# Greetings from Germany **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 9, 2010, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879 "2010-03-09T22:07:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Chris83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Chris83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chris83)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2010, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/1 "2010-03-09T22:07:19Z")
Hi, like all others in the introductions section, I want to just say hello and by the way get the 25$ šŸ™„ **General things about me** Iā€™m Chris, 27 years old, living in Germany. My english is not that good, I hope you can follow me anyways. Iā€™m a very shy, introverted, quiet and average looking guy. I think of me as a talented, creative graphics designer, 3d artist and IT-Pro. Iā€™m the owner of a small but successfull film production company. It is quite possible, that you have seen some of my work in television. I like being around people and go out often, but always lacked social skills. **Prologue** Last year, I had a chronic problem falling asleep. After 4 days without sleep I decided to seek professional help. After long days of extensive testing with polysomnographies, thousands of questions, MRIs, etc my doc came up with a diagnose: I have a sleep disorder - who would have guessed šŸ˜‰ But from these examinations I learned much about me. E.g.: ā€œ_You have a metabolism models would kill for_ā€. Also, my body does produce hormones such as testosterone etc only in small and insufficient quantities (missing melatonin and some others were responsible for my sleeping issue). My doc described it like that: ā€œ_You have hormone levels like a 16 year old pregnant girl, who is stressed like a CEO of a multi-billion dollar company._ā€ (wtf) I am now treated for my low hormone levels and know after 26 years how being tired feels likeā€¦ **How my brain works** An IQ-Test showed that I am really intelligent (132) but my EI (Emotional intelligence) was worse than the most socially unskilled persons. The reason for this may be, that parts of my brain didnā€™t get enough oxygen when I had the umbilical cord around my throat at my birth. Luckily, the human brain has ways to compensate many deficiencies. My brain simply replaced the lack of empathy with logic. Iā€™ll explain by example: When I look at a face, I just see an object like a car. When the car signals, the driver wants to turn. When the corners of a mouth pull up it is likely that the person smiles. Unlike most people I canā€™t perceive emotions intuitively and naturally without actually thinking. As gestures and facial expressions can be very subtle, there is much room for wrong interpretation by me, which often leads to misunderstandings and wrong reactions. **Complications in communication** Have you ever told a story to children? They tend to mimic every expression of your face. This is also true with me. After 27 years I have to constantly monitor myself not to mimic my fellow being, as this makes me look like a moron. A simple conversation such as small talk can be quite demanding for me. Interpreting the bodylanguage, facial expressions, monitoring and controling own social signals and by the way getting the content of the conversation is no easy task for me. Nevertheless I really like deep discussions and donā€™t hide from themā€¦ **My social life** I think I have a working social life. With a few friends Iā€™m really close, also I have a few lady-friends. At my birthday party this month about 50 people I have contact on a more or less regular basis came. Nevertheless with most of them I have the feeling they donā€™t take me for real and are only around me because Iā€™m generous or pity me because Iā€™m different. Only my closest friends know about my condition, but itā€™s quite obvious that Iā€™m a bit strange. Most people with a similar brain condition tend to have no social life at all so Iā€™m pretty happy with what I have. My last long-term relationship was 7 years ago. Few women notice me and my approaches seldom lead to a relationship (but often to friends), so there were only a few women I got lucky with, who thought my awkwardly clumsy behavior was sexy. But it never lasted long. **How I got here** To ease my social interactions my doc gave me some experimental medicine with oxytocin in it. The effect was an instant buildup of self-confidence and really helped me cope with all kinds of conversations without constantly thinking about how I and my counterpart behave instead of the content itself. Iā€™m not the kind of guy who takes meds for every slight pain, but I thought there may be some other substances out there, that could really help me in social situations. I found ā€œLiquid Trustā€, that also has oxytocin in it, which is a hormone not a pheromone. I found that 90% of the products on the market must be scam, like most lifestyle products. Claims like ā€œour love potion gets you in bed with every woman you desireā€ are simply bulls\*\*t and btw illegal in my country. I found only little scientific evidence that mones do work. Finally I ended up on the Androtics site and this forum, where I found much helpful information. But actually the negative comments under the products were the ignition spark to give it a try. I am still sceptical about the effects of mones, but it will be quite trivial for me to evaluate the claims. There is also a moral aspect involved, that I have to think about more (if it works). Iā€™m not looking for a miracle here, but everything that helps a little is good enough. **So what to get?** I think itā€™s quite obvious, that I could use the whole palette of products by Androtics. To first test it out I wanted to buy these: maybe AMMUNITION maybe Instant Shine Instant Openness Turn Up The Heat maybe Instant Honesty - I think I have too many secrets to risk it [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) Come talk to me would have been my first pick, but it seems to be in development and I have bad experiences with beta versions šŸ˜‰ Unfortunately the shop seems to only accept credit cards. A paypal option would have been great. Now I have a new credit card on the way so this leaves you a few days to drop a few lines about my selection. Any other recommendations are welcome. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2010, 10:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/2 "2010-03-09T22:22:29Z")
Well, howdy smart man! I suggest to keep it simple at first so I suggest AMMO, IO, and IH. If you can throw in some IShine as well. šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2010, 10:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/3 "2010-03-09T22:27:26Z")
Hey chris, nice to see a fellow european here šŸ™‚ . You and I are alike I also have a high IQ (146) and had bad social skills (and still have) and I have some psycological conditions that you dont have. Although our problems are differents I can elate to you šŸ˜ƒ . I evolved different than you, I learn how to read emotions, before reading expretions, but I cant control my own emotions and expretions šŸ˜ƒ , so we are different. I have always been high sociable but naive when I did it. I learned with life, and become a student of life and people itself, nothing fascinates me more šŸ˜› . Well but stop about me, lets talk about you. Since has I see a interested guy who absorves really quickly information, you pick up the best advices from other threads and you automaticly design the best awnsers for yourself šŸ˜ƒ . You asking question but I think you have already an idea of the awnsers šŸ˜‰ , am I correct? although what I am going to suggest to you is a314, every mone you have written in your thread is helpfull for you, but the ones I think would be very very good, are a314, IO, IS and ammo. why a314? because its the best one to give the respect you may not get. You will look more realible to others, more manly and more important than everything more secure. Security is what your actions may lack, being aware of your problem is a good thing but also a bad thing. Because that you are aware of it, you are aware unconsciently in everything you do, every word you say, every action you make. Using a314 will make you look more mature, more dependable, wich is probably what you lack to be bf material. a314 in your case would be more benefical than IG. I dont know if you understand my logic, but if you have any doubt just ask šŸ™‚ . best regards falcos ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2010, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/4 "2010-03-09T23:17:19Z")
Hi Chris and welcome to the forum! Wow that was some intro! We usually are asking people to expand and describe their personality more but not you. I think you will do fine with the pheromones you have selected, especially the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) will help you. Good luck Mackie ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2010, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/5 "2010-03-10T00:07:31Z")
Hi Chris, I think you may have an ā€œautism spectrumā€ disorder. I have something like that, although not as bad as you. Talk to a psychologist about it. They may be able to help. Also check out the forums at ā€œ[wrongplanet.net](http://wrongplanet.net)ā€. Autism is not caused by a lack of oxygen to the brain, but by a lack of Vitamin D in the diet as your brain is developing. Try taking Vitamin D complex vitamins. Thatā€™s a vitamin with Vitamin D, and some Vitamin A to help it be absorbed. Also eat some fat (like meat, or olive oil, or something like that) when you take your vitamin D. This makes the Vitamin D get absorbed more easily into your body. Google the ā€œVitamin D councilā€ for more information on this. As far as [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) go, I find that A314 helps with my shyness, a lot. Another user with autism put me on to it. I hope it might help you too. I hope this helps you. Welcome to the forums, and have fun! ---
**Author:** ![Chris83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Chris83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chris83)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2010, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/6 "2010-03-10T00:20:57Z")
> [@tezza23](#): > > Hi Chris, I think you may have an ā€œautism spectrumā€ disorder. I have something like that, although not as bad as you. Talk to a psychologist about it. They may be able to help. Also check out the forums at ā€œ[wrongplanet.net](http://wrongplanet.net)ā€. Autism is not caused by a lack of oxygen to the brain, but by a lack of Vitamin D in the diet as your brain is developing. Try taking Vitamin D complex vitamins. Thatā€™s a vitamin with Vitamin D, and some Vitamin A to help it be absorbed. Also eat some fat (like meat, or olive oil, or something like that) when you take your vitamin D. This makes the Vitamin D get absorbed more easily into your body. Google the ā€œVitamin D councilā€ for more information on this. > > As far as pheromones go, I find that A314 helps with my shyness, a lot. Another user with autism put me on to it. I hope it might help you too. > > I hope this helps you. Welcome to the forums, and have fun! Thanks for your replies. Yeah, the closest match would be in my case Asperger Syndrome which is a mild form of autism but I had not enough symptoms to ā€œqualifyā€ for it. Iā€™m already on Vitamin D and am also in treatment, so no worries here šŸ™‚ Iā€™ll have a look at A314 nowā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Chris83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Chris83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chris83)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2010, 1:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/7 "2010-03-10T01:18:51Z")
mmmh, seems like I was wrong, there are quite a few other payment optionsā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2010, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/8 "2010-03-10T01:23:02Z")
hey just wait for the free gc šŸ™‚ at least it will cover the dhl delivery šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Chris83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Chris83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chris83)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2010, 1:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/9 "2010-03-10T13:52:14Z")
So I think I finally go with A314, AMMUNITION, CTTM 2, IS, IH, IG, IO. Seems like international shipping is free over 100 and something bucks. Iā€™m very eager to try. As soon as I get my gc Iā€™ll orderā€¦ Thanks for your input! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2010, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/10 "2010-03-10T22:13:35Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too šŸ™‚. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. Iā€™m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too šŸ™‚. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2010, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/11 "2010-03-11T01:54:30Z")
I thin international shipping is only free over $300 šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Chris83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/58956e/32.png) [@Chris83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chris83)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2010, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-germany/36879/12 "2010-03-11T13:41:57Z")
> [@falcos](#): > > I thin international shipping is only free over $300 šŸ™‚ 150 ā‚¬ (220$) are enough for free international shippingā€¦