# Having trouble with some girl.What's the matter? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 1, 2010, 5:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233 "2010-05-01T17:29:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/21 "2010-05-02T21:41:40Z")
There is no failure. There are only RESULTS, either a result you want or one you don’t. SAY IT, there is NO FAILURE, Only RESULTS. So you have her # now. That’s your result. Good job. What did she say when you asked her if she wants to hang out? yes? no? anything? or did she go straight ahead and say I don’t answer my phone? ---
**Author:** ![TzarBHD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/5daacb/32.png) [@TzarBHD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TzarBHD)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/22 "2010-05-02T21:43:18Z")
She said, ‘‘when?’’, I told her ‘‘idk, this week i’ll see.’’ So I could take the control from there. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/23 "2010-05-02T22:04:57Z")
Ok, good job yes. You wanna be in control. A women needs you to know exactly what you want. I don’t care if any women tells you different. Know in advance the what, when, where. So text her something funny or whatever, be friends with her. Imagine the phermones will let her know you’re not just a friend. Text her, see when shes free. Get a date & time. and once the day is set…say Wed. coffee at 7pm..dont let her flake, most women try to test you, by flaking out on you see if you’ll put up with there bullshit…Ohhh they say I have to cancel 95% of time that’ bs. ---
**Author:** ![TzarBHD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/5daacb/32.png) [@TzarBHD](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TzarBHD)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/24 "2010-05-02T22:33:54Z")
I HATE texting, and especially trying to be funny at texting lol.I don’t care i’ll call her and tell her to talk to me on her home phone. ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 2, 2010, 11:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/25 "2010-05-02T23:35:41Z")
Ok whatever the case. IMHO… I suggest just talking to her on the phone the 1st time just about whatever you’ve talked about in person, further a past conversation… Not asking her out, right away…make the phone call on the shorter side however, “hey whats up, how was your day”, or some bull shit get a feel for her phone convo and then boom after a few moments, okay i gotta go, talk to you later. Be the 1st to say ok, i gotta go do such and such…don’t hang out on the phone. If it seems like plans can be made on the 1st call, sure, but if not, just..ok cool good talking, ttyl…and then jet. If possible call her a few minutes before you ACTUALLY have to go do something, that way you really come across as you gotta go, but you just wanted to chat for a bit. ---
**Author:** ![Des\_1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/des_1/32/695_2.png) [@Des\_1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Des_1)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/26 "2010-05-03T00:22:13Z")
ehhh… I don’t know bro, telling her you’ll txt her then calling, thats lieing right? yea I’m pretty sure, so I wouldn’t. but see how it goes ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [May 3, 2010, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233/27 "2010-05-03T00:44:32Z")
> [@Des](#): > > ehhh… I don’t know bro, telling her you’ll txt her then calling, thats lieing right? yea I’m pretty sure, so I wouldn’t. but see how it goes Yeah that’s what I said at first…but whateve [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/having-trouble-with-some-girl-whats-the-matter/38233.md?page=1)