# Hallo!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 9, 2009, 8:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883 "2009-02-09T08:01:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lilsparra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/90ced4/32.png) [@lilsparra](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lilsparra)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 8:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883/1 "2009-02-09T08:01:07Z")
Hi Everyone! Lilsparra here. I hope you’re all doing well. 🙂 Now, a bit more about me: I am a 23 yr-old woman from sunny (well, usually sunny it’s raining now lol) SoCal. I’m a musician and love to sing opera. I usually consider myself to be a somewhat quiet, reserved, introverted, demure kind of girl. Despite this, I’ve always managed to have a bevy of guys around as friends…ever since I was little. I still have more male friends than female friends. I’ve just always felt more comfortable and safe around them. On the extremely rare occasions that I’ve dropped in and hung out with a group of fellow femmes over an extended amount of time, ‘drama’ of some type would inevitably arise, in-fighting would begin and I would head for the hills. Back to the relative calm and simple pleasures of chilling out with my guy friends (not to say that men are ‘simple’ in any sense ^^😉 I hate to say this but… I just don’t like dealing with women… and I’M A WOMAN! What’s up with that?! And as for my guy friends… they’ve always been… friends. (Except for one, who after a ridiculous amount of time and game of hot/cold-mixed signals decided to dive in I guess) It’s has been a mix of joy and frustration/disappointment for me. I’ve asked some of my old guy friends if they’d ever been attracted to me at one point, and most of them replied YES, but that they’d also been a little intimidated by me. This really surprised me because I’m tiny: 4ft 10. The last thing I’d think of myself as being would be intimidating. In my short life thus far, I have only had two serious relationships, both ending on relatively positive notes. I’m still very close/good friends with both of my exes. Each relationship had its own unique but equally intense vibe of sensuality. I’ll admit to being a richly sensual person, when provoked lol. So, as for what I’d hope to accomplish with 'mones… A) Something to help me feel more at ease whilst among my fellow femmes. And vice versa. B) And something to nudge the guys out of the ‘gee, she’s great to hang out with, AND I really like her but, but, but…’ realm. So it doesn’t have to go “Wait, why didn’t you say anything? I liked you /too/!” (some odd months/years later) ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 8:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883/2 "2009-02-09T08:05:10Z")
Hi Lilsparra, and welcome! I am very new myself, but am finding information both easy to come by, and easy to understand. For me, I wish to accomplish: Respect at work, financial bargaining power, and making my idiot bf sorry he was disloyal to me. Different pheromones, either used alone, or in various combinations, can help you achieve your desires and goals. Of course, they cannot do it all alone, such accomplishments require effort from you as well. These pheromones help to bring out what is there inside you already, to make more visible to others the things you already know about yourself. My first order is for: [Instant Sexiness](https://a314.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), MX 300 and MX 135. Though I am still quite new, I will try to help you as best I can, as a “sister newbie”. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 8:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883/3 "2009-02-09T08:06:09Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. For your case I suggest [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), IO and IH. IO will open up the people. They will love to talk to you. You will be the center of attraction. IH will make them closer to you. They will talk personal woth you. They will feel like they know you for long time and comfortable beside you. As for the guys, Instant Sexiness will make you sexy and attractive. IS A will make you more dominant like Angelina Jolie. IS B will make you more femonine like Mnroe. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 9:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883/4 "2009-02-09T09:51:51Z")
Hi lilsparra. I see you’ve already had some great advice. Do a search for a thread called Xiphoid’s Web and you’ll see what great results girls ( particularly those who guys tend to find intimidating) can achieve in a short period of time. If there is one product I would recommend, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) does exactly what it says, combine that with some of JB’s recommendations and you will be fighting the guys off 😃. Also have a look at MX135, not strictly for newbies but it’s been around long enough that you can reasonably expect to be the centre of attention party girl 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883/5 "2009-02-09T19:50:26Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Hmm I see you have two situations that call for slightly different approaches phenomenally. I can come across as intimidating to some men as well. Its nothing to do with size or look but more of the attitude you project. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) can help you First lets cover women… I would suggest IH and Ishine for this situation. Ishine to draw them in and give a warm uplifting feeling. IH to form a connection with them. IH is great because in male female relationships it can increase intimacy but in friendships it can cause the bonded trusted best friend vibe. For the men… I would suggest IS/B and IH. IS/B will compliment your persoanlity more. Its sexy soft attractive. Men already have a intimidation factor around you. Its not your size its because they are attracted that they become intimidated. IS/A would mote the likely increase and intimidated they fel IH will increase the connected intimate feeling. If you have queastions just ask, **Your GC is on its way** ---
**Author:** ![lilsparra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/90ced4/32.png) [@lilsparra](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lilsparra)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hallo/25883/6 "2009-02-09T23:58:21Z")
Thank you everyone for your welcomes and tips, I’ll definitely be looking into your suggestions. 🙂 Oh and thank you Tisha for the GC!