# Greetings from BC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 1, 2009, 6:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184 "2009-08-01T06:04:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![YwBandC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ywbandc/32/878_2.png) [@YwBandC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/YwBandC)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/1 "2009-08-01T06:04:23Z")
Hello everybody. As many new users, I’m completely new even to the idea of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). Spent the day researching online and I’m definitely eager to try it. I’m a 24 y.o. female, just recently moved from Russia to Canada - I’m an international student. As some may imagine, Russia isn’t the healthiest country in terms of social environment. I’m naturally overly hyper and - turns out - outgoing, but while in Russia I preferred to keep to myself, had a moderate circle of acquaintances and ‘hang-out friends’(no one in the ‘true best friend’ category as we moved a lot) and an engaging hobby that took a good amount of my time. I rarely happened or even wanted to meet new people. It was extremely boring and dull, but I generally have a very, so to say, self-sufficient personality and don’t need much to feel alright. Now in Canada, I’m finding that I’ve been missing… a lot. I’m surrounded by people I like, interesting and, well, just plain _normal_. Wasn’t so many of these before. I enjoy nice, warm, polite human beings, enjoy people smiling at me on the streets, appreciate ‘hello’s’ from complete strangers - I suppose that doesn’t make sense to many of you(as it would be a norm to most users here, I assume), but that difference in behaviour that comes from small things feels incredibly drastic to me. I had no idea - but I LOVE people. A lot of things could make me feel good - but people were rarely among them. It changed. Sorry for the long rant, but who doesn’t like talking about themselves? 😛 I have to say this - I’m wishing for pheromones to be capable of miracles, but my expectations are - hopefully - within reason. First thing I want is more attention from two of my teachers. One I want to be more ‘cooperative’, more, perhaps, attentive and personal to me - he makes me feel a bit intimidated, and this is uncomfortable to a certain degree. He is a great guy and a great artist - I want friendlier, more open and intense communication. So much I want to learn from him. 🙄 Second teacher - I’d say it’s already safe to put him on my ‘buddy’ list, we interact on a fairly personal, sometimes flirty level. I love being singled out(well, just a bit) from other students, and I’m really, really needy when it comes to his attention. I’d like more of spicy flirting and, if it’s there, a little bit of sexual tension. Secondly… I know it’s a long shot and wrong approach, but I wonder if pheromones could help with my occasional mood swings and improve my overall attitude. It’s kind of funny or stupid, but after being in a wonderful mood for a couple of days I’d feel really down for no reason - like a withdrawal. It’s annoying and burdening. And boy, do I wish to be able to stop myself before I do something stupid. Probably not an easy fix, heh, but I would like to feel more collected and eventually figure out a way to _stop_ when I ought to. Again, sorry for lotsa letters and bad grammar… :o ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/2 "2009-08-01T06:16:20Z")
Hey, welcome! It seems to me that your need is far more for social reasons than attraction, yes? If so, I can definitely say that IO, IH, and IS may really help you out. These are our [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) and are meant to help you out the most in this department, although I can also see them helping you to attract others sexually as well by making you seem really open socially (what guy doesn’t like that in a girl?) IO serves as the social ice breaker while also helping the conversation flow, IH serves to deepen social relationships by making people feel comforted while in your presence (like if they’ve known you for quite awhile,) and IS serves as a feel good product for you and those around you, but it also helps with confidence. If you want something for general attraction IS A and B are good options, but since you also stated something about wanting to feel good besides IS MEO-EST is also a good option although this is something you’d get after gaining more experience with these products just to make sure that you understand them pretty well. If you need more help you can always go here: [Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) I hope this helps! > [@YwBandC](#): > > Hello everybody. As many new users, I’m completely new even to the idea of pheromones. Spent the day researching online and I’m definitely eager to try it. > > I’m a 24 y.o. female, just recently moved from Russia to Canada - I’m an international student. As some may imagine, Russia isn’t the healthiest country in terms of social environment. I’m naturally overly hyper and - turns out - outgoing, but while in Russia I preferred to keep to myself, had a moderate circle of acquaintances and ‘hang-out friends’(no one in the ‘true best friend’ category as we moved a lot) and an engaging hobby that took a good amount of my time. I rarely happened or even wanted to meet new people. It was extremely boring and dull, but I generally have a very, so to say, self-sufficient personality and don’t need much to feel alright. > Now in Canada, I’m finding that I’ve been missing… a lot. I’m surrounded by people I like, interesting and, well, just plain _normal_. Wasn’t so many of these before. I enjoy nice, warm, polite human beings, enjoy people smiling at me on the streets, appreciate ‘hello’s’ from complete strangers - I suppose that doesn’t make sense to many of you(as it would be a norm to most users here, I assume), but that difference in behaviour that comes from small things feels incredibly drastic to me. I had no idea - but I LOVE people. A lot of things could make me feel good - but people were rarely among them. > It changed. > > Sorry for the long rant, but who doesn’t like talking about themselves? 😛 > I have to say this - I’m wishing for pheromones to be capable of miracles, but my expectations are - hopefully - within reason. > > First thing I want is more attention from two of my teachers. One I want to be more ‘cooperative’, more, perhaps, attentive and personal to me - he makes me feel a bit intimidated, and this is uncomfortable to a certain degree. He is a great guy and a great artist - I want friendlier, more open and intense communication. So much I want to learn from him. 🙄 > Second teacher - I’d say it’s already safe to put him on my ‘buddy’ list, we interact on a fairly personal, sometimes flirty level. I love being singled out(well, just a bit) from other students, and I’m really, really needy when it comes to his attention. I’d like more of spicy flirting and, if it’s there, a little bit of sexual tension. > > Secondly… I know it’s a long shot and wrong approach, but I wonder if pheromones could help with my occasional mood swings and improve my overall attitude. It’s kind of funny or stupid, but after being in a wonderful mood for a couple of days I’d feel really down for no reason - like a withdrawal. It’s annoying and burdening. And boy, do I wish to be able to stop myself before I do something stupid. Probably not an easy fix, heh, but I would like to feel more collected and eventually figure out a way to _stop_ when I ought to. > > Again, sorry for lotsa letters and bad grammar… :o ---
**Author:** ![YwBandC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ywbandc/32/878_2.png) [@YwBandC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/YwBandC)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/3 "2009-08-01T06:34:38Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > Hey, welcome! It seems to me that your need is far more for social reasons than attraction, yes? If so, I can definitely say that IO, IH, and IS may really help you out. These are our social pheromones and are meant to help you out the most in this department, although I can also see them helping you to attract others sexually as well by making you seem really open socially (what guy doesn’t like that in a girl?) > > IO serves as the social ice breaker while also helping the conversation flow, IH serves to deepen social relationships by making people feel comforted while in your presence (like if they’ve known you for quite awhile,) and IS serves as a feel good product for you and those around you, but it also helps with confidence. > > If you want something for general attraction IS A and B are good options, but since you also stated something about wanting to feel good besides IS MEO-EST is also a good option although this is something you’d get after gaining more experience with these products just to make sure that you understand them pretty well. If you need more help you can always go here: [Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) > > I hope this helps! Thank you for the welcoming and your advice! I think for the start I would indeed like to go with [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) - I’m looking reaaaaally closely at IH. 🙄 Sounds like exactly what I need. I’m curious - in anyone’s personal experience, to which degree IH or IO effective when person’s attitude toward you isn’t all that positive? Should I view IH as - kinda - a second stage of IO? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/4 "2009-08-01T06:45:56Z")
Well, IH serves as “truth serum” in a _slight_ certain way. If someone doesn’t really like you as you say, it may have them express their feelings a lot easier than without you wearing IH. Just like the name says it will probably make them be more honest with you, while IO basically just feeds conversation and makes you approachable/helps break the ice. For example CTTM has a 50/50 blend/mix of the two main molecules you’ll find in IO and IH. And even though IH is slightly different then IO it still has a small percentage of the main pheromone in IO. However, IH is just steered to work more in this effect (honesty, and comfort.) Since [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is our “feel good” pheromone that helps you and others feel good, perhaps wearing IS in combination with IH may cancel out the possibility of them being more honest in a bad way with IS making them brighten their mood and therefore canceling out that bad side. > [@YwBandC](#): > > Thank you for the welcoming and your advice! > I think for the start I would indeed like to go with social pheromones - I’m looking reaaaaally closely at IH. 🙄 Sounds like exactly what I need. > I’m curious - in anyone’s personal experience, to which degree IH or IO effective when person’s attitude toward you isn’t all that positive? Should I view IH as - kinda - a second stage of IO? ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/5 "2009-08-01T06:51:51Z")
Welcome to the forum! I agree with mikoto about the socials. There’s not much more in the way of product recommendations I can add. As for your question, if another individual’s attitude towards you isn’t entirely positive, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty will still have an effect. The person will be more likely to talk to you with both products, and in the case of Instant Honesty, you may actually learn from them why exactly they don’t like you and figure out what you can do about it. They will not necessarily cause the person’s negative feelings to vanish, but they may present them in a way that you can then figure out how to counteract. Good luck, and if you have any more questions, don’t hesitate to ask! ---
**Author:** ![YwBandC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ywbandc/32/878_2.png) [@YwBandC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/YwBandC)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/6 "2009-08-01T06:59:58Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > Well, IH serves as “truth serum” in a _slight_ certain way. If someone doesn’t really like you as you say, it may have them express their feelings a lot easier than without you wearing IH. Just like the name says it will probably make them be more honest with you, while IO basically just feeds conversation and makes you approachable/helps break the ice. Oh - yes, that effect would actually be not bad at all! 🙂 **Vespero** Thank you! I’m definitely trying IH - aside from what I want to achieve, that’s gotta be fun. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![YwBandC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ywbandc/32/878_2.png) [@YwBandC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/YwBandC)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/7 "2009-08-01T18:25:35Z")
Another question - if it happened to anyone, what’s the effect of IO and IH on a person who is very chatty and outgoing on their own? Would it be an overkill? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/8 "2009-08-01T18:54:10Z")
The word diarrhea of the mouth comes to mind. 🙂 > [@YwBandC](#): > > Another question - if it happened to anyone, what’s the effect of IO and IH on a person who is very chatty and outgoing on their own? Would it be an overkill? ---
**Author:** ![YwBandC](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ywbandc/32/878_2.png) [@YwBandC](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/YwBandC)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 7:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/9 "2009-08-01T19:32:28Z")
Lol, oh, I so want to see that. 😃 Couldn’t wait any longer - I ordered IO, IH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) in 2-go sizes. Now comes the worst waiting part. How many sprays approximately to go size is good for? mikotorocks714, thank you so much for all the answers and help! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 7:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/10 "2009-08-01T19:43:51Z")
> [@YwBandC](#): > > Lol, oh, I so want to see that. 😃 > > Couldn’t wait any longer - I ordered IO, IH and Instant Shine in 2-go sizes. > Now comes the worst waiting part. > > How many sprays approximately to go size is good for? > > mikotorocks714, thank you so much for all the answers and help! 🙂 A to-go is good for approximately 40 sprays, I believe. Start with 1 spray at a time and make sure to give it time to look for reactions from others before adding another spray. That way, you find how many sprays works best for you, and don’t waste your product. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-bc/31184/11 "2009-08-01T19:44:05Z")
You’re welcome! Well, the dose is something that you kind of have to work on, basically what you do is start with just one spray (one product at a time just to get the feel of what each product does on its own, so layering with one another can be easier later on once you understand each product.) It sounds tedious, but trust me it’s worth it once you can tell what each product does and what dose of each product gives you the best results (your sweet spot.) So just start with one product at one spray, then just go about your day while VERY carefully seeing for strange things that just don’t seem to “fit.” Like for example with IH try to look for people being more honest with you, or telling you stuff regarding their personal life or things that they don’t usually say that often. Or also look for people appearing more comfortable around you and such, if you don’t see this with one spray after doing this for 2 to 3 days then I suggest moving on to two sprays and so on until you see “hits.” Also I suggest applying it on your neck, some like to use their wrists but I feel that a larger surface area of skin must mean more diffusion of the product. After you get to two or three sprays then you can divide sprays with your neck and wrists (or hair.) Social products like IS, IH, and IO can also be sprayed on hair without any fear of adverse reactions so that’s another great spot for pheromones like these. However, if you have product on your hair make sure it’s completely dry because the debate is still not knowing if the pheromones won’t diffuse because of them getting stuck (possibly) with the product you have on your hair and therefore not diffusing. So better to just be safe and apply it on dry hair. Good luck, and make sure to post your results in the women’s section! > [@YwBandC](#): > > Lol, oh, I so want to see that. 😃 > > Couldn’t wait any longer - I ordered IO, IH and Instant Shine in 2-go sizes. > Now comes the worst waiting part. > > How many sprays approximately to go size is good for? > > mikotorocks714, thank you so much for all the answers and help! 🙂