# greetings from Singapore! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 9, 2011, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680 "2011-12-09T19:19:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![meltee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b19c9b/32.png) [@meltee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meltee)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/1 "2011-12-09T19:19:51Z")
hello to everyone here! as mentioned in the thread title, I’m from Singapore! I’m turning 23 in 2012, I’m working as a teacher, teaching kids ranging from 13-17. I don’t put on make up, i don really like it… as I’m kinda lazy. I go out to the streets and even clubs without any make up on, not even eyeliner or lipgloss. but I still get picked up in the clubs so I didn’t think it’s that bad for me. fortunately people would rate me a 7-8 if I bother to at least put on my contact lens with a dress, else I’m just a 5-6 in my glasses, tees, shorts and sandals. 😛 I have been lurking around this forum and androtics for just 2days and I’ve already have got at least 4 items in my shopping cart. before I seek advices from all you friendly pheromones expertise here, I will briefly talk about what I intend to use these magics for. 1. I read in this forum somewhere that there are some types of sprays here that can help relax everybody that’s in the area and also one that will help people to focus and get things done. this spray that I’m talking bout…seems very very very useful to me when I teach in class. it would help in getting the kids to be on task and of course making it easier for me to manage the class. 2. I’m currently attached but things aren’t going too well.. this bf has been caught cheating at least twice.. yeah it’s pathetic but being the zero self esteem me (to top it off w/o any make up ever), I really am afraid I couldn’t find another guy.. partly also because being a teacher here really makes you have no life .. so it’s hard for me to meet someone new.. just thought if ever I do get an opportunity to socialize more, I should make full use of it and increase my chances with these P magic. 3. there is always that SPECIAL SOMEONE in everyone’s heart. my special someone is actually my close guy friend. we met in sch 7years back.. and I can say we have been keeping in close contact all the time. we used to talk till we fall asleep on the phone.. and we talked about our aspirations and dreams, ideal gf/bf.. but never about us. in the past whenever his parents head overseas, he would invite me over and play video games throughout the night before sleeping (and really just sleeping, w a bolster inbtw us) on his queen sized bed together. nothing has ever happened (how I wish this was NOT the case 😛)… nope, no hugs ever, no kisses, no flirting at all. so well any fool can see that he prolly treats me just like another buddy.. I’m not the very girlish type. I’m the super plain kind of girl.. but guys enjoy my company.. I have v few female friends.. I guess because I enjoy gaming, hanging out till late, totally into cars (i know much more than any girl u see on the streets).. just like them boys. that’s why I m able to click so well w my guy pals. this target of mine.. he hasn’t had any gf in this 7years. he has been interested in ONE before, but nothing happened. he’s the cool, quiet type. sometimes when I get to go for meals w him alone (happens only like thrice a year??.. and it’s because he can’t get anyone.. I’m forever available for him) , things do get awkward. theres this silence btw us and in my mind im rushing to initiate some convos.☹ hate it when it happens.. It’s been years and friends have mentioned that actually they can tell hes also into me but its just that im attached (most of the time).. and of course he would think that im not interested in him then. and also that I should gather all my courage and confess to him. just like any other person, I’m afraid of rejections, and we are in the same social grp, what if he refuses to hang out anymore? I just want something to help me.. I’m not happy letting things stay this way… I currently have [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Sexiness B, and Instant Openness TOGO. Please advise me if these are suitable for my needs. lastly.. I have a couple of qns I hope someone can help me out here.. (tyvm I know it’s a super long winded post 😛) a. I have read other sites and they mentioned about some females reacting in a not so nice manner once u have some of these pheromones on u.. as long as I don OD.. it should be ok.. ya??? and I have an aggressive Female dog at home.. would my pet be affected by my sprays And turn hostile to me? or have any side effects on her? b. if I head out w a group of girls, how would the guys know if the pheromones are coming from me? and not anyone else in that same grp? c. I read about combining IS, IO, IH and prolly even IS/B together.. how would one smell like, then? and if I don like this combined scent, I use my daily commercial perfume, e.g. Ralph Lauren Romance, would I smell funny? thank you so much for making it till the end of this post..😃 I welcome and appreciate ALL comments and advices. thanks!!! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 7:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/2 "2011-12-09T19:28:08Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Wow, what an intro!! As for what you said you have in your cart, did you mean to say IO twice, or did you mean something esle? As for all [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), OD can be an issue, start low and work your way up. Pheromones can affect animals, so you may notice a change in the dog. From my experience with the groups, usually they just know. I am not sure on how IS/B smells, so I cant really say. I think you are off to a great start though!! Welcome here! ---
**Author:** ![meltee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b19c9b/32.png) [@meltee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meltee)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/3 "2011-12-09T19:44:16Z")
hello, MikeMan22! thanks for your reply! oh dear, pheromones will affect animals? do u have any idea if it’s going to affect badly or affecting mildly on my dog? any where I can read up more on this?? and yup there are two IO in my cart.. one is the blue bottle one, costs $49.95 and the other is IO TO-GO, priced at $16.95.. can anyone tell me what’s the diff?? thank you so much! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2011, 8:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/4 "2011-12-10T08:25:10Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! When you first start with thee products, you need to test them one at a time, in different amounts in different situations until you find your “sweet spot”, and you understand the effects of each. With the target guy, try just Instant Sexiness/B for now, see how he reacts to it. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) may be helpful in this situation also, it will help him to open up to you more. You never know, he may be feeling the same towards you but just can’t bring himself to show it. As for animals, of course never spray pheros on them. I have never heard of or seen any adverse effects on them, except they can sometimes be more affectionate and follow you around more. I have this one cat who seems to be particularly sensitive to pheros, and when I’m wearing them, he just won’t leave me alone, lol. And the difference between the more expensive blue bottle and the cheaper to-go bottle is the amount of product each contains. The bigger blue bottles are glass and are supposed to contain about 200 sprays, and the smaller to-go’s are plastic and are supposed to contain around 40 sprays. Hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![meltee](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b19c9b/32.png) [@meltee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meltee)\ **Post date:** [December 10, 2011, 12:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/5 "2011-12-10T12:35:06Z")
hi SillyKitty, and thank u so much on ur advise. I’m all ready to click buy once I receive my GC. but before that I have some additional qns and I hope someone can help me out here. 1. I see only [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) for men. (the blue bottle $19.98) is this the IH that everyone is talking about, and is this ok for girls to use? since it is written there FOR MEN. 2. should I get a bottle of TUTH as well? cos I hope he will notice me more as an attractive girl instead of the usual buddy. Im not into getting any actions from him yet.. but just really v badly want him to start observing me as a lady.. start to see me more than a friend, to see me as a possible gf, hopefully.. yup. once again all advices and comments appreciated! thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [December 11, 2011, 8:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/6 "2011-12-11T08:23:31Z")
The [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is the same product for men or women, it’s perfectly fine. TUTH, on the other hand is specifically made for men to wear, to create sexual arousal in women. I don’t recommend it for you to wear, definitely not, it certainly won’t make him more interested in you, it might make you seem more “manly” and it also might make you feel grouchy or get a headache, depending on your menstrual cycle. If you want to attract him in a more sexual way, I highly recommend getting some “copulins”, also known as EOW (Essence of Woman). Unfortunately they are not available here at Androtics. Do an internet search, I know that Love-Scent sells them, as well as a few other reputable companies. There is also tons of info on copulins and EOW in the womens section. You can also ask any questions in the womens section, though there are fewer of us than there are men, we still have many experienced ladies who are more than happy to answer any questions you may have. ---
**Author:** ![zackpea](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/82dd89/32.png) [@zackpea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zackpea)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2011, 7:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/7 "2011-12-13T07:40:45Z")
im bumping this thread up because the GC was not yet issued and i’m sharing the order with meltee. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2011, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-singapore/53680/8 "2011-12-13T23:47:45Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Meltee! I think you should consider that with every man no matter how good or sweet he is will take for granted what he think is available. My guess is that he knows and think you are amazing and enjoys your company but being a guy and thinking that you are always going to be there and you not giving him the fear factor is going to give him that sense of comfortable you don’t want. I suggest you use these products and keep your distance a bit from this friend to work on yourself and your self esteem. It is imp you stay strong and show him you are doing you and can live without him. I am a bit confused, do you have a b/f or not? If you do then that could also be a contributing factor. All in all my advice is to take some time apart from your target to do you and love you. Take as much time as you need, you would be surprised that it may take 6 mths , a yr , 2 yrs men never forget that special someone. I am not saying to stay that long but you get my point. _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _