# Hello all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 26, 2009, 3:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370 "2009-01-26T15:41:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cloud5987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cloud5987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cloud5987)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 3:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/1 "2009-01-26T15:41:28Z")
Hello all, My name is Claudio, currently I am 21 years old, and live in Miami, FL. I’ve always been intrigued about pheromones and always been a true believer that they work. About 6 months ago my 3 yr relationship ended with my GF. Not that the relationship was horrid, if anything were still friends, thing is she felt really attracted to me but, said I was intimidating and came on as too “Alpha male”. According to her, she felt protected but scared to talk to me, just odd… I’m genuinely a really nice guy; don’t know why I came off as that. And naturally I believe I have a good amount of pheromones, her friends were always attracted by me and those in public always gave me stares, whether I was with my friends or her. Thing is I’ve been debating on what formulas to get that will help me out with this current dilemma of seeming “too strong”, so the next girl that comes along doesn’t feel the way my ex did. So far the ones I am most interested in are: Ammunition, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and/or Instant female Magic. If anyone has tips or suggestions feel free to reply, thanks ahead of time. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 3:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/2 "2009-01-26T15:47:06Z")
Hi Claudio, welcome on board. If you are coming over as too “alpha” and intimidating, then definitely concentrate on the socials, you’ve already mentioned IFM, in my opinion one of the most underrated products here. The other one you should really, really look at is [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), it will make you seem more approachable and the self effects will make you feel happier and more relaxed. I would stay away from ammo for the time being, it contains some -none which could increase the “alpha” impression. Concentrate on the social firstly, you can fine tune later on. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 4:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/3 "2009-01-26T16:00:11Z")
Hi Claudio, welcome to the forum! It’s great that you told us a bit about your personality, it helps us point you in the right direction when suggesting phero’s. Diamond has given you some really good advise already, he’s had great results with IFM himself. What are you hoping to get out of using phero’s? Are you looking to start dating again, or do you want to try things again with your ex? Do want to use them in general social situations, work/study etc as well? ---
**Author:** ![cloud5987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cloud5987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cloud5987)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 4:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/4 "2009-01-26T16:07:55Z")
Thanks Diamond for the advice, I’ll stay away from ammo for now, and concentrate on the suggested formulas. As for xiphoid, um i’m looking to start dating again, my ex is currently dating as well. What I hope to get out of this is to be more socialble with woman without seeming intimidating. Also i’ll be using it at work (theres a girl i’m interested in), bars/clubs (when going out with friends), or even to the mall when i’m hanging out with my cousin. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 4:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/5 "2009-01-26T16:12:15Z")
Ok, if that’s the case I’d stick with what Diamond said (IS & IFM) for the everyday use (work, being more sociable etc)… I’d normally suggest something like ammo for the going out scene, but if you are a tad intimidating to women you may want to avoid it, just like D said. You are still young with a naturally high phero production so you don’t want to overdo it…less is more with phero’s 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![cloud5987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cloud5987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cloud5987)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 4:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/6 "2009-01-26T16:19:38Z")
Thank you Diamond and Xiphoid, now I’m definitely certain as to what my weapons of choice will be 😛. Can’t wait to test it out and see the effects.😃 ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 26, 2009, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/7 "2009-01-26T16:22:38Z")
You won’t regret it ( if you do things properly). Now go to the new users section, check out the thread “HOw do I get the $25 gift certificate” That way, when Tisha ( the moderator and true expert) drops by, she might even give you a discount off your first order 😉 Oh, and read as much as you can, learn from other people’s mistakes! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 1:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/8 "2009-01-27T13:57:36Z")
Hello Claudio, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name is Tisha and I am the hostess/adviser here on PT. Glad you decided to join us. Great advice from Diamond, IFM Ishine and IO would be great. Your intimidating and this will soften without taking away from your own natural sexy aura. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![cloud5987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cloud5987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cloud5987)\ **Post date:** [January 27, 2009, 3:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/25370/9 "2009-01-27T15:05:19Z")
Just finished placing my order 🙂, and got both Ishine and IFM. Thank you for the GC and thank all for the advice, if/when any great experiences come using these products i’ll be sure to post.