# Guys, for Christ's sake initiate conversation after your hit! Some advice.

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 21, 2012, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-for-christs-sake-initiate-conversation-after-your-hit-some-advice/55934 "2012-06-21T00:33:45Z")\
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**Author:** ![paradox1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradox1/32/1196_2.png) [@paradox1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradox1)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2012, 5:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-for-christs-sake-initiate-conversation-after-your-hit-some-advice/55934/5 "2012-06-21T05:01:26Z")

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Hey JumboJim,

I understand your frustration. I posted about the same thing in my journal here: [Paradox's paradoxes-The Ravings of an Alchemist - #9 by paradox1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/paradoxs-paradoxes-the-ravings-of-an-alchemist/52527/9)

Unfortunately, everyone here is not a PUA so initiating conversation is a problem for some. Many guys here are looking for the quick fix for their social shortcomings. They are looking for love potion no. 9. A mix that will have any woman swooning and falling into their arms.

Hits are very, very subjective. You really have to be a good observationalist (is that a word?) to see a true hit. Sometimes a hair flip is just that a hair flip. Sometimes a glance is just that.

To be a good tester, you have to be able to discern between a normal response and an abnormal or unusual response. For example: the waitress at your favorite diner usually just takes your order and serves you. On the day you wear [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) she starts a long conversation with you.

Flirting is normal behavior for many women. A glance in a classroom from 20 feet away may or may not be attributed to pheromones. However if you notice twice the number of women sitting near you in class then you may be on to something.

Opening a conversation will do 2 things. It will extend her exposure time and close the distance gap. In fact it may even help her identify you as the pheromone user (the reason for her feelings).

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