# Have IS/A should I order B.... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 14, 2008, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627 "2008-05-14T17:50:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![janesmith1424](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7993a0/32.png) [@janesmith1424](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/janesmith1424)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627/1 "2008-05-14T17:50:24Z")
Okay ladies… need some advice. I’ve been using LAM and IS/A. At first the IS/A made me feel a bit bitchy, but not so much anymore… I just feel sexier when I wear it. But… the looks and attention I am getting are sort of weird. I mentioned it in my first experiment post, but there have been hits since, but it’s almost like the guys are a bit intimidated. They are definitely checking me out, but almost like they don’t want me to know they are. They seem a bit nervous and fidgety… it’s really cute, but weird. I think I must be giving off an unapproachable or cold sort of vibe. I tend to be shy and bit aloof anyway and I think the IS/A may exaggerate that. So… for those who’ve tried IS/B, will it warm things up a bit… make me a bit more approachable, the hits more overt? I’m definitely ordering some Instant Shine (still haven’t found mine) and some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), but thought the IS/B might give me a bit of a different vibe and self effect as well. Whatcha think? ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627/2 "2008-05-14T19:26:56Z")
I find IS/B warmer, softer, more girly, feminine, approachable, fun, humorous, and actually LOTS more sexy than IS/A. My temp goes up when I put it on! ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 7:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627/3 "2008-05-14T19:58:55Z")
I know if I got IS/A the monster in Cloverfield would look like the Taco Bell chihuahua. And I’m on my monthly? Oh NO. I LOVE my IS/B! ---
**Author:** ![janesmith1424](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7993a0/32.png) [@janesmith1424](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/janesmith1424)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 10:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627/4 "2008-05-14T22:23:45Z")
Alright then.. I’m gonna give it a try! I’ll keep you posted on my next adventure. ---
**Author:** ![NormaJeanMarilyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/normajeanmarilyn/32/586_2.png) [@NormaJeanMarilyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NormaJeanMarilyn)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2008, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627/5 "2008-05-14T22:40:52Z")
Have you started a journal yet, Jane? It will be easier for us to find and follow. ---
**Author:** ![kismet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/bc8723/32.png) [@kismet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kismet)\ **Post date:** [May 18, 2008, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/have-is-a-should-i-order-b/12627/6 "2008-05-18T18:30:14Z")
I think it depends on what sort of guys you want to attract. I’m an IS/A girl. I have a job where I’m supposed to be an authority figure, and I’m used to that vibe, it fits my personality, etc. If I use IS/B to “soften” myself and attract a guy who can’t respect mah authoriteh (ha!) or at least who freaks out when he figures out I’m really not just a fluffy little sex bomb it’s not going to work. Fortunately my boyfriend seems to dig the whole IS/A vibe, without being in the least submissive.