# Greetings from the Little Dot **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 29, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994 "2009-08-29T02:04:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 2:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/1 "2009-08-29T02:04:24Z")
Hi there! I’m 25 and hail from Singapore and I’ve a compelling story to share on why I’m here and keen to give [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) a shot! This is just gonna be a summary of my entire ordeal but I hope it will give you a clear picture 🙂 My girlfriend of 3 plus years left me because of certain issues that she’s kept to herself and allowed to intensify. We were a beautiful couple. Everyone loved us. My parents treated her like one of their own and my sisters etc. were as close as blood siblings with her. She was a real gem in our lives, always helping out, resolving fights, supporting me financially when I was struggling, cherishing each others’ company, giving each other many surprises, lovely gifts and wonderful memories. We were already talking about marriage, kids, growing old together, envisioning a dream home and all for a long time because of how sure we are that we found the right person. It was magic. However, there were also frequent quarells because of her petty and my immature ways. I was also suffering from a host of health problems that often made me pick on little things and blow small issues over the top. She herself would be carrying lots of family and work burden, and had always been naive, insecure and very unclear about her life. She left me for an older guy whom neutral friends and through her OWN words and pictures convinced me that he’s nowhere near what I can offer, not in terms of looks alone, but more importantly in how happy and cherished I can make her feel. It has been almost 2 months of separation and all these time she has been really lost, missing me badly, but everytime she’s been touched by my gestures, she would cry and just tell me its best for us to be apart even though her heart is with me. I can go on and on but my intuition tells me that she needs to open up to me and get help as she is in a horrendous state. I already know what she’s going through and needs. But at this moment, she just doesn’t want to open up and listen to me as it will hurt both of us. No matter how powerful pheromones are, the brain still conquers eventual decisions. But based on its science, I’m convinced that it will at least remove her barriers, prejudice, and false thoughts, and possibly even skew her thoughts to be more receptive to my words and hopefully accept my love again. I want her to open up to me, feel a sense of security and assuredness with me, be sexually attracted to me, and look upon me as someone fun, exciting (i am fun and exciting just that she’s blocked her minds so much that the beautiful memories are overwhelmed by her wretched state). I know I can give her the best and true love shouldn’t be tainted by little challenges such as these. Please advise me on products you guys! Thank you so much! Blessings to all ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/2 "2009-08-29T02:12:44Z")
Hi satyricon, Thanks for the intro, you have provided a lot of information. I am also sorry to hear this story, as it does seem very painful for you, and her. I’d like you to consider the social products within the instant range - Instant Openness and Instant Honesty should help her open up to you and give you the honest reasons why it is not working for her, hopefully she will elaborate on her fears soon - it does seem like she is not being 100% honest with you at this stage. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is another wonderful product that may assist with attraction. I would normally suggest Ammo, but it has not worked as well with Asian women in the past. I’d like you to read about these products and others in [the Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)and let us know if you have any other questions. Good luck, and be sure to return and let us know about your results. ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/3 "2009-08-29T02:21:21Z")
Hi Alexander, Thanks so much for the info and quick reply! Wow, I’m impressed and grateful! Yeah it has been really tough on us. She knows she’s running away and we have talked and she’s always sounding or looking really bad. I’ve been losing weight because I can barely eat and sleep well. But its fine, I will be strong for both of us and my loved ones. I’ve read some good reviews on A314 and TUTH that I think will also help my cause. Of course my wish is not to bed her. That won’t happen because I know her values and mine. Our love transcends sex although it is a pleasurable experience. My wish is to turn all her attraction buttons on and melt all her barriers so that she’ll start thinking from a more favourable position. Would those products you recommended be sufficient? Thank you so much again 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/4 "2009-08-29T03:44:16Z")
Yeah Openness and Honesty sound like the best. A314 will get you respect. Maybe relationship counselling would help too - get those unresolved issues off your chest(s) and learn how to be a team again. ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 4:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/5 "2009-08-29T04:53:42Z")
Thanks Tezza! You mean to say that A314 and even TUTH is not required to add more attraction dimensions to my [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) concoction? I’m looking at A314 because its supposed to give me a certain status and aura which the old guy probably has over me? She wouldn’t try relationship counselling especially given that she’s now hiding behind a much older man admitting she’s running away from everything. I need her to start investing trust in me, loving and wanting me badly like we always used to again. After that, definitely we might explore relationship counselling. But thanks for the advice. Cheers 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 5:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/6 "2009-08-29T05:24:37Z")
A314 will get you respect it’s not necessarily attractive though. I think you need to open her up and find out what the real issues are so they can be dealt with. If she respects you too much she may lie to you because she’s afraid of how you would react or what you may think of her. ---
**Author:** ![matthie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5ac83/32.png) [@matthie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/matthie)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 6:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/7 "2009-08-29T06:07:04Z")
Hello satyricon! I’m glad you found us 😃 Reading your introduction, it feels your ex left you for someone mature who can lead her in her life. I think A314, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and a sexual mix will help you towards your goals. If your ex is chinese, then I’m not recommending Ammo or TUTH to you as it has not worked well for me. Once you are more experienced with the Instant line of products, you should try out the experimentals and putatives such as MX200, P74 and P83. Take care! ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 8:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/8 "2009-08-29T08:09:35Z")
wow sounds like a bit of conflict here man haha … but thanks so much matthie for your chinese girl insight appreciate it a lot! Yes you’re spot on in that she’s now so lost and confused that she just wants to be sheltered and protected by someone very old and mature to escape. She wants that maturity and respect. So what if i go for A314, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), Instant Gentlemen, would it be good? And what sexual mix would you recommend if Ammo and TUTH won’t work? Thanks so much you all I can see some light shining into these dark moments! ---
**Author:** ![matthie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5ac83/32.png) [@matthie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/matthie)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2009, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/9 "2009-08-29T14:36:53Z")
Welp no problem, the theory will be put to test when you use those pheromones. 🙂 Those products from the instant line that i recommended are social mixes, they may or may not put your relationship as “Let’s Just Be Friends”. I see a need for a sexual product but am unable to pinpoint a single product that does it. Perhaps the answer is somewhere in the forums. [Attracting Asian girls/women?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/attracting-asian-girls-women/6588) - Perronec’s answer, i like his celebrity mix, always obvious and fun to use. > [@The Asian Persuasion - Data Compiled](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-asian-persuasion-data-compiled/15770): > > I have read every thread on this forum about products to attract Asian women. Here are my findings by number of mentions. mx200(13) Instant Openness (12) Instant Shine (12) Instant Honesty (12) no Korean or Israeli A314 (8) be careful, might be intimidating. for girls in their early 20s AMMO (8) [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) (4) p93 (4) p83 (4) p79 (3) Instant Gentleman (3) use as a base Scent of Eros (3) CTTM (3) mx105 (3) mx103 (2) mx203 (1) EST (1) Enjoy! smiley > [@P83, a compilation: including 'sexual/erotic' effects](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p83-a-compilation-including-sexual-erotic-effects/5789): > > Deleted post > [@P74, a compilation: enhanced attracting effects, a ‘cool person' vibe, and empathy](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p74-a-compilation-enhanced-attracting-effects-a-cool-person-vibe-and-empathy/5136): > > Some P74 ‘attractant’ effects on females that have been documented so far: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p74/197/21](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/p74/197/21) SwingerMD (March 28, 2006): “Yes, p74 does seem to elicit a light “boyfriend” effect. I also have notice that both sexes really open up, very candid, and volunteer information on how they are feeling and what is on their mind. Sorta like what I hear about the effects of Instant Honesty (just got it but haven’t used it yet). The latter effects were from friends/acquaintances. It ki… Do read up the journals of fellow south east asians, it might assist in your endeavors. Oh yes! I’ve forgotten one very essential product. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) 😃 Gives out positive vibes and confidence. Excellent for daily usage. Btw, i think she’s still attracted to you. I think she’s afraid that the same old stuff, that she’s currently avoiding, will happen when she gets back with you. ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/10 "2009-08-30T01:59:52Z")
Hey Matthie, Thanks so much again. I don’t know much about those Putatives man. I’m a little lost, as I may have only one shot to meet up with her and test its efficacy. The products I’m looking at are A314, Instant Honesty, Instant Gentlemen, Instant Shine cos these create the traits and feelings she want to see and feel. But I’m not sure how to mix them and apportion. Also I’m looking to throw in just one sexual mix so that she might compare this feel with her current boyfriend. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)? P74? You are right about her. But whatever compelled her to avoid me is a strong force I must overcome. And I swear its her own baggage and not just our relationship. I want to help her but she must allow it! Any other opinions on these people?!? It would be greatly appreciated and you could play a significant role in creating my miracle 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![matthie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5ac83/32.png) [@matthie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/matthie)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 4:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/11 "2009-08-30T04:12:08Z")
Since you have one opportunity with your ex, please test out your pheros on others before her. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is out of stock… yikes ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 4:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/12 "2009-08-30T04:45:35Z")
Hi Matthie, I think the rest of the instant products plus A314 sounds like it should do the trick with regards to projecting the right traits based on how you guys describe it. I might just try P74 instead of instant female magic. I have some last few questions though, how many products are you allowed to mix? And should you reduce each product’s recommended dose if you are mixing? Also, can they all be applied at once or should there be intervals between each phero product? My first instinct after reading is 2 drops each of A314, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), Instant Honesty and P74 (Neroli). And I was contemplating Instant Shine as well hahah but that might be overboard! And thanks, will heed your advice and test it on others! 🙂 You rock Matthie! ---
**Author:** ![Jusah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jusah/32/894_2.png) [@Jusah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jusah)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 5:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/13 "2009-08-30T05:25:45Z")
Like Matthie said, be sure to test them out, try them each alone, and at small doses at first, work hard to get the doses at the most effective amount, and then try them together, also be sure you try them out in situations simular to the one you’re going to have when you try to get her back, don’t rush in, take it slow. Also, I’m somewhat good with my knowledge of relationships, but I have never been in your situation, so I’m of little help, but what I do know is that women love to feel appreciated, and smart, but I have experimented, and found that they hate to feel needed, like saying “I cannot imagine my life without you” For some reason that makes them think twice, But my knowledge is limited to lesser (6 to 18 month relationships) Maybe do research before you take on any of my advice. ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 7:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/14 "2009-08-30T07:19:19Z")
Hi Jusah, Thanks for the tip. I doubt I’ll ever get to test in an identical situation although i can try out on other people in a different way but look for the same outcomes or desired effects. All I need is to lower her barriers, make her receptive, gravitate towards me, feel attraction and I’m mighty confident I can take care of the rest. I do agree with you that you shouldn’t come across as too needy. I’m not like that! I have to be strong and love myself too! But I feel for her as everyone knows she’s blinded by too many things and she’s far from her true self now. She’s supposed to be better off but she isn’t! It will give me immense pleasure and happiness to help her and be together again and for the last time 🙂 Regards ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 5:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/15 "2009-08-31T17:52:18Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum moderator or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![matthie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b5ac83/32.png) [@matthie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/matthie)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/16 "2009-09-01T13:27:53Z")
> [@satyricon](#): > > Hi Matthie, > > I think the rest of the instant products plus A314 sounds like it should do the trick with regards to projecting the right traits based on how you guys describe it. I might just try P74 instead of instant female magic. > > I have some last few questions though, how many products are you allowed to mix? And should you reduce each product’s recommended dose if you are mixing? Also, > can they all be applied at once or should there be intervals between each phero product? > > My first instinct after reading is 2 drops each of A314, Instant Gentleman, Instant Honesty and P74 (Neroli). And I was contemplating Instant Shine as well hahah but that might be overboard! > > And thanks, will heed your advice and test it on others! 🙂 > > You rock Matthie! Heya, np 🙂 The maximum dosage is up to each person. Some people need more, some people need less. Your mileage might vary, best is to test from try each product 1 spray up till you get the dosage that you get the most hits on. E.g. A314, i’m good with 2 drops, i use 3 drops if i want to impose my presence. 😛 Be mindful that P74 is a putative, and thus not covered in the money back guarantee. Have fun! Pheromones helped in my relationships and also helped in opening new doors! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![satyricon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f05b48/32.png) [@satyricon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/satyricon)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 12:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/17 "2009-09-06T12:19:58Z")
Hi Guys, When you all mention about spraying behind your neck, wrists, forearms, chest etc.. Will wearing a long-sleeved shirt or blazer impede the efficacy of the pheros too much ?! Thanks in advance!! ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-from-the-little-dot/31994/18 "2009-09-06T13:31:33Z")
Yes. If you have to cover up too much, you can spray on the back of your hands, or the back of you head (on the hair).