# Good to Join **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 3, 2011, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-to-join/49132 "2011-03-03T21:09:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Annakay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@Annakay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Annakay)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2011, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-to-join/49132/1 "2011-03-03T21:09:19Z")
I really want to use this product to see the effects it will have on my friends and mostly my partner. Lately he has been very distracted and unfriendly.Could he attracted by someone else using this product. I hear only good testimonials about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and Im willing to give it a try. About me:I find that during this time of year people try to dominate me.In return I get so worried and stressed especially in my relationship.I want something to cause me to shine and feel sexy and in control at the same time. I already know how to dress but, I need that added push to make me my personality stand out. I sometimes am a bit shy and its difficult for me to express my feelings especially during intimacy. a) Your age ,So I am now 42 years old b) Sex (Female), c) General location (Toronto,Canada) and d) what you hope pheromones will do for you. I am optimist that this will enhance my ego, cause me to make successful strides as well as those around me and sets me on a new path to success Personally,I CANT WAIT TO TRY. I heard about Alter Ego ,dont know if you stock it, but I am good for the making and if theres a product that will suite my persona ,please recommend it for me. Annakay ---
**Author:** ![sugarplum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarplum/32/2259_2.png) [@sugarplum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarplum)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2011, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-to-join/49132/2 "2011-03-03T21:43:25Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! They do not carry alter ego here, but I recommend that you try something with TAL or androstenone. I have the same problem as you with people trying to dominate me and I am shy as well. Androstenone and TAL are more dominant pheromones so when I wear something like this people are friendly and respectful to me! They will probably make you feel more confident and in control as well. You can buy one of these molecules on their own and mix it with something less dominant to soften it like alpha androstenol, est, or TAH. I wouldn’t recommend wearing the less dominant pheromones on their own because it may make people push you around more. That is what happens to me anyway. You may be different so I don’t want to discourage experimentation, but to start off I think you will do well with TAL or androstenone. These molecules can have a sexual vibe also so I think they may be what you are looking for. I would recommend [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A to you, but that has been discontinued unfortunately so you will have to mix different molecules from here on your own. Have a read through the women’s forum, there is a thread on different “pheromone recipes” and you may find a mix that you want to create. Good luck and I hope you find something that works for you! ---
**Author:** ![Annakay](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ccd318/32.png) [@Annakay](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Annakay)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2011, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-to-join/49132/3 "2011-03-03T23:13:18Z")
Hey Sugar Plum, I am certainly open to your recommendation.Remember I am new and want to make sure it works at least the first time around.So if youre like me and this works for you then I may want to experiment with that and see what it does for me.I appreciate your response and look forward to some time soon share my experience with you. AnnaKay > [@sugarplum](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum! They do not carry alter ego here, but I recommend that you try something with TAL or androstenone. I have the same problem as you with people trying to dominate me and I am shy as well. Androstenone and TAL are more dominant pheromones so when I wear something like this people are friendly and respectful to me! They will probably make you feel more confident and in control as well. You can buy one of these molecules on their own and mix it with something less dominant to soften it like alpha androstenol, est, or TAH. I wouldn’t recommend wearing the less dominant pheromones on their own because it may make people push you around more. That is what happens to me anyway. You may be different so I don’t want to discourage experimentation, but to start off I think you will do well with TAL or androstenone. These molecules can have a sexual vibe also so I think they may be what you are looking for. I would recommend Instant Sexiness A to you, but that has been discontinued unfortunately so you will have to mix different molecules from here on your own. Have a read through the women’s forum, there is a thread on different “pheromone recipes” and you may find a mix that you want to create. Good luck and I hope you find something that works for you! ---
**Author:** ![sugarplum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarplum/32/2259_2.png) [@sugarplum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarplum)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2011, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-to-join/49132/4 "2011-03-03T23:29:33Z")
hello, If you wanna know what worked well for me, it was a little bit of androstenone along with a larger ratio of alpha androstenol. You only need a small concentration of androstenone so I recommended the 2.5 mcg. If you use too much it might make you crabby and cause bad reactions. You will probably need to experiment a little for the right ratios, but that is what seems to work well for me. When I added est to the mix, it didn’t work as well. I think est softened it too much. I haven’t tried TAL yet but I really want to. It isn’t in stock so you wouldn’t be able to get it for a while anyway! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2011, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-to-join/49132/5 "2011-03-08T00:51:21Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Annakay! I would recommend [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/a for you but as sugar said we are out of stock. In terms of using the advanced products to mix your own I would not recommend it since you are new and advanced products are non refundable. To make you feel comfortable with yourself I suggest you pick up instant sexiness/b and to give off a nice vibrant vibe pick up some instant shine. For deeper conversation and closeness instant honesty. **Your gc was issued! 😃**