# Greetings! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 16, 2013, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336 "2013-06-16T17:01:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![FE83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@FE83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FE83)\ **Post date:** [June 16, 2013, 5:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/1 "2013-06-16T17:01:58Z")
Hi everyone 🙂 Here writes soon twenty-year-old man from Finland(!). Just noticed that world contains also women and they are very nice. But I’m not super good with them so I am trying to progress myself in every section to be as good as possible. I first discovered [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) when I was making a research about human relationship. Topic felt really interesting but I forgot it since it wasn’t the main point there. Now I remembered pheros again and ended up here :o Why I want to give pheros a try? Because I know that competition is very tough and in most cases even luck has been against me. To balance this, I would like to try something that possibly would give me advantage 🙂 Main target girls aged around 20. I am not very shy but little unsure about myself; basic stuff. Speaking to random women isn’t big deal but they just dont find me attractive enough compared to for example my friends. Mr. Niceguy and Wingman-syndrome.. 🙄 Hope you guys understand me. English might be a little bit rusty since here in Finland is summer so you have more time to spend on more interesting things, like pheros. Looking forward your advice and comments 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TChanXX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f0a364/32.png) [@TChanXX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TChanXX)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2013, 9:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/2 "2013-06-17T09:38:13Z")
Hey FE83! Although pheromones will help you, if you are looking for a long term relationship, then you shouldn’t be dependent on pheromones. However, pheromones can help. To “cure” your nice-guy syndrome (although some girls like nice guys), maybe you can try Instant Jerk. It makes you a bit more aggressive and rude. You need to be careful with this as you might accidentally upset other men for no reason. If you just want to attract white/Latina/black girls then try Ammo. Younger girls prefer the Summer Edition ammo. If you want to attract Asians then you would need a mix of the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/): IG, IS, IO, and IH. Maybe they do find you attractive enough, but you probably have to be a bit more flirty or funny. I hope I answered your question! ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2013, 10:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/3 "2013-06-17T10:30:26Z")
I’d certainly get something like Instant Shine or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and pair it with Ammo for your goals. I also recommend you read the following threads [An Introduction to pheromones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) and [What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2013, 6:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/4 "2013-06-17T18:34:47Z")
Hello, FE83! Welcome! I agree with Ryan’s suggestions for you. Please let us know about your experiences! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2013, 12:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/5 "2013-06-21T12:44:27Z")
Welcome FE83, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![FE83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@FE83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FE83)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2013, 8:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/6 "2013-06-22T08:47:28Z")
> [@TChanXX](#): > > Hey FE83! Although pheromones will help you, if you are looking for a long term relationship, then you shouldn’t be dependent on pheromones. Yeah, totally agree. I think I have a pretty good idea how pheromones work and why people like to try them. In other words I dont have too high hopes for pheros but at the same time can’t wait to give them a shot. Like adventure of some sort 🆒 > [@TChanXX](#): > > Maybe they do find you attractive enough, but you probably have to be a bit more flirty This might be my biggest leak. Being aggressive I mean if I see an opportunity to start conversation I usually use it. I’m working on flirting also. I’ve noticed that for longer conversation/friendship/love/sex etc. women tend to pick up someone else than me eventhough I’m the one who was there first intoducing myself. My friends call me the best wingman ever 😕 > [@ryanmercer](#): > > I’d certainly get something like Instant Shine or Instant Openness and pair it with Ammo for your goals. Thanks for advice I appreciate it 🙂 Ordering soon! I will for sure share my experiences. ---
**Author:** ![FE83](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e47774/32.png) [@FE83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/FE83)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/7 "2014-02-21T16:11:05Z")
Hi everybody again! 😛 I’m sorry to post to this old thread, but I’m not a fan of making a new one. Here is almost all the information I need. So the whole idea of giving pheros a try kinda slipped from my fingers because I had to join army for a little while. But now I’m ready for everything 🙂 I also messed up at the time that gift certificate but I’m willing to pay that price :o Shortly, I made an order and clicked “Pay by phone” but never payed up… So could u guys say is my order fine here? 🙂 I’m planning to order these 4 products. All of them are those smaller TO GO!-versions, because I want to give them a try before investing more money on pheros. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) Instant Honesty Ammunition (Summer Edition) Turn Up The Heat Where I can share my experiences? 🙂 My biggest problem still is that I’m unable to get rid of that Wingman-role. Regards! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 4:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/greetings/59336/8 "2014-02-21T16:26:38Z")
If you didn’t pay or use it, the GC number may still be valid. Try dropping Mickaelia an email to see where you stand. 🙂 You could strt a journal in he Men’s Journals subfolder in Mens - that’s the best way to keep your ongoing experience together, or you could discuss single events by starting a specific thread in the Mens Forum.