Hi Nicole & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Oh great a female member on board 
Good that you join this forum & your keen interest in pheros here I guess you have done a lot of reading & know a bit about pheros there since you have been here for two months Good that your sis recommended you here
Ok i can recommend Instant Openness & Instant Shine as these two can help you on your situation there & Instant Sexiness A & Instant Honesty for you when you meet that special someone as it is suitable for intimate relationship. This is also highly recommended by an experienced user of Women pheros named Kitten & she also recommended Instant Shine too but i leave to you to decide there.
But i suggest it is better to wait for the ladies like Kitten to respond to your intro as they will give better recommendations, Another experienced lady that i can say you can refer to is Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 Here is a link about Womens pheros here for your references> Womens pheromone guide
I hope i was able to help you there. See you