# Greetings, new to pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 26, 2008, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274 "2008-12-26T20:03:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/1 "2008-12-26T20:03:39Z")
Hello everyone: I’ve been lurking around here for a couple of weeks and decided to give pheros a try. A little about myself. I grew up in the states and now live in the Caribbean. Life is very different and I’m having a hard time getting acustomed, especially since people get married so young here, I can’t seem to meet anyone that is not already compromised. There may be a few uncompromised out there but they seem too shy or old fashioned, or they just assume I’m already taken. A minus is that there are more females than males, which makes it even worse. I figure maybe this could be a good way to give my life some needed extra spice in meeting people. I’m in my early thirties. I don’t feel like I’m hot, but people do find me attractive, I just feel so alien in this culture. I’m usually seen as very serious and people seem to have a hard time approaching me. I’m interested in [instant sexiness b](https://phera.com/product/kitten/), mx135, and instant openess so that people may feel free to approach me and give some sexy appeal as well. I’m also interested in trying the to go sizes the instant sexiness a, instant honesty and instant shine for more special occasions, or to carry with me in case I either need or forget to put some on. Please feel free to give any advice. I also have read about lust after me but is out of stock and would like to try it sometime when is available. Thank you for reading my post. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/2 "2008-12-26T20:10:01Z")
Welcome to the forum. Wow! Sounds like you’ve done the research already. All I can do is agree with your choices, it sounds like you know what will work best for you. Go slow and test each product individually to find your sweet spot for each product. Then, you can layer more than one product for great effect. Good luck to you! ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/3 "2008-12-26T20:14:47Z")
Hello invisigal Nice to have a female member on board so welcome 😃 It is great that you have decided to try pheros here, good thinking 🙂 Btw don’t mind i say this but i would love to be in your country where there is more female than male 😉 Ok for your situation, the Instant Sexiness, Instant openness & MX135 is just ideal for your situation there in people approaching you 🙂 Definitely get IO & MX135 but for Instant Sexiness, i suggest you wait for Lady Tisha on her explaination of Instant Sexiness as she is the most experienced here 🙂 [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is great for relationship & Instant Shine is good for the confidence booster so give them a try for the special occasions if you want 🙂 Hope my info was helpful to you there & all the best in trying the pheros 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/4 "2008-12-26T20:28:53Z")
> [@Robbie](#): > > Welcome to the forum. > > Wow! Sounds like you’ve done the research already. All I can do is agree with your choices, it sounds like you know what will work best for you. > > Go slow and test each product individually to find your sweet spot for each product. Then, you can layer more than one product for great effect. > > Good luck to you! Thank you ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/5 "2008-12-26T20:29:40Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Hello invisigal > > Nice to have a female member on board so welcome 😃 It is great that you have decided to try pheros here, good thinking 🙂 Btw don’t mind i say this but i would love to be in your country where there is more female than male 😉 > > Ok for your situation, the Instant Sexiness, Instant openness & MX135 is just ideal for your situation there in people approaching you 🙂 Definitely get IO & MX135 but for Instant Sexiness, i suggest you wait for Lady Tisha on her explaination of Instant Sexiness as she is the most experienced here 🙂 Instant Honesty is great for relationship & Instant Shine is good for the confidence booster so give them a try for the special occasions if you want 🙂 > > Hope my info was helpful to you there & all the best in trying the pheros 🙂 Thanks, is Puerto Rico, I’m hoping to come back to the states when the economy is more stable. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/6 "2008-12-26T20:37:49Z")
> [@invisigal](#): > > Thanks, is Puerto Rico, I’m hoping to come back to the states when the economy is more stable. Oh i see well then i heard Puerto Rico is famous for its reggaeton music 🙂 Am i right? Anyway just to let you know that Lady Tisha will be issuing you your $25 GC when she drop by & check your intro 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/7 "2008-12-26T20:51:23Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Oh i see well then i heard Puerto Rico is famous for its reggaeton music 🙂 Am i right? > > Anyway just to let you know that Lady Tisha will be issuing you your $25 GC when she drop by & check your intro 🙂 Thank you, yes, lots of reggaeton. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 9:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/8 "2008-12-26T21:03:48Z")
> [@invisigal](#): > > Thank you, yes, lots of reggaeton. Your welcome 🙂, so i was right hmm, the movie that i watch about Puerto Rico was definitely right on the dot about Puerto Rico culture 😃 ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 10:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/9 "2008-12-26T22:12:21Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > Your welcome 🙂, so i was right hmm, the movie that i watch about Puerto Rico was definitely right on the dot about Puerto Rico culture 😃 Sorry, I don’t know which movie it is, but probably. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 10:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/10 "2008-12-26T22:14:49Z")
> [@invisigal](#): > > Sorry, I don’t know which movie it is, but probably. It’s ok no worries 🙂 Anyway just asking is the clubs there open in the day too? This is what i know from the movie 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2008, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/11 "2008-12-26T22:43:24Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. It looks like you have done a lot of reading there and you have selected the right phero for your situation. I suggest another phero for you to consider. IH is to make people talk more personal and make the conversation longer lasting. This is to make people closer to you. Have fun. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2008, 4:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/12 "2008-12-27T04:50:51Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I am glad you decided to stop lurking and join in the fun. For your situation I would highly suggest starting with Ishine for a youthful charismatic uplifting charm. IH for deeper connections and more conversation. Isexiness B for a soft sexy attractive vibe. Since you are originally interested more in TAH products like IS/B and MX135 I have picked B over A for you to start. I like them both myself LOL Now this is not to say your shouldnt get the other ones when your ready. I just dont want to overwhelm you with suggestions and the 3 above fit your situation best. Now lets get you qualified for that GC. What is your personality like ? Are you shy, laidback, intense , outgoing ??? ect ect I look forward to your reply Tisha ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2008, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/13 "2008-12-28T19:20:45Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 > > I am glad you decided to stop lurking and join in the fun. > > For your situation I would highly suggest starting with Ishine for a youthful charismatic uplifting charm. > > IH for deeper connections and more conversation. > > Isexiness B for a soft sexy attractive vibe. Since you are originally interested more in TAH products like IS/B and MX135 I have picked B over A for you to start. I like them both myself LOL > > Now this is not to say your shouldnt get the other ones when your ready. I just dont want to overwhelm you with suggestions and the 3 above fit your situation best. > > Now lets get you qualified for that GC. > > What is your personality like ? Are you shy, laidback, intense , outgoing ??? ect ect > > I look forward to your reply > > Tisha Hi Tisha: I’m shy and enjoy going out but don’t get much opportunity as is not adviceable for single females to go out alone due to the crime rate, and haven’t met anyone at all. I’m very independent which from what I’ve seen from being here for 2 years, does not work well in my favor. It seems like men here like more of the submissive, dependent type, or, they are not used to it. From what I see as well, men like women much younger than their age, so, unfortunatelly, men my age here won’t even give me a second look. Apparently a much younger women is some form of status symbol. I’m hoping I’m wrong, but that’s been my observation, I look about 23 or 24, but when I reveal my age, 33, they run. I also noticed the product TAF and [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/), which is supposed to relax me in social situations. I really want to be more laid back, any helpful suggestions would be greatly appreciated. People usually sense I’m uptight and strong minded, I usually keep to myself in social situations since I don’t want to make any cultural mistakes. I guess I just want to blend in. I want to be very approachable and add some sexy appeal. Also, will Lust after me return? I’ve heard good things about it. I’ll probably get instant sexyness a in to go form as I’m already strong character and would like to soften my personality perception and it seems instant sexyness b does that. Or maybe I’m cursed with people repelent, joke, joke. I’m not ugly, I mean, I’m 110lbs, 34c, 26in waist, and 36in hips, 5ft 1in. perfect teeth as I wore braces in the past, and long hair. I just don’t get what I’m doing wrong. ☹ I’ll be more than happy to take on more suggestions, thanks for taking the time to greet me and read my post. So far, it’s been a very pleasant experience joining the phorum. Thank you once again. ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2008, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/14 "2008-12-28T19:21:58Z")
> [@jamesbonded](#): > > Hi there, > > Welcome to the forum. > > It looks like you have done a lot of reading there and you have selected the right phero for your situation. > > I suggest another phero for you to consider. IH is to make people talk more personal and make the conversation longer lasting. This is to make people closer to you. > > Have fun. > > Cheers Thank you for reading my post, I appreciate your input, I’ll definetly add one of those on my order. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2008, 7:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/15 "2008-12-28T19:40:09Z")
All of Tisha’s suggestions would help you in many ways. As for men, you don’t want a man who can’t see how great you are. If they run away, that’s better for you. You don’t need to put up with their shallow hangups. When the right guy comes along, it won’t matter about your age, or your body shape (even if you are hot!) All that will matter to him is _who you are._ Don’t be impatient, hang in there. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2008, 7:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/16 "2008-12-28T19:52:38Z")
> [@Robbie](#): > > All of Tisha’s suggestions would help you in many ways. > > As for men, you don’t want a man who can’t see how great you are. If they run away, that’s better for you. You don’t need to put up with their shallow hangups. When the right guy comes along, it won’t matter about your age, or your body shape (even if you are hot!) All that will matter to him is _who you are._ > > Don’t be impatient, hang in there. 😉 Thanks, seems like is all location, location, location, remember, there are more females here than males. Hopefully with the advice received from here, I may have a little more advantage in giving my social life the jump start it needs. Thanks again for taking the time to read my post and reply. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/17 "2008-12-29T20:54:20Z")
Hello Thank you for providing more information 🙂 [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) is friendly and bonding, people are more accomadating and tend to spend more time around you. TAF is for focus and helps to intensify other products. These are both advanced putatives and take a little mone experience to use. I would suggest you start with the consumer products first. P74 would be the best one out of the two for your situation. Keep in mind they are not under the guarantee. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Have a Happy New Year Tisha ---
**Author:** ![invisigal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ee7513/32.png) [@invisigal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/invisigal)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2008, 11:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-new-to-pheromones/24274/18 "2008-12-29T23:53:35Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Hello Thank you for providing more information 🙂 > > P74 is friendly and bonding, people are more accomadating and tend to spend more time around you. > > TAF is for focus and helps to intensify other products. > > These are both advanced putatives and take a little mone experience to use. I would suggest you start with the consumer products first. P74 would be the best one out of the two for your situation. Keep in mind they are not under the guarantee. > > **Your GC is on its way** 😃 > > Have a Happy New Year > > Tisha Happy New Year as well, thank you so much for your help.