# Got in to a relationship with pheromones, what if I stop using them? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 14, 2013, 2:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/got-in-to-a-relationship-with-pheromones-what-if-i-stop-using-them/59565 "2013-07-14T14:15:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![eduncho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f07891/32.png) [@eduncho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/eduncho)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2013, 2:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/got-in-to-a-relationship-with-pheromones-what-if-i-stop-using-them/59565/1 "2013-07-14T14:15:36Z")
So I got in to a serious relationship with a woman. I’ve been wearing [pheromones](https://a314.com/) since our first date which was months ago, I still wear pheromones every time we meet. From our perspective we are a good match, we think alike, we talk a lot and we seem to have very similiar interests and world views. So my question is what will happen if I stop using pheromones? I’m afraid to try it out, turning off the pheromones might ruin her sexual attraction towards me and her interest could fade. What should I do? Do I have to use pheromones for the rest of my life every time I’m with her? ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2013, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/got-in-to-a-relationship-with-pheromones-what-if-i-stop-using-them/59565/2 "2013-07-14T14:44:27Z")
> [@eduncho](#): > > So I got in to a serious relationship with a woman. I’ve been wearing pheromones since our first date which was months ago, I still wear pheromones every time we meet. From our perspective we are a good match, we think alike, we talk a lot and we seem to have very similiar interests and world views. So my question is what will happen if I stop using pheromones? I’m afraid to try it out, turning off the pheromones might ruin her sexual attraction towards me and her interest could fade. What should I do? Do I have to use pheromones for the rest of my life every time I’m with her? Pheromones are not the be all and end all of A healthy relationship, as long as you continue to make each other happy you will be set, pheromones can help things go a little smoother at times but it is you she is interested in not the cologne you wear. ---
**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2013, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/got-in-to-a-relationship-with-pheromones-what-if-i-stop-using-them/59565/3 "2013-07-15T18:02:36Z")
If the sex has been good and she respects you, cutting off the pheromones will have little effect. I base this on personal experience. Of course, a love affair loses its sexual heat after a year or two anyway. Later, you can use pheromones to re-spark the relationship. ---
**Author:** ![eduncho](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/f07891/32.png) [@eduncho](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/eduncho)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2013, 1:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/got-in-to-a-relationship-with-pheromones-what-if-i-stop-using-them/59565/4 "2013-07-18T13:16:44Z")
Thank you for the input 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2013, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/got-in-to-a-relationship-with-pheromones-what-if-i-stop-using-them/59565/5 "2013-07-19T10:08:56Z")
Super valid question, and GHOST and Whitehall have it right - she got her impression of you while you were using pheromones - but if you’ve upkept your relationship then not using them will not suddenly change her opinion of you. You know the whole “first impressions” thing 😉 Just keep a healthy relationship and always be congruent.