# Greetings ;) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 6, 2011, 12:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698 "2011-10-06T12:41:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1

**Author:** ![sifaradia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b3f665/32.png) [@sifaradia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sifaradia)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 12:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/1 "2011-10-06T12:41:10Z")

Hi 🙂 I’m very glad I’ve found this site since my experience with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) has been mixed. I truly believe in the science, so I’m hoping I get more positive and informed experience with you guys. By the way, I currently live in England, just turned 40, am female, and am an unconventionally sexual/sensual individual 😉 Ok so what do I want to accomplish at the moment with pheromones… There is this man in my life whom I’ve known now for over ten years. We have been each other’s best friend through thick and thin, except we’ve never actually physically met. We met through work, have exchanged hundreds (if not thousands) of emails, video conferenced too many times to count and have had countless phone conversations through the years. Our friendship has survived marriages (and divorces)… basically we are each other’s confidantes. We’ve also always had incredible sexual interest, we love each other very much, but it’s been one of those things where the timing has never been right and any previous opportunity to actually meet in person has never panned out for whatever reason… until now. I believe this man is the love of my life. I have a lot of previous sexual experience, I am a very sexual person and am quite open about it. Thing is, I’ve never been so nervous about meeting someone as I am about meeting him. When we first met, I was younger, more physically attractive (in my opinion) with a lot less baggage - I guess I am afraid of rejection on a sexual level and I want some help with that. Also, in all honestly if we do click in that way, I want the sex to be OUTSTANDING! Not sure what else to say of if this is too much info, not enough, but I hope I can get some answers as to what I should try. Thanks! :o ---

**Author:** ![mikelspencr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikelspencr/32/1862_2.png) [@mikelspencr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikelspencr)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 12:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/2 "2011-10-06T12:51:13Z")

> [@sifaradia](#): > > Hi 🙂 > > I’m very glad I’ve found this site since my experience with pheromones has been mixed. I truly believe in the science, so I’m hoping I get more positive and informed experience with you guys. > > By the way, I currently live in England, just turned 40, am female, and am an unconventionally sexual/sensual individual 😉 > > Ok so what do I want to accomplish at the moment with pheromones… > > There is this man in my life whom I’ve known now for over ten years. We have been each other’s best friend through thick and thin, except we’ve never actually physically met. We met through work, have exchanged hundreds (if not thousands) of emails, video conferenced too many times to count and have had countless phone conversations through the years. Our friendship has survived marriages (and divorces)… basically we are each other’s confidantes. > > We’ve also always had incredible sexual interest, we love each other very much, but it’s been one of those things where the timing has never been right and any previous opportunity to actually meet in person has never panned out for whatever reason… until now. > > I believe this man is the love of my life. I have a lot of previous sexual experience, I am a very sexual person and am quite open about it. Thing is, I’ve never been so nervous about meeting someone as I am about meeting him. When we first met, I was younger, more physically attractive (in my opinion) with a lot less baggage - I guess I am afraid of rejection on a sexual level and I want some help with that. Also, in all honestly if we do click in that way, I want the sex to be OUTSTANDING! > > Not sure what else to say of if this is too much info, not enough, but I hope I can get some answers as to what I should try. > > Thanks! :o W-E-L-C-O-M-E!!! Amazing intro, if i do say so myself. I’m not one with the female end of the pheros, but if I could suggest a few things for you to work with, ill tag em along with quotes from ya > [@](#): > > Thing is, I’ve never been so nervous about meeting someone as I am about meeting him. Instant Honesty, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) for you. Honesty and openness will help you relax, as a self-effect, and will help him just want to get NEAR you. too bad we havent developed Instant Courage… yet 😉 > [@](#): > > I guess I am afraid of rejection on a sexual level and I want some help with that. Instant Sexiness.. but I couldn’t tell you which one.. a lady would have to give that info… sorry im not much help here > [@](#): > > Also, in all honestly if we do click in that way, I want the sex to be OUTSTANDING! Turn Up The Heat, guaranteed. I dont reccommend wearing these all at once, unless someone else tells otherwise, but each of those would get you a jump on where you want to be again… WELCOME!!! and I’m Mikel, pleasure to meet you! ---

**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 12:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/3 "2011-10-06T12:55:40Z")

Hi sifaradia - Welcome to Pherotalk. 🙂 No, that is an excellent intro and I hope the lady members will be along soon with some very good suggestions for you. Now as a guy, I can probably only speak for the more unisex/social products, which could help you significantly. For mood boosting and confidence, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is a prime choice. It creates a happy and good to be arounf feeling for you and people you meet - What better to help you overcome anxiety? 🙂 Also, IO will help promote and smooth flowing conversations, whilst IH can be good to increase closeness and bonding. You can wear them together to approximate the now discontinued CTTM2 but personally I find all the betanol can make things get a bit giddy and after a few hours, leave me feeling a little drained. Notrhing that some good food, fruit juice and a wee rest won’t resolve though. As mentioned above, yes TUTH can be excellent with an established partner but it can also be a little bit too horny on first meeting but that depends on environment too - eg with a little social buffering (IO/IS or IH) it can be good in clubs but maybe not so good for a sedate dinner, so it is up to you to consider how your unresolved attraction for this guy stands. Hope this helps and this thread may also prove useful: > [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258): > > Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to … ---

**Author:** ![sifaradia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b3f665/32.png) [@sifaradia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sifaradia)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 12:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/4 "2011-10-06T12:57:04Z")

Thanks, Mikel 😉 Question though…TUTH - the info says it’s for men… am I missing something? ---

**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 12:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/5 "2011-10-06T12:57:22Z")

Hi there, Haha,thats a pity that your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) experiences have been mixed.Theres a lot of scams on the market though so thats probably why.(\>_\<)Thats cool that your from England.Which part are you from?London?Lol,my sis is working as a lawyer there,it was a pretty nice place(^_^)Thats cool that you have a best friend that has been around for you and you for him for so long.Those are always the best friendships to have(^_^)Thats kind of understandable about being nervous since its always harder when theres a lot more at stake.Truthfully though,if youve known each other so long,im sure he will like you for who you are either way(^_^)Im sure you are still as attractive as when you were younger anyway(^\_^) Hmm,for your situation.Some instant sexiness B to help you appear more attractive and make you feel confident in your own skin is probably just what you need(^_^)Could check out some MX397 if your the more sexy dominant type though.Some instant shine to put him and you in a good mood and some instant honesty to enhance the connection thats already there would also be good things to add in(^_^)Some TUTH may also be good but i think you would have to spray it on him since im not sure if it works when sprayed on women though some have tried it(^_^)All the best and hope that your relationship works out since it sounds like you love each other a lot.Hmm,you should also check out the 2 stickies below as they will help you get the best effects out of your mones when you get them(^_^) [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) ---

**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/6 "2011-10-06T12:58:41Z")

> [@sifaradia](#): > > Thanks, Mikel 😉 Question though…TUTH - the info says it’s for men… am I missing something? Lol,thats normally so but it tends to arouse both people.Usually better to spray it on him though(\>\_\<) ---

**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 1:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/7 "2011-10-06T13:02:11Z")

> [@sifaradia](#): > > Thanks, Mikel 😉 Question though…TUTH - the info says it’s for men… am I missing something? Yes, find a good excuse to spray it on him. 😉 BTW, how old is he? If he too is in his mid-late 30s, 40s or above, it may be better to get the 2x or “Heavy” version as the higher none content makes-up for our natural drop in production as we age. It will also have certain confidence/mood benefits for him too. ---

**Author:** ![mikelspencr](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikelspencr/32/1862_2.png) [@mikelspencr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikelspencr)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 1:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/8 "2011-10-06T13:10:52Z")

thanks guys for backing that up for me. Browser crashed and i couldnt keep up til now. but yes, the TUTH will work just fine for either sex. my EX fiancee used to spray me with it and cover it with her favorite of my colognes.. (btw, if you pull off something like that without him knowing, you are one with the slight of hand skills lol) things get horny fast, i wont lie, but if he is agreeable to it, why not? ---

**Author:** ![sifaradia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b3f665/32.png) [@sifaradia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sifaradia)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/9 "2011-10-06T13:14:34Z")

LOL, you guys are so cool to respond so quickly 🙂 He’s 45. I use a lot of aromatherapy products so I’m sure I can come up with a good excuse 😉 Two things just occurred to me…first, Mikel, you mentioned your ex spraying TUTH on you then covering it up with cologne - can I infer that TUTH smells bad? Also, is it something that can be sprayed elsewhere, like I don’t know, a pillow, and still work as it should? ---

**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/10 "2011-10-06T14:44:49Z")

Its more the favourite scent combined with the desired effects. TUTH is in [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/), a light orange scent - mainly intended to help the pheros diffuse properly rather than as a cologne in itself. So covering is quite normal. **However** people do demonstrate a wide range of sensitivity to the smell of individual pheros, especially none - and whilst the vast majority will smell nothing or very little, some will discern a highly unpleasant smell. Its luck of the draw I’m afraid and you just have to try it and see. Don’t let an unpleasant response by one or two put you off though, most will not smell pheros that way. ---

**Author:** ![sifaradia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b3f665/32.png) [@sifaradia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sifaradia)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2011, 8:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/11 "2011-10-07T08:08:31Z")

[Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/) is good - I use it a lot in aromatherapy. It’s good for anxiety. I was hoping a woman would comment here after a day… I appreciate all your replies a lot but I am still a bit at a loss as to which Instant Sexiness to use. I am thinking of trying that with Instant Truth and TUTH. ---

**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2011, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/12 "2011-10-07T08:13:34Z")

> [@sifaradia](#): > > Neroli is good - I use it a lot in aromatherapy. It’s good for anxiety. > > I was hoping a woman would comment here after a day… I appreciate all your replies a lot but I am still a bit at a loss as to which Instant Sexiness to use. I am thinking of trying that with Instant Openness and TUTH. Hmm,a lot of the women dont frequent the introduction boards that much.You could post in the womens pheremones section if you want some more attention from the women(^_^)Lol,instant sexiness A has been discontinued so theres only [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) to choose(\>_\<)MX397 is supposed to be similar to the A but the MX’s are usually more expensive and arent usually recommended for first purchases so its better to stick to the consumer line and go with the instant sexiness B first(^\_^).All the best and hope that answered your question. ---

**Author:** ![sifaradia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b3f665/32.png) [@sifaradia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sifaradia)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2011, 9:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/13 "2011-10-07T09:39:11Z")

Well I guess that answers that then 🙂 [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) it is. Now, to figure out which of all you gave me the best answers… 😉 ---

**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2011, 6:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/14 "2011-10-10T18:53:01Z")

Welcome to pherotalk Safaradia! I see that you got some really good answers so far. I think that you need not to worry some much as whatever has to happen will happen. Pheromone are not magic, they bring out what is already there. You got the description of these products so think about what type of guy he is , what will get him going more and what angel you need to play this. I think seeming too eager would be a turn off so take the sweet yet mysterious approach. I hope things work out for you. _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _ ---

**Author:** ![sifaradia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b3f665/32.png) [@sifaradia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sifaradia)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2011, 4:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/52698/15 "2011-10-11T16:04:26Z")

Hi 😉 I just want to thank everyone again and say that I will place an order shortly. Also, I am a great believer in internet forum communities and am an active member in a few, and I love to participate in this one. Honestly, I’ve felt the urge to greet new people and respond to their intros since I’ve joined, but since I’m new and have yet to experience the products, there’s not much I can say at the moment 🙂 After going through many posts, this I was able to see that this forum is not just about the products, but can be pretty supportive re relationships/dating, etc., and I think this is great. I’d love to contribute, but my two cents’ worth would be quite unconventional, since I’m not a very conventional person in general and specifically re one’s love life, since first and foremost, although I do believe in marriage, I absolutely do not believe in monogamy. In any case, I hope to get to know you all better in the future. Thanks again!