dont over do it with TUTH though 1 to 3 sprays should do it. More can cause the OD effect (ghosting, crankiness, no response) even on those we know. **Your GC is on its way 😃** If you have questions just ask Tisha