# Hello all, female newbie here! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 6, 2006, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041 "2006-12-06T17:24:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/1 "2006-12-06T17:24:29Z")
Hello Guys and Dolls, Quickly about myself: I am a 33 yo female from Boston (originally from Eastern Europe). I am a mother to a 1.5 year old girl, a step-mother of a 15 year old boy and 11 year old girl, all living with us. I am a musician and a teacher as well. I most definetely need guidance and advice. Here’s what I hope [pheromones](https://a314.com/) might help me with: 1. I believe that I always come off as being too strong and harsh.. Can I use something that would make me softer and fluffier to both males and females while making both sexes feel comfortable with me, that would be great. I would like a little “Marilyn Monroe” air about me, not the Angelina Jolie type.. My husband already can’t keep his hands off me, but if there’s some magical kick to our 7 year relationship, that would be nice. I need a little bit of help getting in the mood myself, you see.. It’s all about me…😉 1. For professional situations, a lot of times, I seem to be on the back burner, and get passed for other people.. It isn’t because I don’t produce, that’s for sure. What would be useful to keep people thinking about me when opportunities come up? Also, for teaching, is there something appropriate to use with kids as well as parents (plus, I want to make my step-kids even more comfortable with me. We already have a good relationship, but every little bit helps) 2. I love my fragrances, I have a lot of them at home. Is there any way to order your mixes with no scent in it, can I just cover up with my own perfume? Does this orange oil mix well with other scents? Even you must add some oil, can I order something else other than orange? 😃 I would like to try one or two products. I don’t think that I will be the type to have a chemistry lab in my bathroom (famous last words, right?)… Thank you so much, and I look forward to checking this out. Oh, I did try Realm and Beaches in the past, and I didn’t think they worked at all.. Smelled nice, that’s all… Girly ---
**Author:** ![Homura83](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/homura83/32/1989_2.png) [@Homura83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Homura83)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/2 "2006-12-06T17:28:11Z")
Hi! A warm welcome to the forum! 1)You should definitely try Instant Sexiness!Its currently the best all-round product for women.TAL and TAH in it together with alot of other pheromones would soften and sweeten your image. 2)Add a bottle of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) which makes everybody feel great and you are good to go! These 2 products will serve you well either in social and/or business situations as they simultaneously improve the mood of the both the wearer and the people(both sexes) around her(including your children).They will make an excellent first impression and of course a good lasting one as well.🆒 3)No problem,you can definitely get your products scentless or also try the delicious Chocolatini scent for women(Lor and Ail swear by it!😃 ),just state what scent you want in your order notes and Androtics will take care of the rest.Neroli IMO does not clash with other scents as it is quite light.But since you have so many cover scents to choose from you can use scentless of course.Hope that helps.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/3 "2006-12-06T18:08:25Z")
Homura83 is right about [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) but be sure you put a note in the comments box saying that you want MIX B - that’s the soft-n-fluffy one. MIX A is the default version of Instant Sexiness and it’s more on the Angelina Jolie side. For being noticed and respected at work, I highly recommend Mx105 and Mx 134 - both of which were featured in an older weekly special - you might ask Jasmin if you can still get this: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/forum-user-freebies-11-01-2006-11-07-2006/812](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/forum-user-freebies-11-01-2006-11-07-2006/812) The neroli scent is very light and fades fast, easy to cover. I think it would be better to go with that than wait extra time for unscented stuff to be custom bottled for you. The chocolatini is not easy to cover except with something very gourmand like Pink Sugar or Angel perhaps … and by the way welcome! always happy to have another girly and one who loves perfumes, too, woot!! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/4 "2006-12-06T18:21:08Z")
> [@Homura83](#): > > Hi! > A warm welcome to the forum! > 1)You should definitely try Instant Sexiness!Its currently the best all-round product for women.TAL and TAL in it together with alot of other pheromones would soften and sweeten your image. > 2)Add a bottle of Instant Shine which makes everybody feel great and you are good to go! > These 2 products will serve you well either in social and/or business situations as they simultaneously improve the mood of the both the wearer and the people(both sexes) around her(including your children).They will make an excellent first impression and of course a good lasting one as well.🆒 > 3)No problem,you can definitely get your products scentless or also try the delicious Chocolatini scent for women(Lor and Ail swear by it!😃 ),just state what scent you want in your order notes and Androtics will take care of the rest.Neroli IMO does not clash with other scents as it is quite light.But since you have so many cover scents to choose from you can use scentless of course.Hope that helps.🙂 tal does NOT sweeten your image. no no no 😃 TAH. TAH DAH! tah makes you into a sweet chocolate bunny at easter time… instant sexiness mix B, for that “im a kitten” thing going on. by the way, im from attleboro 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Bunny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bunny)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/5 "2006-12-06T19:22:38Z")
I was just about to say that too, Lor.. Heheh.. Great Witches think alike and all that. TAL makes me the dominant one, TAH makes me fluffy- bunny-bat-my-eyes-just-once-and-the-world-is-MINE-MWAHHAHAHAHAH!! ..or something of that ilk! ^\_~ LAM on the other hand, turns me into Woman-he-can’t-get-enough-of-and even-forgoes-a-Celtic-vs-Rangers-match-to-ravage.. ^\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_^ There are some ideas to start you off, Supernovagirly. Ail 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/6 "2006-12-06T21:00:44Z")
Yay! Hi Girly! Omg, there is SO much to say to you. There are so many mixes for you to try! I’m antsy with excitement just thinking about it. First off, your welcome cert has been sent. Enjoy, enjoy! Second off, let’s see if I can offer any insight on these questions you have. > [@](#): > > 1. I believe that I always come off as being too strong and harsh.. Can I use something that would make me softer and fluffier to both males and females while making both sexes feel comfortable with me, that would be great. I would like a little “Marilyn Monroe” air about me, not the Angelina Jolie type.. > > My husband already can’t keep his hands off me, but if there’s some magical kick to our 7 year relationship, that would be nice. I need a little bit of help getting in the mood myself, you see.. It’s all about me…😉 Jas Recommends: - Instant Sexiness Mix B. - Drive Him Crazy mix pack MX106-MX111. - TAH ~7.5 mcg/spray. - Lust After Me Why? Kitten, kitten, and more kitten! These mixes all contain lots of TAH (save for Lust After Me). What a snazzy, kittenish, prettie-girl molecule. A few sprays, and you feel carefree and whimsical, like a teenager. 😛 > [@](#): > > 1. For professional situations, a lot of times, I seem to be on the back burner, and get passed for other people.. It isn’t because I don’t produce, that’s for sure. What would be useful to keep people thinking about me when opportunities come up? Also, for teaching, is there something appropriate to use with kids as well as parents (plus, I want to make my step-kids even more comfortable with me. We already have a good relationship, but every little bit helps) Dig up some posts by CountessZero, the dominatrix of the east coast business world. 😃😃 She has some great suggestions on using pheromones at work to _really_ edge out your competition. Jas Recommends: - Instant Sexiness Mix A. - A drop of A314 - TAL ~5-10 mcg/spray - MX123-MX128 is a test pack _made_ for businesswomen. I’d be excited to hear your feedback on some of these mixes. > [@](#): > > 1. I love my fragrances, I have a lot of them at home. Is there any way to order your mixes with no scent in it, can I just cover up with my own perfume? Does this orange oil mix well with other scents? Even you must add some oil, can I order something else other than orange? 😃 > [@](#): > > The neroli scent is very light and fades fast, easy to cover. I think it would be better to go with that than wait extra time for unscented stuff to be custom bottled for you. The chocolatini is not easy to cover except with something very gourmand like Pink Sugar or Angel perhaps … Carrie is right on the nose about this. Neroli is definitely the way to go. It’s light and very blendable, and has added diffusion technology to make sure that the pheromones project out into “target’s” noses. Our unscented products aren’t fortified with that technology, so it takes more advanced work and tweaking to get the desired effect. Not the thing I’d recommend for a newbie. 😃 Plus, custom bottling may take a few days to put together, as our lab is currently very very busy churning out new mixes for you guys! The best thing to do is order a few things off the shelf to really get a feel of how your products work for you, and then you can work on tailoring them later. Anyway, supernova, I’m so glad you made it here, and I’m happy you’re now a part of our community. Drop in often so we can hear all about your new adventures! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Muse](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/muse/32/2388_2.png) [@Muse](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Muse)\ **Post date:** [December 6, 2006, 10:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/7 "2006-12-06T22:47:29Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > Yay! Hi Girly! > > Omg, there is SO much to say to you. There are so many mixes for you to try! I’m antsy with excitement just thinking about it. > > First off, your welcome cert has been sent. Enjoy, enjoy! > > Second off, let’s see if I can offer any insight on these questions you have. > > Jas Recommends: > > - Instant Sexiness Mix B. > - Drive Him Crazy mix pack MX106-MX111. > - TAH ~7.5 mcg/spray. > - Lust After Me > Why? Kitten, kitten, and more kitten! These mixes all contain lots of TAH (save for Lust After Me). What a snazzy, kittenish, prettie-girl molecule. A few sprays, and you feel carefree and whimsical, like a teenager. 😛 > > Dig up some posts by CountessZero, the dominatrix of the east coast business world. 😃😃 She has some great suggestions on using pheromones at work to _really_ edge out your competition. > > Jas Recommends: > > - Instant Sexiness Mix A. > - A drop of A314 > - TAL ~5-10 mcg/spray > - MX123-MX128 is a test pack _made_ for businesswomen. I’d be excited to hear your feedback on some of these mixes. > > Carrie is right on the nose about this. > > Neroli is definitely the way to go. It’s light and very blendable, and has added diffusion technology to make sure that the pheromones project out into “target’s” noses. Our unscented products aren’t fortified with that technology, so it takes more advanced work and tweaking to get the desired effect. Not the thing I’d recommend for a newbie. 😃 > > Plus, custom bottling may take a few days to put together, as our lab is currently very very busy churning out new mixes for you guys! The best thing to do is order a few things off the shelf to really get a feel of how your products work for you, and then you can work on tailoring them later. > > Anyway, supernova, I’m so glad you made it here, and I’m happy you’re now a part of our community. Drop in often so we can hear all about your new adventures! 🙂 Welcome. I asked the same question about pheremones around my students. I was told [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is good around children. And also Liquid SUnshine as an all around pick me up! ---
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2006, 3:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/8 "2006-12-07T03:14:40Z")
Thank you all for your replies!! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! You guys are so helpful! Here’s what I ended up ordering: Instant Sexiness Mix B Liquid Sunshine Series TAH 7.5 spray I cannot wait to try this!!! There are so many choices, so I decided to try these.. What do you think? Girly ---
**Author:** ![Homura83](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/homura83/32/1989_2.png) [@Homura83](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Homura83)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2006, 5:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/9 "2006-12-07T05:43:52Z")
Brilliant!!🆒 Enjoy your mixes and do feel free to feedback your observations anytime!😉 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![pherobeliever](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/90db22/32.png) [@pherobeliever](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherobeliever)\ **Post date:** [December 7, 2006, 3:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-female-newbie-here/1041/10 "2006-12-07T15:56:13Z")
> [@Ail](#): > > . > > TAL makes me the dominant one, TAH makes me fluffy- bunny-bat-my-eyes-just-once-and-the-world-is-MINE-MWAHHAHAHAHAH!! > > Ail 🙂 OMG! Maybe it was the TAH that I wore yesterday that had me begging “please, please pretty please” to get a scheduled vacation day changed at work yesterday. I never say things like that! 😮 Kinda nice being a fluffy bunny for a change, though . . .