Yes, this is indeed a great example of what an Internet community should be like, and also a great place for sensible discussion of pheromones. Stick around and you will find people are very helpful; often it takes a bit of practise to learn to “drive” the pheromone products. Well, the car analogy might sound weird, but a lot of the learning curve that many people have to negotiate with wearing pheromones seems to me to be kind of learning some skills that are subconscious and hard to put into words.
Professional and social products: A314 (oil) or Instant Gentleman (spray) are androstenone-based mixes that will enhance your perceived professional and social status if used correctly, Instant Shine may even be considered a good bet for the workplace depending on what line of work you are in: it gives off an air of confidence and vitality and has a mysteriously magnetic effect on some people - it draws them into your personal space. Umm… if you are reserved possibly try the IG over the A314 too, because the A314 will just make people leave you alone as it can give an “unapproachable” vibe.
Attraction products: You may have read up on Ammo and TUTH already; the former is a cologne that is androstenone buffered with other pheromones androsterone and alpha-androstenol, and the latter is pure -none, and is possibly a bit direct and in-your-face for professional situations and even many social situations. As you are 23 years old maybe go with the Ammo as a safe bet.
If you haven’t read it already: Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp and the other stickies in the men’s forum are excellent.