# Greetings from Texas : ) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 13, 2011, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-texas/53305 "2011-11-13T20:03:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![WalrusGumBoot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/walrusgumboot/32/1300_2.png) [@WalrusGumBoot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WalrusGumBoot)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2011, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-texas/53305/1 "2011-11-13T20:03:31Z")
Hi, An introductory post is the hardest post to write because it is difficult to determine what is the right amount to put down. I guess honesty is the best policy, so here goes! I am ending a 23 year marriage to a woman who was very emotionally abusive (I am 50 years old). There is a name for it, but this isn’t a psychology forum so I won’t get into it. Over the course of this time, she has chiseled away at my confidence, self-esteem, and my relationships with family and friends. I had always seem to do pretty well with women. I am tall and nice looking (carrying a few extra pounds now but working on that too). I do enjoy females as a whole. I like talking to them, doing things with them, and of course sex. I was always a little shy. To know me is to like me, the saying goes. Now that my confidence is in the dumps and the isolation has probably affected my social skills, I am looking for a pheromone program to: 1. Attain female friendships. “Break the ice” 2. Become more influential and have increased confidence 3. Overcome social anxieties by building my conversational skills 4. Have a great sex life I am a large man by stature and very kind at heart. I think my largeness can be viewed as sexy or intimidating, depending on the woman. I do enjoy women hitting on me. At this point I am not interested in jumping into another relationship. I would like to date and have fun (and of course enjoy an active sex life). I would like to learn all about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and what the right mix would be for me. Any pointers on where to start? What types to start with? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2011, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-texas/53305/2 "2011-11-13T20:04:00Z")
Hi there Walrus. Welcome on board. You have written a great introductory post. I guess honesty is the way to go too. If you want real advice, you have to talk about your real situation. It looks like you are going out of a very long relationship that was not that good in the long run, so although you need to get used to the new situation, eventually things can only get better. If you have always done good with women, there´s no reason why things should change. With mones, used in the right ampunt and at the right time, they should becom even better. It´s normal that your social skills are alittle rusty at first, but if you put some work on that, although it may be hard first, if you are consistent, you will get what you want. Mones are not going to do all the work for you, but they will help. If you have not already done it, I would sugegst you to read the following threads.They contain some good basic information to get you started. [Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802) [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) Speaking about products, for a guy your age, A314 seems the right choice. It will boost your status and make you feel more confident. If you are not sure, go for a to go bottle and do some testing. AMMO works great for creating attraction. Maybe you should go for the 2x strength version, as you can get more pheromones with less cologne strength. IO seems to be the right choice for breaking the ice. I would also get some IS, for the relaxing effect it has in the wearerand those around him. Get one to-go botle of each and do some testing. Everyone is different, and some products that work good for some people seem to don´t have much effect for other guys, so you need to test each product on you. You should start testing the products by itself first, and increasing the amount of sprays you use each time till you find what quantity works best for you. It´s all explained in this post: [How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1) Hope this helps. Good luck. Talk to you soon. ([Pheromone F A Qs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517)) ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2011, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-texas/53305/3 "2011-11-13T20:26:18Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! And thanks for the excellent introduction! I do have some great suggestions for you. To help with the shyness and social anxiety, definitely go with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Instant Openness will relax you and those around you, everyone will be chattier and conversation will flow more easily. Ammo is a nice all-around attraction product, in fact one of the most popular products here. Ammo will give your confidence and sex appeal a nice boost, and can be worn in any situation. For influential, A314 is the bomb! A314 is a confidence/trust/respect/status product, great in work situations and areas where you want to be perceived as more capable, knowledgeable, alpha. It can also be worn in social situations, but to reduce the possible intimidation factor, it can be softened with a social product (ie, Instant Honesty, Instant Shine, Instant Openness).. Instant Honesty would be helpful in your quest of meeting and getting to know new ladies. IH is great to help create and strengthen emotional bonds, others will feel more comfortable around you, tend to trust you more and will be more likely to open up to you. It can be used in all kinds of relationships to bring about and enhance feelings of trust and comfort. When you’re with a lady who is comfortable with you and ready to take things to the next level, Turn Up The Heat will get things over the edge. I hope this helps, and if you have any questions, just ask! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![WalrusGumBoot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/walrusgumboot/32/1300_2.png) [@WalrusGumBoot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WalrusGumBoot)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2011, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-texas/53305/4 "2011-11-14T00:55:03Z")
Wow! Thank you guys so much for the very informative replies! I am starting a new chapter in my life, and the help you have provided is awesome!! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2011, 12:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-texas/53305/5 "2011-11-16T00:09:55Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Walrus! The recommendations and advice was great and I just want to add that with the A314 if you are shy and your confidence is low it won’t work as well as it should. You can however build up to it with products like [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) to make you feel confident More ppl than you think are in abusive relationships whether it is physical or emotional and most times when someone leaves you and makes you feel like you weren’t special enough its hard to pick yourself up It is mind over matter, start doing things to make you feel good and socializing is always a great and positive step towards rebuilding Surround yourself with great ppl and fun _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _