Hi mrbelfast
Hmm interesting that you find this forum by accident & you decided to join this forum for your interest in pheros here. So i see you have hits & misses with pheroline 
Well i got my answer to your situation there try AMMO for getting female attention & Instant Openness (Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314) for enabling ice breakers 
Here is a link about AMMO (AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314), Instant Openness & the other pheros : mens pheromone guide (Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15)