# Greetings from North Nj **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 1, 2008, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690 "2008-08-01T07:41:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![chinny4290](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7bcc69/32.png) [@chinny4290](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chinny4290)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/1 "2008-08-01T07:41:59Z")
What’s up people? My name’s Chris, I’m 18, going to be a freshman at Rutgers New Brunswick, and live in Bergen COunty, NJ I’m new to this whole [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) scene and just some curious research led me here, and some of it got me going, and well, I’m here. I’ve always struggled with the female scene for some reason and I’ve always fell far behind what my friend’s have done(where my whole generation is into partying and hooking-up). And it would be nice to make out every now and then with a girl mutually when I go to parties but it doesnt happen as often as I would hope,and it’s even just plain difficult getting numbers to be platonic friends, or so that it’ll escalate further. I’m also in need of a Girlfriend because I’ve always wanted someone I could care for and divert my attention for…but being young, it’s difficult (and a topic for another day). Anyway… I’m pretty confident with myself and I socialize with girls a lot when I go to parties, but I’ve never ever gone further than just small talk and it sucks. Just being myself, being open, funny, nice, and just charming, I get passive attention like I’m just some joe average that’s as exciting as a rock and yet my friends, who aren’t that much different get more attention than I do. And I know how it’s more of a case where confidence will get you anywhere socially in the world…but I just need that preliminary extra boost, just to get me going better so soon I’ll be purchasing some products, though not sure yet. STill have to do my research. ---
**Author:** ![Jasx69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasx69/32/2413_2.png) [@Jasx69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasx69)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 7:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/2 "2008-08-01T07:44:24Z")
Hello Welcome to PheroTalk 🙂 Yes I agree with you being young and wanting to escalate things with your female friends can be a pain , if you like to improve your sex appeal around them try some Ammo its very versatile and smells great they will surely make a comment on you. Try some socials like [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to get their attention and innitiate deeper conversations to let them know that you care and want to listen. Welcome on board buddy Ciao “J” 😛 ---
**Author:** ![RaiderMagic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/bc79bd/32.png) [@RaiderMagic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RaiderMagic)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 7:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/3 "2008-08-01T07:55:08Z")
Hey Chris! Welcome to this board buddy! It’s good that you are already confident with females and such, as [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) only enhance what is already there. It sounds like you got game buddy! I agree with Jasx’s suggestion. Ammo should do wonders for you! Enjoy your stay! ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 7:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/4 "2008-08-01T07:55:46Z")
Hi Chris and welcome to the boards! That’s a pretty nice intro there. I recommend the Instant line, which is best to start out with as well as the products that J’s mentioned in his post above. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant shine would also be good additions to your arsenal. Be sure to check out the stickies posted in the Men’s section, they contain great advice on what combos to use. Don’t worry if you don’t have all the products though. There’s also two stickies in the ladies’ forum which are great: > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… > [@How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192): > > Its a question we all ask at some point… The very first thing to do when you begin to think about purchasing pheromones is to start observing people before you use them. Ask yourself what are peoples normal general reaction to you and others around you. Are they open and friendly ? Are they intimidated ? Do they acknowledge your presence ? Do strangers generally talk to you ? Are people in a great mood when hanging around you ? Do people treat you with respect ? Are guy/girls open to you… Good luck with everything and keep us posted on your progress. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![chinny4290](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/7bcc69/32.png) [@chinny4290](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chinny4290)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 8:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/5 "2008-08-01T08:07:36Z")
Holy crapola sweet quick responses! haha great to see fast responses! Thanks! I’m planning on getting Ammunition, Turn up the heat, instant female magic, and MAYBE shine.. However, being yougn, money is HARD to come by! I don’t want to go all out, yet, I also don’t want to be redundant and get products that will do the same, though i want to get what I’m looking for. (I also could be depending on these products too much…if so, slap that L on my forehead 😛). Nor do i want it to be overbearing and/or intimidating. A factor to add in is that I’m very mature for my age too and not that kind of kids who’s humor could come across to girls as being a comedic asshole (though I sometimes do that, not often though) It’s a definite though taht I’m going for the [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). Oh, and where’s my $15 coupon :-P? J/k…I’ll be a nice little boy and be patient. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 11:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/6 "2008-08-01T11:03:12Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk I would suggest you start out with the Basic products all the guys use. AMMO for a sexy attention getter IO for a fun chatty friendly aura Ishine for charisma and to draw other to you. If you have any question or need help just ask 😃 **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Tisha