# guys/lady's I need help ASAP pls :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 12, 2009, 10:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020 "2009-02-12T22:17:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Disconnected](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3be4f8/32.png) [@Disconnected](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Disconnected)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 5:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/61 "2009-02-13T17:37:31Z")
> [@dss](#): > > oh there is a ice skating place here …that might be a good thing to do ? Its really up to you, all i can do is offer advice,(as someone previously stated… Lor perhaps?) you have to do what feels right. What you should do is say: “hey, so i was wondering when your able to hang out or do something next? Cause i really want to see you again. Ill make time for you when your not too busy. But i was thinking maybe we go ice skating? Can you skate? But then again its up you” This would let her know that you can make your own decisions, and come up with your own ideas, but you wont force them on her. If you can come up with a better way to put that, it would be best. I feel as though i did sort of a rushed job. I hope this helps, Marc~🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 5:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/62 "2009-02-13T17:42:37Z")
ya well I am waiting for her reply now … shes probably busy at work thats why she hasn’t text back. (she works with her sister and the sister is out town so shes alone) ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/63 "2009-02-13T17:45:27Z")
> [@dss](#): > > oh there is a ice skating place here …that might be a good thing to do ? Yeah, an activity sort of a date sounds like a good plan if you ask me. I tell you what dss…this girl sounds like a younger version of me… 🙄 I can totally see where she is coming from with her behaviour… I still sometimes act the same, not as much as I did when I was her age, but if I really like a guy and he shows IOI’s sometimes I do revert back to the younger me and I just don’t know how to react…I just go balnk, look away or make an excuse to leave… If you want my two cents…to get this girl you’ll have to be persistant in a non-pushy way to convince her that you really like her & she wont get hurt… She wont make any first moves, be that calling you, kissing you or anything else until she’s comfortable with you, certain how you feel about her and how she feels about you…Keep showing her how interseted you are but not in a sexual way, but be sweet and romantic 🙂 Good things come to those who wait… ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 5:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/64 "2009-02-13T17:51:45Z")
ill show her that I want be with her and ill try stay away from all the sexual stuff. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 5:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/65 "2009-02-13T17:54:05Z")
> [@dss](#): > > ill show her that I want be with her and ill try stay away from all the sexual stuff. If you really like this girl I reckon that’s the way to go 🙂 I think it was mentioned earlier in the thread… The tortoise is the one who wins the race 😉 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 5:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/66 "2009-02-13T17:56:35Z")
i do like this girl and thanks everyone ill try keep you guys in the loop on how things go (the goods and the bad) but hopefully there be no bad. ---
**Author:** ![Disconnected](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/3be4f8/32.png) [@Disconnected](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Disconnected)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2009, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/67 "2009-02-13T18:08:15Z")
> [@dss](#): > > i do like this girl and thanks everyone ill try keep you guys in the loop on how things go (the goods and the bad) but hopefully there be no bad. Yeah hopefully it all goes good. I give you my best wishes for you and this girl. i hope anything a said could help you at all, and that i never just rambled. But compared to the advice most of the experts gave i feel like i didnt do such a good job 😛 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 4:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/68 "2009-02-16T16:20:25Z")
Okay so once again I want thank everyone who helped and I figured at least I can give you guys updates and keep you all up with everything going on and get feed backs and advice. so as you all know me and her hang out on Thursday night…we went out to nice dinner and drove around town (shes new to Austin) and end up at movies…at the movies I try holing her and hand all but she wasn’t really showing lot interest so I kinda lade off and after movie I went to drop her off by her car and she gives me a hug and pulls away so I didn’t get a kiss either ☹ so at this point I am feeling kinda rejected and worried if I am ever going to see her again and the fact that she said ill talk to you later and not see you later didn’t help …now for some of you that know me or even hang out with me…you all know I am not like that but for some reason this girl makes me act like a little school girl. so Friday comes around and I am still thinking about everything and she doesn’t really talk to me during the day so I call her around 7 or 8 PM for a small chat and had the balls to ask her if we can hang out again…she tells me shes free whenever and would like to see me again so once again I sucked it up and ask her to hang out with me for V day and she said YES …by that time I had this big O smile on my face and ya after I got off the phone with her I headed to bar with couple guys for a drink or two ( and yes I behaved ) well comes Saturday morning and I am calling every nice Italian restaurant(her fav type of food) in Austin and finally got a reservation at a very very nice restaurant its called siena well I decided to make it a double date that ways she can see me and get know me and my friends and it wont be anything to serious so she wouldn’t feel rushed or anything (that was my thinking i guess lol) at dinner we all are chatting …shes holding back a tad but still talking …after dinner we decided to go bar for couple drinks (she doesn’t drink much but likes the view and all that) the first bar we went to we saw couple more friends and she seem to get long with all the girls in group and thats really good 🙂 after that we went to a different bar with live music and all that… my friends makes her take a shot and we all are chatting and just having a good time …this guy try’s to hit on her and I decided to be a ass and go up to her and put my arms around her for a second and walked away.(she didn’t mind that but she did ask me at end of the night if that made me mad and I said no because shes here with me now ) well I walked off to talk to couple my guy friends and when I came back this dude is still trying but this time its her and my buddy’s girl …my friends gf leave to go restroom and I go up to the girl I am talking to and say if she wants to walk around the place…she takes my hand and follows me for a short walk ( by this time the guy is pissed lol ) after all that we play couple rounds of pool and shes watching lol and we head out …after dropping my buddy and his gf off I take her back to her place and get out car to give her a hug and still I didn’t get a kiss but she didn’t pull back like she did the first time… and we are going out again tonight 🙂 so any advice guys and girls (like to get girls point of view at this point) ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/69 "2009-02-16T16:50:15Z")
Sounds like a winner. The third time’s a charm get that kiss!! ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 5:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/70 "2009-02-16T17:05:24Z")
ya I know I am looking forward to it … I decided it be nice to have a fun date … go play golf - air hokey and indoor rock climbing oh and if you all are wondering what my mix was for second date is as follow 3 to 3 1/2 spray of IFM back of neck 2 or 3 spray of IS back of neck 1 1/2 to 2 spray of IS face 3 spray of CTTM 2 mix on neck/throat ( left, right , center) 2 or 3 spray of AMMO to cover up CTTM 2 ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/71 "2009-02-16T17:19:25Z")
> [@dss](#): > > I take her back to her place and get out car to give her a hug and still I didn’t get a kiss but she didn’t pull back like she did the first time… and we are going out again tonight 🙂 > > so any advice guys and girls (like to get girls point of view at this point) Hey! Great news, congrats dude! Seems like you’re doing fine 😃 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 16, 2009, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/72 "2009-02-16T18:02:49Z")
ya I mean so far every time I asked her to hang out she said yes 🙂 but still no kiss or anything. ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 10:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/73 "2009-02-27T10:58:28Z")
Hey Sean, I will step in for a bit if you don’t mind 😉. I do know you personally, and probably one of the only ones on this site that have met you in real life, so I hope what I have to say is helpful. I’m pretty sure I know of the girl you’re referring to, if she was the same girl that came to the club with us. You have a really good girl there, and I am glad for you both that you are getting along great 😃. You are more of the chill and relaxed type of guy, and yes I do admit that you aren’t the very emotional, cherry type “yay yay” type of guy, so you must obviously like her a lot. She wasn’t shy at all when we hung out, so that is very surprising to me. She seemed very much like a very friendly, outgoing type of girl, that is not afraid to talk to anyone. Maybe I just caught her on a good day lol, or you told her about me so she was comfortable around me 😕. Best of luck with this girl, and enjoy your [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and use them to your advantage. Cheers mate. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![dss](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ac8455/32.png) [@dss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dss)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 2:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/74 "2009-02-27T14:56:36Z")
oh ya totally forgot about this post ya well shes the girlfriend now 😃 I am off the market. ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 6:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/guys-ladys-i-need-help-asap-pls/26020/75 "2009-02-27T18:19:00Z")
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