# Hello All, new to this site... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 6, 2009, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790 "2009-04-06T17:21:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![thirsty4me](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/85f322/32.png) [@thirsty4me](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thirsty4me)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/1 "2009-04-06T17:21:53Z")
Hello all I want to introduce myself, I am new to this site and want to learn how to not only use [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) but know whats the best ones out there. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 5:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/2 "2009-04-06T17:57:22Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! The “best” products for someone actually vary, and really depend on that person’s individual personality and needs. If you don’t mind sharing a bit about your personality and how you relate to others, as well as what you would like to accomplish or change in your life with pheromones, then we can better advise you. I look forward to your reply! Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [April 6, 2009, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/3 "2009-04-06T21:30:11Z")
hi thirsty4me, welcome to the foum - glad you joined us! Like Sillykitty said, if you tell us a bit about your personality and which effects you would like to see by using pheromones we can recommend you the right ones for your needs… How did you get interested in pheromones? Where do you want to use them? If you answer those questions you will also qualify for the $25 gift certificate so you can try out the products at a low cost… have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/4 "2009-04-07T01:07:07Z")
Hello and welcome! There are too many “best ones” that you probably won’t be able to just pick one. One of my faves tho is IS/b. It’s very nice for attracting the boys 🙂 What type of personality do you have? Are you friendly, shy, confident, talkative, secluded? Also, what would you like to use pheromones for? Sex? Romance? Work? Social? Respect? Are you more of an alpha girl, strong, confident or conservative? Or are you a friendly, sweet girl This can sometimes help better determine if your an IS/a or IS/b girl. Hope to see you in the forum soon. Much love to ya! Good luck!!! ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/5 "2009-04-07T01:27:31Z")
Yep these girls are on point, Welcome first off, second, what you will find here is a community that is open to all and very friendly. As soon as you provide answers to our questions, we will more than gladly try to help you out and answer all questions you may have. Look forward to hearing from you, -DJ ---
**Author:** ![thirsty4me](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/85f322/32.png) [@thirsty4me](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thirsty4me)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/6 "2009-04-07T06:28:49Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi and welcome to the forum! > > The “best” products for someone actually vary, and really depend on that person’s individual personality and needs. > > If you don’t mind sharing a bit about your personality and how you relate to others, as well as what you would like to accomplish or change in your life with pheromones, then we can better advise you. > > I look forward to your reply! > > Warm regards, > Sillykitty \*\*\*Well my personality is different than most women from what men tell me. For one I used to be very shy , quiet , stayed to my self all the time, was never outgoing , ect. But Since i have gotten older and lived a bit, my personality has changed quite a bit. Now I am more open , still a bit shy but at least I am not shy to talk to a person & I am not scared to hold a conversation with someone but I still have some personal issues about my self that I still deal with all the time. for example I have very low self esteem, i am not confident about myself because of my physical flaws which leads me to not go out at all, not wanting to leave my house unless I have to. I am very self concious about myself. Overall I am a home body you can say , but I am always told I am sexy , have all the qualities that men want, but for me its not enough. I really kinda have my eye on 1 certain guy that is very different than what I am used to. This guy is a little older than me (45) I am 33, he is tall dark & handsome. the thing is,he intimidates the hell out of me not only becacause he is not what I am used to but I am different than what he is used to as well. This is someone who is more upscale , I on the other hand was raised in the ghetto, so I feel like I am not good enough yet I think this is the perfect person for me cause his personality is so beautiful. My confidence plays a great part in this. I want to be able to break the ice , be able to catch his eye, I want to be able to build a close friendship with this guy, I want long conversations , trust ect , hell you name it. But I am afraid to let anyone close to me cast of my past relationships. I am smart, very detailed, a neat freak, very passionate & romantic, maybe too thoughtful when it comes to my partner, honest, sincere caring and loving. A hopless romantic you can say… \*_ **Oh, I remember at the beginning I read something about your blood type might help to determine the best pheromones for you? If that is the case mines is O+…** _ ---
**Author:** ![thirsty4me](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/85f322/32.png) [@thirsty4me](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thirsty4me)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 6:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/7 "2009-04-07T06:52:16Z")
You can say that I am also conservative, reserved and laid back, a no nonsense type , but I have a very good sense of humor. I want to use pheromones for sex,romance,respect,and I guess for social reasons too. Another thing I never got along with females for some reason, so I do not have female friends, getting along with them was always a problem its like I was never accepted in any female groups or cliques since I can remember. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 4:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/8 "2009-04-07T16:31:10Z")
Hello There, Welcome to Pherotalk. 🙂 Thank you for providing more info. This makes it much easier to help you pick out products that will fit your needs the best. I suggest first trying [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A. This is a sexy confident attractive mix. More on the dominant capable side then IS/B which is more girly soft and submissive. This one can up your status a bit Next I suggest Ishine for a warm confident charismatic vibe. This one draws people to you and makes them feel great. I also suggest IH to help build deeper communication and feelings of connection and closeness. This will increase your rapport with your Target Guy (TG) Now if you need a bigger boost in status I suggest a advanced product called MX134. This is the women’s version of A314 the trust respect mix. Keep in mind products in the advanced are in testing and do not fall under the guarantee but they have ti in to-go size and it is a favorite of the women here on the forum. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** and I hope to see you down in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [April 7, 2009, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all-new-to-this-site/27790/9 "2009-04-07T18:14:44Z")
> [@thirsty4me](#): > > You can say that I am also conservative, reserved and laid back, a no nonsense type , but I have a very good sense of humor. I want to use pheromones for sex,romance,respect,and I guess for social reasons too. Another thing I never got along with females for some reason, so I do not have female friends, getting along with them was always a problem its like I was never accepted in any female groups or cliques since I can remember. I’m a lot like you. I’m pretty conservative, but I love to have a good time and I can be laid back. I also find it’s easier to have guy friends then female friends. So based on what I know from myself and hearing more about you I’m going to suggest to you [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/). Why? Because it will be a little less like you and it’s the spray the not only guys, but girls are drawn to. I think you will find it will bring out a very charming side to you because when I wear it (and I’m normally a very shy person) I am talkative to both sexes and both sexes love me and engage in conversation with me. Instant Sexiness A may work for you as well, but I’ve found that for me, if it’s not mixed with something else, it can repel girls from me and make me too confident/cocky, that even guys may not like me. It even makes me irritated some times. Not to drive you away. You can try both, but I think you would have much more luck with Instant Sexiness B. It’s the best product I’ve tried so far and I’m about to buy a big bottle the next time I can. 😉 Please let me know if you have any questions. Good Luck to you!