# Greetings from NJ

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [August 3, 2011, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596 "2011-08-03T03:25:41Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 10\
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**Author:** ![BruceWayne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/brucewayne/32/996_2.png) [@BruceWayne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BruceWayne)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2011, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/1 "2011-08-03T03:25:41Z")

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Hello All,  
Brian here from New Jersey. Just placed my first order of products and hoping to wield some positive results. I have never used [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) before as I never really felt the need. But as a recently separated 30something male who’s been out of the dating loop for quite some time, certain things just don’t come as easily as they used to. If pheromone use can provide even a slight edge in my favor I will gladly take advantage of it. Looking forward to interacting with other members of the community in what I’m hoping will be a positive overall experience.

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**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2011, 3:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/2 "2011-08-03T03:29:46Z")

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**Hi and welcome Bruce Wayne …**

**O.k. .. i´m not gonna tell some New Jersey jokes now … but .. comes a NJ guy into a Chinese Restaurant … STOP**. 😉

As you did not need any mones in the past it´s fine …

Now the time has come to get you back into the swing and you´re not gonna abandon the adavantages that you can have when you use Mones

I´ve been together with a girl for 4 years and when we broke up .. there was no Game left .. really … i thought in beeing nice i´d get the girls ..

all my skills have been evaporated and i did not score with the girls … ☹

It took a lot of work to become what i´m now and i´f one girl dissmisses me … hmm it makes me not happy but i know i can get a new one ..

I´m sure you´re heard about all this PUA …or better seduction stuff …

you should read up on that material .. i think for guy´s in the 30’s there Gambler the best .. Mystery is most for Clubs … hmm David de Angelo would be cool as well … loads of free stuff out there ..

well then ..

you were not able to resist and have already ordered some products … which ones if i can ask ?

what made you decide in ordering them and how have you came around in getting some mones … where have you heard about Pheromones

for better advice i´d like to know more about you … how about your social skills … how is your personality type and where do you see your sticking points with women

**it´s always good to be curious in life ..**

**for me curiousity is about wanting to know how things really work , beneath the surface appearance …**

**It´s about looking for the large rules, controlling principles , hidden dynamics in all of life ..**

same applies for the use of pheromones

that´s why i think you should invest some time and dig through the stickies ( here .. and in the main male section )

you will profite from doing so later … trust me !

**[Pheromone F A Qs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517)**

this one´s a must read as well …

o.k .. let´s look what you could get to get the girls easier ..

**you will need something that women will perceive you in the right light …**

**Ammo will play a huge role here …**

It´s an social and at the same time sexual product … well balanced .. not so rough at the edges like the hard sexual stuff like TUTH

Ammo will give you the competetive edge over other guy´s you´re searching for .. women will see you as the sexy guy … not as the way to horny … with Ammo you´re a very sexual creature for them

you´re gonna get more smiles .. doubletakes and women will send more signals of interest .

**well now … what to do to get into more conversations and to break the ice …**

that´s where Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) have it´s time

IO will get you into the sets and makes you as well more approachable .. it helps you to get conversations going and will as well make you a bit upbeat ..

IH is the thing for dates .. when deeper conversations are needed … it´s bonding and make people trust you more … it´s one of my favourites

**Another thing and a must have is Instant Shine**

the good mood maker … put´s you and the people around you in a very good mood .. you´re gonna feel good when you wear it and it boosts your confidence ( have you ever felt a bit awkyard when i came to approach a women … that´s the ideal situation for it )

and it gives you a youthful aura … younger women dig on this ..

there´s another very important thing here ..

get the 25$ GC .. you can spend the bucks on your next order …

here´s how to get it  
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[http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/how-do-i-qualify-25-gift-21539.html](http://www.pheromonetalk.com/introductions-new-users-say-hello-today/how-do-i-qualify-25-gift-21539.html)\*\*

once you´ve got your own products .. you´re gonna be able to post as well in the male main board about your adventures … they will become surely very interesting …

come on .. let´s get out and do what it fun …

**Pago**

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2011, 3:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/3 "2011-08-03T03:47:33Z")

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Hi there,

Nice to meet you brian.Sounds like your a batman fan with the name bruce wayne.The new movies were pretty good.Pity heath ledger died,was looking forward to more joker.Looking forward to the 3rd one though (^_^)Good to hear that youve already started with your first order of products.Which products did you end up getting?There will definitely be results but you may have to find the dosage/sweet spot for the products to work the best for you.Lol,think dating is difficult even when your actively doing it but pheromones will definitely give you the slight push in your favour.Youll still need to put in the effort though since your still doing the talking,its not a free pass just a tool to help(^_^)Helps set the vibe so that your already halfway there.You might want to look into some pua books like david deangelo or conversation books like leil lowndes how to talk to anyone if your out of practice(\>\_\<)You will be able to get even more products if you get the 25$ gift certificate for your introduction.You will probably need to describe your personality a bit more though both to qualify and so that the experts can give you better advice.im sure pagodeiro will mention it anyway.

Since youve already made your first purchase,will hope that you got some ammo and instant shine.Those are awesome for dating(^\_^)Along with maybe some tuth and instant honesty or openness depending on your personality.Im sure pagodeiro will give you good advice anyway.These threads might be an interesting read for you and all the best and hope you get good results.Im sure you will have fun here.

[What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558)  
([What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558))  
[What works: CLUBBING/"PROWL" MIXES (eg sex: as in One Night Stands)](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-clubbing-prowl-mixes-eg-sex-as-in-one-night-stands/224)  
([What works: CLUBBING/"PROWL" MIXES (eg sex: as in One Night Stands)](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-clubbing-prowl-mixes-eg-sex-as-in-one-night-stands/224))  
[Pheromones for Pickup: Attraction, Comfort, Seduction](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-for-pickup-attraction-comfort-seduction/832)  
([Pheromones for Pickup: Attraction, Comfort, Seduction](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromones-for-pickup-attraction-comfort-seduction/832))  
[Phero color chart by MuskCloud: a visual guide to choosing mixes](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/phero-color-chart-by-muskcloud/1833)

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**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\
**Post date:** [August 3, 2011, 4:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/4 "2011-08-03T04:20:02Z")

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Hi Bruce wayne.

It´s great that you have already ordered some products. There´s a spanish saying that goes something like this: “That who wants to eat fish should not be afraid of geting his butt wet” (free translation). I think that if you really want to know about mones, and be able to participate in the discussion, you have to give them a try. ¿What products have you ordered?

My favourite products are IG (right now out of stock), A314, AMMO, and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). I use A314 for the work place, and IG for the bars and clubs. IS goes well with everything, and AMMO is just great for creating attraction. You can safely use it at the office, just go with a low dose, one or two sprays max. You can go higher at bars and clubs though.

There are also some good experimental mixes: MX297 is great for social situations, like weddings, award ceremonies, charities and the like.

I know how it feels to be back in the dating arena after a LTR. It´s awkward, awful, and also amazing how hot the girls seem to be and how out of reach. You need some work to get back on trak, but mones will help. I´ve only been using them for about 3 months, but i have definitelly had great results, even unexpected hits, so unexpected that sometimes have not been able to react. Now I´m starting to get used to it and i expect to act on them properly.

Also have been pretty successful at work. In this threee months i´ve got a new job and make a great reputation in the company. I used Ig + some social s for the job interview, and A314 for sales. The results are that everybody loves me at the office (oar at least averybody i need to be loved by, and my boss is very happy for having hired me). It almost sounds too good to be true, but that´s the way it is. I don´t mean mones made all the work. I also played my part, and played it good. But mones have been a really great helper for getting a chance to do my thing, to keep motivated and focused and to be accepted fast.

Once you get your products, it´s going to be veru difficult to resist the tempation of spraying a little bit of everything and go out to see what happens. It´s okay. I think almost everyone around here did it. However, if you whant to take advantage of everything mones can offer you, it would be a good ide to keep a journal, to see which products and combos did what, when, and what other variables where involved.

Also it would be a great idea to sweet spot test each product on it´s own, to be able to judge what eech product brings to a mix. [How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146)

Hope you the best of lucks with your results. Please, keep us posted.

Also, don´t forget to choose the best answer, to thank the user who provided it for the information he gave you.

Wlecome on board.

Talk to you soon.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [August 4, 2011, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/5 "2011-08-04T19:37:26Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk Bruce!

Getting back in the dating scene is never is especially for persons who have been through a rough divorce or relationship.

The hardest step is the first one.

For your situation I recommend openness to make persons chatty around you , that is a great start and to ease you into conversations.

shine to give off that youthful glow that will attract others.

[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) to give you a confidence boast and to give of that strong, masculine vibe.

**Your gc was issued! 😉**

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**Author:** ![BruceWayne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/brucewayne/32/996_2.png) [@BruceWayne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BruceWayne)\
**Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 2:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/6 "2011-08-08T02:33:19Z")

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Hi Pago, go head and finish that joke…I’d really like to hear the ending lol. I can definitely relate to not having any game left. To make it even worse I never had much game to begin with because I’ve always been kind of a shy guy but luckily women would always seem to approach me so I never really bothered to develop any game, and mostly why I never bothered with 'mones even though I’d heard about them for years. I definitely have been reading up on the pua material…actually came across Ross Jeffries some years ago…as well as Mystery, Dave DeAngelo, Real Social Dynamics, Vin DiCarlo, Dr. Paul, etc. It’s quite a bit to take in. I’ll most likely employ some eclectic mix of the strong points in each that I feel mesh most closely with my personality rather than follow any one verbatim. I’m just not the sort of person that can act outside of my own character for any length of time just for the sake of trying to pick up women. As for what pheromones I selected–I must say I have a tendency to be a bit impulsive when trying new things and dive right in, just like with the pua stuff I was rifling through a ton of different authors and materials–I went with some Ammo, TUTH, IO, P74, P79, and togo bottles of A314 and IS. My free gift was a togo bottle of IH and I’m eagerly anticipating a restocking of P83.

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**Author:** ![BruceWayne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/brucewayne/32/996_2.png) [@BruceWayne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BruceWayne)\
**Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 2:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/7 "2011-08-08T02:57:45Z")

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Hi Meng, yea definitely a long time Batman fan and I’m looking forward to Dark Knight Rises as well. I’m curious to see how Nolan will tie up the loose end of the Joker, Ledger gave a memorable performance to say the least! So anyway, I picked up some Ammo, TUTH, A314, IO, IS, P74, P79 and got IH as a free gift. I have been reading over a lot of pua stuff…Mystery, DeAngelo, Ross Jeffries, David Wygant…really just seeking out the commonalities to all their approaches that I feel I can use. Never heard of Leil Lowndes though, I will have to look into that. Thanks so much for the suggestions, I’ve really been trying to devour the info in this forum, quite a lot to absorb.

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**Author:** ![BruceWayne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/brucewayne/32/996_2.png) [@BruceWayne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BruceWayne)\
**Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 3:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/8 "2011-08-08T03:32:51Z")

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Hey Extra, haha! Just what you mentioned is exactly what I did. I sprayed on practically everything and headed out the door. Didn’t really get a reaction different from what I normally get at work…unfortunately not a lot of women where I work either, plus I’ve never been all that good at noticing subtleties but hope to get better. I did have a girl smile and say hi to me while I was in the pizza shop though, guess that counts as a hit. Glad to hear about the success you’ve had so far with 'mones. I ordered Ammo, TUTH, IO, IS, A314, P74, P79 and got a free bottle of IH.

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**Author:** ![BruceWayne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/brucewayne/32/996_2.png) [@BruceWayne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BruceWayne)\
**Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 3:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/9 "2011-08-08T03:46:28Z")

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Hi [Mickaelia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mickaelia), thanks nice to meet you and nice to be part of the community. And especially thanks for the GC 😉!! I noticed right now I’m just a lowly [pheromone](https://a314.com/) cadet…lol, I was wondering how the ranking system goes and how quickly I can be graduated to newbie to enthusiast and so on…all the way up hopefully to reporting user.

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-nj/51596/10 "2011-08-08T04:48:33Z")

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> [@BruceWayne](#):
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> Hi Meng, yea definitely a long time Batman fan and I’m looking forward to Dark Knight Rises as well. I’m curious to see how Nolan will tie up the loose end of the Joker, Ledger gave a memorable performance to say the least! So anyway, I picked up some Ammo, TUTH, A314, IO, IS, P74, P79 and got IH as a free gift. I have been reading over a lot of pua stuff…Mystery, DeAngelo, Ross Jeffries, David Wygant…really just seeking out the commonalities to all their approaches that I feel I can use. Never heard of Leil Lowndes though, I will have to look into that. Thanks so much for the suggestions, I’ve really been trying to devour the info in this forum, quite a lot to absorb.

Haha,yeah.Dark knight rises looks awesome,particularly with the introduction of bane and catwoman.Banes pretty cool since hes the one who defeated batman in the comics and broke his back,will be interesting to see how it goes.Think the director may just ignore the joker and leave him in jail since he cant do anything about it.Haha,thats definitely a fair amount of pheremones.Think youll have a lot of things to experiment with.You may want to try them one at a time though and find your sweet spot and resist the urge to try them all at once.(:-p)Too many mixed signals can cause a negative effect instead of a positive one.That being said,an od will be good to know that they work(\>_\<)Haha,all the pick up artists are pretty good,i just liked david deangelo a bit more because he goes more into the psychology of women rather than the techniques.Definitely good to find the stuff you can use that fits your personality,difficult to change it too much.Leil lowndes isnt actually a pickup book,more a general conversation and how to use body language and tricks to keep conversation going and connect to people.It makes an interesting read and can help with small talk and how to get out of deathly silences(\>_\<)Also can help for work and more general conversation outside dating.Haha,yup.Definitely a lot to absorb,but its always a good help to be well read so you dont end up wasting them(^\_^)All the best and hope things go well for you.