# Hello, 26 Cally looking to spice up social life **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 3, 2008, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768 "2008-10-03T17:18:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Stormyeyes112](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/stormyeyes112/32/296_2.png) [@Stormyeyes112](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stormyeyes112)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 5:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/1 "2008-10-03T17:18:56Z")
Hello All, I am 26 and I currently live in southern California, never been married, no children, employed šŸ™‚ Can you believe that I have never been in a serious relationship!!! šŸ˜• I am not sure why I have such a hard time attracting men, and the ones that I do attract are not anyone that I am interested in. I hope to learn so much about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) and how they work and what works for me so that I can spice up my social life. Any help or guidance would be received with open armsā€¦Thanks Stormy šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/2 "2008-10-03T18:28:04Z")
hey welcome! i love it when a girl joins the forum šŸ™‚ for starters, u should try out some instant sexiness. i dont know what kind of personality you are, but if you are dominant alpha female type, u shoudl try instant sexinesss A, if ur shy, cuddly type of a person, u should try [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). also, y dont u try instant openness to help you ease into talking to guys? (and girls also in general? ) anyways, gluck and ur welcome to pm me if u like šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/3 "2008-10-03T18:43:50Z")
Hey Stormyeyes! Welcome to the forums, You want to Spice up your social life - [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine should help for that - they are both great products for men and Women (I absolutely LOVE shine). Openness makes for MORE conversationsā€¦ and Shine makes you and those around you feel great!) Apparently Instant Sexiness is a great product as well - A is for a Dangerous Sexy kinda feel and B is for a cuddly warm kinda feel - Which would you prefer? Which works best for your personality (my personal opinion is use Pheroā€™s which amplify what you already got) Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![Stormyeyes112](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/stormyeyes112/32/296_2.png) [@Stormyeyes112](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stormyeyes112)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/4 "2008-10-03T18:46:05Z")
Hey Remmy, Thanks for the support, I have ordered [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and instant shine, I will haev to check out the instant openness to see how that works out. Keep your fingers crossed that it works for me, and I will be sure to keep you posted šŸ™‚ Thanks for the warm welcome ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 6:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/5 "2008-10-03T18:46:10Z")
Hey Stormy! Welcome to our community. Wrl made some excellent suggestions there. I think what you want now are socials to help you get out there and advertise yourself as a desirable mate. To that end, IO and IShine will definitely help you; you may want to look into IH as well. Good luck šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Stormyeyes112](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/stormyeyes112/32/296_2.png) [@Stormyeyes112](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stormyeyes112)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/6 "2008-10-03T18:58:07Z")
Thanks you all have been so helpful!! and I appreciate all the experienced advice, :)I am not totting my own horn but, I am not a bad looking girl and most guys say that I come off a bit intimidating (appearance wise) and that they donā€™t have the courage to talk to me. So with open honestly and instant shine, will this hopefully make me more approachable?? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 8:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/7 "2008-10-03T20:22:39Z")
Hi Stormyeyes112 and Welcome to Pherotalk! All of us girls can confess that there was a point in time when all the dudes we attracted we couldnā€™t be bothered with. All the dudes we were attracted though, couldnā€™t be bothered. I know there was a point in time when I was screaming : ā€œAre there no available guys left for meā€ šŸ˜‰ Remember itā€™s not all about looks for men, some men like an outgoing girl, others like their ladies shy. Are you seeking to attract a certain type of male? Instant openness is good for opening conversation doors. Instant shine makes you feel good and makes others feel good around you. Instant sexiness is a sexual [attraction pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) but I need to know what type of girl you are to know what to recommend. You want some advice and guidance and we are here to help. šŸ™‚ In order to do that I would need more information from you. How did you find out about this site? What exactly do you plan to gain from using pheromones? Here is a link from Steveo telling you exactly how you can qualify for a $15 Gift certificate for your first order. šŸ˜‰ In so doing, we can get that needed info to help you. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2008, 8:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/8 "2008-10-03T20:27:59Z")
Shine should definetly make you more approachable - it kinda makes you a celebrity that everyone wants to be around. Openness will make it easier for people to overcome their own shit and talk to you - Honesty helps make for more meaningful conversation ---
**Author:** ![Stormyeyes112](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/stormyeyes112/32/296_2.png) [@Stormyeyes112](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stormyeyes112)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/9 "2009-11-08T01:28:17Z")
It has been a while and I decided to try pheromones out again. I have not ordered anything yet so I hope that I could get some advice on what to try again. My personality type is confident, most people say that I come off as unapproachable at first but when they get to know me they find that I am a pretty laid back cool gal. All of us girls can confess that there was a point in time when all the dudes we attracted we couldnā€™t be bothered with. All the dudes we were attracted though, couldnā€™t be bothered. I know there was a point in time when I was screaming : ā€œAre there no available guys left for meā€ šŸ˜‰ Remember itā€™s not all about looks for men, some men like an outgoing girl, others like their ladies shy. Are you seeking to attract a certain type of male? Instant openness is good for opening conversation doors. Instant shine makes you feel good and makes others feel good around you. Instant sexiness is a sexual [attraction pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) but I need to know what type of girl you are to know what to recommend. You want some advice and guidance and we are here to help. šŸ™‚ In order to do that I would need more information from you. How did you find out about this site? What exactly do you plan to gain from using pheromones? Here is a link from Steveo telling you exactly how you can qualify for a $15 Gift certificate for your first order. šŸ˜‰ In so doing, we can get that needed info to help you. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/10 "2009-11-08T16:43:17Z")
I was totally shocked when I saw this post. Was wondering if something went wrong in the systems. Lol. A hearty welcome back hun and we are hoping this time you are here to stay. Why did you decide to give pheromones another try. I am mighty glad that you did. How are you relationship wise and whatā€™s going on in your life. All in all I have learnt with pheromones and life itā€™s all about patience. I donā€™t mean patience as in sitting and waiting. Put yourself out there, date , examine yourself and figure out exactly what you want and so some men testing at the same time. Before you know it, the right guy will come along. I second the motion to use instant shine but to make you feel good and an uplifted spirit makes it easier to take on most things. [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/A to make you feel sexy and enhance your already confident personality. CTTM 2 which I have experienced makes the guys approach you even more than instant openness. ---
**Author:** ![Stormyeyes112](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/stormyeyes112/32/296_2.png) [@Stormyeyes112](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stormyeyes112)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 7:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/11 "2009-11-08T19:18:34Z")
LOL, I know it has been a whileā€¦ Well, I moved to D.C a few weeks ago due to work and I know no one here! I been on two dates so far but they have been blahā€¦ One guy was just not as mature as I expected him to be and the other guy was nice but there was not a connection there for me. I know that I am very picky when it comes to dating and I have not been in a relationship in quite a while. It has been a while since I have attracted a guy that grabs my attention physically and mentally. I decided to try pheromones again because I received an e-mail stating that someone had replied to one of my threads I posted a while backā€¦ With the new move and the e-mail reply, I took it as a sign to give the pheromone things another try. šŸ™„ ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2009, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-26-cally-looking-to-spice-up-social-life/20768/12 "2009-11-08T19:42:49Z")
Hey Stormyeyes and welcome to the forum! Iā€™m glad your giving pheros another shot because they truly do work wonders and they really have the ability to change your entire outlook on life, at least it did for me.šŸ˜ƒ Since Iā€™m a guy there arenā€™t TOO many products I can recommend you except Insant Sexiness since my mom uses it. She reports that it helps make people very chatty and friendly so if you see a guy you like this stuff can help increase his attraction to you. Hopefully, one of the ladies will be over here to give you some more advice.šŸ˜‰