Hi Mountainbiker, thanks for providing some additional information.
I suggest you consider trying Ammo, which is a great alround attractant, and a good starting point.
I’d also like you to consider some of the socials - Instant Shine, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty - these will help draw people to you, make them feel at easy, and help them open up around you - this could be handy with these librarian types! 
I suggest you have a good read of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any additional questions.
When you starting using pheros, be sure to return and let us know about your results.
Tisha should be online soon to give you a gift certificate 