# Hear me out and help me choose the right product for me! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 16, 2008, 5:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hear-me-out-and-help-me-choose-the-right-product-for-me/11268 "2008-04-16T05:41:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 5
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 16, 2008, 11:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hear-me-out-and-help-me-choose-the-right-product-for-me/11268/5 "2008-04-16T11:03:25Z")
I just want to expand on what Mockingbird mentioned. When we say **MIX** we dont mean that you mix the products in a bottle. ALL products here except the putatives and the experimones are ment to be layered. Of course you should always start with one product at a time or you wont know which produt is doing what when your wearing them layered. Because I dont want you to be disapointed on what mones can and cant do you should read this post… > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… I agree with MB on the products to get. IFM is good but even gegogi will tell you its more for calming then attracting. Tisha --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hear-me-out-and-help-me-choose-the-right-product-for-me/11268)._