# Greetings To EVeryone! Gay Male Seeking Guidance...Please Help **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 2, 2009, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671 "2009-04-02T12:07:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![blazed\_blkrican](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blazed_blkrican/32/2080_2.png) [@blazed\_blkrican](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blazed_blkrican)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/1 "2009-04-02T12:07:09Z")
Hmm… Well where do I start with my introduction into this new freindly community. I think I will began by first say hello to every and that I do feel really comfortable being here. Next I guess I will Introduce myself. I am a 34 year old black and puerto rican mixed male from South, New Jersey. I stand at 5"11 and weight about 220lbs. Light skin complexion with grey eyes, mustache and goatee. Persona wise, my birth sign is gemini, which you know give me the the two minds trapped in body mental state (smile). I am very out going, and extremely friendly and talkative and can start a conversation with just about anybody on any subject. Very loving and will give my last to anybody who needs it. My greatest skill is that I am very adaptable which makes me extremely easy to blend in with any type of crowd or environment. I tend to be the leader type by nature by will allow somebody else to shine in the spot of the moment while I sit back and set the stage. and wait for the show to began. As well, I am homosexual. As well I am the aggressive, dominate, masculine type dude. Which kinda brings me to the reason I am here. And hopefully the questions that I ask of you members, some of you might be able to help answer for me if you have any knowledge on this subject. Being that I am getting older have noticed a few changes in how I am attracting people as far as simply walking into a room full of people I don’t know. I am for so odd reason attracting more women then usual which is exactly what I am aiming towards sexually, but don’t mind as far as general conversation goes. But when it come to other males, I seem to be turning the heads and catching the attention of younger men under 25, where I am about to be 35 in few months. Not a real problem but I prefer men within my age group. Sooooooooooo.. My questions are these… I am gonna make a purchase (smile) but I need to know, like should buy the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) a woman would purchase to attract a man or simple buy what a man would buy to attract a women? My mind is telling me to buy the same thing a heterosexual male would buy. Because I know it will attract females to me, no doubt, but I think it will also attract homosexual men to me as well, since gay men and straight females will both take a double look at a man they find sexually attractive walk into a room. And I figured it is the masculine edge that pulls the attraction. Even for myself, I will flirt with a masculine man before I flirt with a feminate one. Because it is that first attraction that draws in the attention to go say hello. And the simple fact that he is a man. Right? But then, after reading sme of the posts on here I was thinking. Ok, like some of the pheromones could get either a reaction of respect or a reaction of aggression from other males when wearing pheromone designed to attract women. Which can not always be a good thing, mind you, when you also add the homosexual factor in. So going by my personality which is extremely friendly and comical, which products should i purchase to attract the same sex (men)sexually and socially without enticing anger and confusion at the same time. (smile) ANy help would be great cause I wanna place my orders!!! Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/2 "2009-04-02T12:20:51Z")
Welcome. Great intro with lots of detail. Based on what you said I suggest a rone product. rone is a masculine [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/). It will tend to add to your perceived maturity. It does not incite agression as anone products sometimes do. There are a couple of rone products here you could try. If you want to increase status but also perhaps distance and make people a little less likely to engage you without your permission, try a314. If you want to make people feel that they are in benevolent, comfortable, capable hands, try IG. We will be most interested in hearing your results. We don’t get a lot of feedback from the gay community. Some, but not a lot. ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 12:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/3 "2009-04-02T12:35:44Z")
Hmm, I’m not sure I can help you besides suggesting the obvious. Androtics has a pheromone blend called “mystery boy” which is designed for gay men. If you just want something to help you get noticed and break the ice in meeting people, instant shine or instant openness would work well; these are [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) and can be used by both men and women. As for everything else I have no idea. I’m not sure how much research has been done on the role of pheromones on attraction between gay men. Maybe since you describe yourself as dominant, go for something that will enhance that alpha male signature. You don’t want a chemical signal that is in conflict with your personality. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 1:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/4 "2009-04-02T13:26:05Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. Like xev said, there is Mystery Boy which is meant for the gay community. [Social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) are unisex. IO is used to make people want to talk to you. IH will make the ocnversation deeper and meningful. Shine is the feel-good phero. It uplift your mood and the mod of the people around you. Hope this helps. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![v0m1t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/v0m1t/32/520_2.png) [@v0m1t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/v0m1t)\ **Post date:** [April 2, 2009, 5:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/5 "2009-04-02T17:30:47Z")
What about mystery boy? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2009, 1:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/6 "2009-04-03T01:39:30Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk. Gay men would buy the same mones men use to attract women. The reason being is this is what other gay men are attracted to. They are not attracted to women so they wont be attracted to womens mones. However what is usually done in a mix is mens mones are used with a small addition of female mones to lessen aggressiveness of them. [Mystery Boy](https://a314.com/product/mystery-boy/) is perfect. Its like the gay mans AMMO. It has a perfect blend of masculine and feminine mones. Ishine is another excellent choice to look at. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Hope to see you in the forum Tisha Hostess/guide ---
**Author:** ![balthierswife](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/balthierswife/32/1731_2.png) [@balthierswife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/balthierswife)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2009, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings-to-everyone-gay-male-seeking-guidance-please-help/27671/7 "2009-04-04T19:21:25Z")
Welcome **[blazed\_blkrican](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/blazed_blkrican)**!I have a similar problem that a lot of people here have been helping me with, like Tisha23 (Thank you!) and since you’re trying to attract gay guys, I think Mystery Boy would work wonders for you. As for me, I don’t know yet cause I really want to affect straight guys as well. Maybe have a good conversation with them with them approaching me first, so I think I’m leaning more to [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). 🙂