# Hello! A bit on my life and some questions **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 10, 2013, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267 "2013-06-10T20:04:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mialiway](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@mialiway](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mialiway)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2013, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/1 "2013-06-10T20:04:59Z")
Hello everyone, I’m 23, asian, female from Canada. I’m new to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) but had been interested for a while. But recently decided it’s time to turn my life around with a “little help” 😛 A bit on myself. My life has been some what of a mess. I’ve become super unmotivated and just generally unhappy with how my life is going. I’ve lost touch with many of my friends and my love life haven’t been great either. I’m definitely not unattractive or anything but I am not as feminine as most girls so I have more guy friends than girls. I am very laid back and generally pretty outgoing however I may be shy at first (though some people say I look more intimidating) as I rarely ever initiate conversations. I had no trouble with guys in hs (having quite a few bfs) but I haven’t been hitting it off so well in college.. My current guy friends see me as their “bros” which really bothers me since after all, I’m still a girl and would like to be treated as one. At the same time since I’m really laid back and somewhat aloof, people don’t tend to take me seriously and I feel like they don’t respect me. Also I’m looking to find a job soon and since I’m in the business field, I need to be viewed as respectable, social, confident and motivated. Unfortunately, I’m on a tight budget as I’m a student and cannot spend a big chunk of my budget on a collection of pheromones (however I sure would love to when I get that job!). All in all, I’m looking for a product that will help me make friends (guys AND girls), give myself a more sexual/womanly appeal to guys and be beneficial to the workplace. I was hoping someone can suggest me a fitting pheromone for both the social and love aspect? Thank you! I appreciate it! Sorry for the long post :o ---
**Author:** ![GhostOfDawn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/977dab/32.png) [@GhostOfDawn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GhostOfDawn)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2013, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/2 "2013-06-10T20:26:32Z")
> [@mialiway](#): > > Hello everyone, I’m 23, asian, female from Canada. > > I’m new to pheromones but had been interested for a while. But recently decided it’s time to turn my life around with a “little help” 😛 > > A bit on myself. My life has been some what of a mess. I’ve become super unmotivated and just generally unhappy with how my life is going. I’ve lost touch with many of my friends and my love life haven’t been great either. > > I’m definitely not unattractive or anything but I am not as feminine as most girls so I have more guy friends than girls. I am very laid back and generally pretty outgoing however I may be shy at first (though some people say I look more intimidating) as I rarely ever initiate conversations. I had no trouble with guys in hs (having quite a few bfs) but I haven’t been hitting it off so well in college.. My current guy friends see me as their “bros” which really bothers me since after all, I’m still a girl and would like to be treated as one. > > At the same time since I’m really laid back and somewhat aloof, people don’t tend to take me seriously and I feel like they don’t respect me. Also I’m looking to find a job soon and since I’m in the business field, I need to be viewed as respectable, social, confident and motivated. > > Unfortunately, I’m on a tight budget as I’m a student and cannot spend a big chunk of my budget on a collection of pheromones (however I sure would love to when I get that job!). All in all, I’m looking for a product that will help me make friends (guys AND girls), give myself a more sexual/womanly appeal to guys and be beneficial to the workplace. I was hoping someone can suggest me a fitting pheromone for both the social and love aspect? > > Thank you! I appreciate it! Sorry for the long post :o Hello! You should check out these posts! > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… > [@LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383): > > Hello people! For awhile now I have been wanting to compile your wonderful experiences for everyone, especially us newbies. I find myself constantly searching, searching, searching for your pearls of wisdom and thought - why not put some together on one page? I know there are other fantastics posts out there with the phero meanings, descriptions, and what they are designed for and what is in them, but this one only has direct, random quotes from all of you based on your own personal experienc… > [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258): > > Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to … ---
**Author:** ![mialiway](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@mialiway](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mialiway)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2013, 8:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/3 "2013-06-10T20:51:13Z")
> [@GhostOfDawn](#): > > Hello! You should check out these posts! > > [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) > > [LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383) > > [Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) Hi, thank you. I appreciate the help! But I’ve been lurking in the forms for a while now and already gone through those posts. Mainly, I just can’t decide which [pheromone](https://a314.com/) is more suitable for me (as I am very noob to this). So I was hoping maybe other women who’s tried them would be able to offer me a good recommendation based on my situation? ---
**Author:** ![GhostOfDawn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/977dab/32.png) [@GhostOfDawn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GhostOfDawn)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2013, 7:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/4 "2013-06-11T07:13:41Z")
> [@mialiway](#): > > Hi, thank you. I appreciate the help! But I’ve been lurking in the forms for a while now and already gone through those posts. > Mainly, I just can’t decide which pheromone is more suitable for me (as I am very noob to this). So I was hoping maybe other women who’s tried them would be able to offer me a good recommendation based on my situation? Well based off of what you want to do with pheromones, I think Instant Sexiness and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) would be great for your situation. ---
**Author:** ![mialiway](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee59a6/32.png) [@mialiway](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mialiway)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2013, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/5 "2013-06-11T10:09:38Z")
> [@GhostOfDawn](#): > > Well based off of what you want to do with pheromones, I think Instant Sexiness and Instant Openness would be great for your situation. Alright, thank you for the feedback! 🙂 I look more into those two. On another note, I was wondering if the $25 gift card is still in effect? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![GhostOfDawn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/977dab/32.png) [@GhostOfDawn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GhostOfDawn)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2013, 7:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/6 "2013-06-12T07:47:26Z")
Yes it is, it may take some time though because Mickaelia is backed up on issuing them. ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2013, 6:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/7 "2013-06-17T18:20:06Z")
Hello, Mialiway! Welcome! If you’re looking for one jack-of-all-trades product to start out with, I’d go with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). It will make you seem more sociable and approachable. It’s great for social situations with guys and girls alike. It should be great for you at work. If you’re looking for only one product to start with, I wouldn’t go with Instant Sexiness. If you’ll be using it in the workplace, it’s best to stay away from anything sexual. Instant Sexiness should definitely be your second order, though! Let us know about your experiences! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2013, 4:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-a-bit-on-my-life-and-some-questions/59267/8 "2013-06-26T16:10:13Z")
Welcome Mailiway, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!