# Greetings from PORTUGAL! Getting over a breakup/divorce with the help of 'mones...? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 22, 2012, 11:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-portugal-getting-over-a-breakup-divorce-with-the-help-of-mones/57107 "2012-10-22T11:32:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![taniafontana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@taniafontana](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/taniafontana)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2012, 11:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-portugal-getting-over-a-breakup-divorce-with-the-help-of-mones/57107/1 "2012-10-22T11:32:19Z")
Hi guys, greetings from Portugal! I’m soooo thrilled that I discovered this forum and so willing to try some [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), to enjoy life a little better…! 🙂 I must tell you I’m a newbie to pheromones, so I’ll have to ask for some advice from whoever can help me starting out… I’m on my 30s, I’m recovering from a breakup/divorce and basically starting over from scratch… To cut this long story short: we’d been together for 12 years (lived together for 8), he was the love of my life, it was a pratically a fairytale, lots of plans for our future… But somehow it all ended 6 months ago, apparently he realized (after all those years) that, even though I’m “a woman who 90% of men would love to be with” (quoting his own words), I was not the right kind of woman to fulfill HIS dreams… Also told me he’s had some affairs in the past that meant nothing to him (☹ “just” sex) and that he was in love with another woman… Well, I was devastated… lost the love of my life, lost all my hopes and dreams, didn’t have a clue on how to live alone and how to overcome all of it by myself (my friends were his friends and my only family was his family)… I’ve been crying and grieving for the last 6 months, had my ups and downs… Even researched on the internet about “something called pheromones” (🙂) that I could use to win him back - that’s how I got to know this AWESOME forum. Read pratically all the threads in here and even bought some IS/a, IH and IO… but never really got to use them, 'cause in the mean time (thank god! 🙂) I realized that, even he is a great guy (he still has ALL the requirements for being the man of my dreams), I also got to know THAT side of a man that I couldn’t bear to live with (cheater, liar, womanizer and most importantly doesn’t appreciate/value me for who I am). So… 6 months later I think I’m ready do move on with my life… I want to be the old happy-and-full-of-life me, but somehow it seems I can’t find the old ME… Although I’ve been trying so damn hard to live a new life and pursuit my own happiness (which I truly think I deserve), everything seems boring and tiresome, there’s this lack of energy, of interest and joy (even when I’m with my friends) that I can’t get rid of… And I’m sick and tired of feeling that way… So I was wondering… Do you think that some pheromones could help me overcoming this healing process, feeling uplifted, happier, self-confident, stronger, not thinking too much about those past problems, just enjoying myself and enjoying life…? 🙂 (and enjoy being single… for now! 😉 I’m too damn hot & pretty to NOT go out and enjoy life!!! LOL 😃 😛) Does anyone here used pheromones to help overcome a similar situation? I thank you in advance for any kind of suggestion/advice… ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2012, 11:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-portugal-getting-over-a-breakup-divorce-with-the-help-of-mones/57107/2 "2012-10-22T11:40:30Z")
Woah, Tania, good to see you’ve been picking yourself up and taking some action to get you AWAY from those feelings that came over you with that guy cheating on you. I saw IS/a in your batch. This WILL very likely bring out the other 9% of guys that would DREAM of being with you. For a total of 99% (We all have to accept that a select few will not appreciate us as we are…🙂) of guys showing interest in ya! I suggest IO would be the closest to just going out and enjoying conversations with friends and those you want to meet. IH may bring you IN to your INNER thoughts and fears and brings those more to the fore. I would really like to suggest IShine as the one with the most potential here to feel uplifted, happier and stronger. THis is what I get when I use IShine. The uplifted and a bit happier, I do get with IO, when it has to do with others around. Love to see what a Hot Gal like you will do with an arsenal of mones such as these. The guys will have to WATCH out! 😃 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2012, 2:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-portugal-getting-over-a-breakup-divorce-with-the-help-of-mones/57107/3 "2012-10-23T14:02:15Z")
Welcome Tania, You have been through a lot and my hat goes of to you for picking yourself up and taking steps towards moving forward. I am not sure what happened but somewhere along the line he lost himself My mom always told me , don’t be jeolous of a girl/woman who takes your man as if he cheated on you with her, eventually he is going to cheat on her with someone else. Karma! Think about it. Now, we need to get your confidence up and find you a man who knows what he wants and trust me there are some out there we just need to open ourselves to the possibility > [@Whats the difference between "Instant Sexiness" and "Instant Sexiness B"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/whats-the-difference-between-instant-sexiness-and-instant-sexiness-b/39530/2): > > That is a question that has been asked so many times and there are many threads concerning that. It is also a very good question as you want to know which one to use on what occasion or which one best suites your personality. Now when the ladies first starting discovering the differences we first realized it had to do with personalities. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/A is for a more aggressive type Angelina Jolie type girl and B is for someone who is more girly and gentle like Marilyn Monroe. Instant se… Besides the products that alpha suggest you can pop into the female section for more suggestions on their secret , amazing [pheromone](https://a314.com/) stash advice **Your gc was issued!** ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3d9bf3/32.png) [@JohnnyB](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyB)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2014, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-portugal-getting-over-a-breakup-divorce-with-the-help-of-mones/57107/4 "2014-10-04T23:16:56Z")
Hey Tania, I think [P130](https://a314.com/product/p130/) might work really well ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/3d9bf3/32.png) [@JohnnyB](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyB)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2014, 11:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-portugal-getting-over-a-breakup-divorce-with-the-help-of-mones/57107/5 "2014-10-04T23:17:18Z")
I just realised this was a post from 2012 DUH