# Greetings from North Nj **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 1, 2008, 7:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690 "2008-08-01T07:41:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 4
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 7:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690/4 "2008-08-01T07:55:46Z")
Hi Chris and welcome to the boards! That’s a pretty nice intro there. I recommend the Instant line, which is best to start out with as well as the products that J’s mentioned in his post above. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant shine would also be good additions to your arsenal. Be sure to check out the stickies posted in the Men’s section, they contain great advice on what combos to use. Don’t worry if you don’t have all the products though. There’s also two stickies in the ladies’ forum which are great: > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… > [@How do I know if I am getting hits !!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-know-if-i-am-getting-hits/14192): > > Its a question we all ask at some point… The very first thing to do when you begin to think about purchasing pheromones is to start observing people before you use them. Ask yourself what are peoples normal general reaction to you and others around you. Are they open and friendly ? Are they intimidated ? Do they acknowledge your presence ? Do strangers generally talk to you ? Are people in a great mood when hanging around you ? Do people treat you with respect ? Are guy/girls open to you… Good luck with everything and keep us posted on your progress. 😉 --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-north-nj/16690)._