# Hello all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 3, 2009, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140 "2009-09-03T02:35:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![embracelife84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/919ad9/32.png) [@embracelife84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/embracelife84)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/1 "2009-09-03T02:35:25Z")
Hey there my name is Peter im 25 and single My main reason for being here is to learn what and how to use [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to benefit me in everyday life, as i am a bit of a quiet held back sort of person. Also i was seeing a girl a while back and as usual i managed to turn her attraction into the “just freinds” zone yet we still hang out a bit and i can tell the attraction is still there but id jsut like to have that edge to help me out and build that attraction up to be a bit stronger. I have had people say i look intimidating to approach as apparently i have a very serious look to me all the time. Ive been told many a time im a good looking guy and i keep fit so the main thing im looking for is to making people feel more comfortable and relaxed around me. Thanks 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/2 "2009-09-03T02:47:27Z")
Instant Shine , [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and possible Spaceland might be a good place to start. ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/3 "2009-09-03T02:52:06Z")
Hi there Peter. Welcome. To make people relax and feel comfortable with you, start with Instant Shine. It is a feel-good phero that adds a little fun to whatever you’re doing. People feel more cheerful around you and tend to be glad to be near you. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will ease the conversation factor. It tends to make people chatty, and will make you seem more approachable. Glad you’re here. ---
**Author:** ![embracelife84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/919ad9/32.png) [@embracelife84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/embracelife84)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 2:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/4 "2009-09-03T02:54:22Z")
thanks for the replys so far! one other thing i forgot to mention is b4 i got to these forums i ordered scent of eros and Alpha 7 scented as informed by a freind. Are these pheros worth having? ive read a few good reviews on them just wondering. ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 3:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/5 "2009-09-03T03:22:37Z")
Hi, Welcome to the forum, What MW and Reddog suggested are good recommendations Also a good one the have would be [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) for that cool laid back guy and will give you respect. Chris ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 5:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/6 "2009-09-03T05:49:34Z")
Welcome to the forums. Haven’t tried Alpha-7 myself, seen it mentioned here and there. I don’t know how good it is, but I don’t remember anyone panning it either. I often seem too serious myself… it’s a symptom of not being relaxed. I’m sure there’s a cheerful, friendly guy in there somewhere who just needs to be released! Do some meditation or some activity that gets you out talking to others a lot, you’ll get better at it and more relaxed as it becomes more familiar. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/7 "2009-09-03T20:29:15Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum Host or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![jvkohl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jvkohl/32/1297_2.png) [@jvkohl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jvkohl)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/8 "2009-09-04T03:33:13Z")
I can’t recall seeing a bad review of Scent of Eros, which may be why your friend advised you to get it. It’s the only product I have ever used, so I’m biased in its favor. James V. Kohl > **[Pheromone Cologne and Perfume for Men and Women | Pheromones](https://www.pheromones.com/)** > > Scented and unscented pheromone colognes and perfumes. Over 20 years in business, free U.S. shipping, and a 60-day money-back guarantee. > [@embracelife84](#): > > thanks for the replys so far! one other thing i forgot to mention is b4 i got to these forums i ordered scent of eros and Alpha 7 scented as informed by a freind. > > Are these pheros worth having? ive read a few good reviews on them just wondering. ---
**Author:** ![embracelife84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/919ad9/32.png) [@embracelife84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/embracelife84)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 3:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/9 "2009-09-06T03:59:37Z")
> [@jvkohl](#): > > I can’t recall seeing a bad review of Scent of Eros, which may be why your friend advised you to get it. It’s the only product I have ever used, so I’m biased in its favor. > > James V. Kohl > `http://www.pheromones.com` Might be a dumb question but are you the james V Kohl that wrote the book Scent of Eros? and created the phero? Great book by the way 😛 or is that just a name you used on as you screen name? ---
**Author:** ![embracelife84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/919ad9/32.png) [@embracelife84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/embracelife84)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/10 "2009-09-06T04:04:59Z")
> [@embracelife84](#): > > Might be a dumb question but are you the james V Kohl that wrote the book Scent of Eros? and created the phero? Great book by the way 😛 > > or is that just a name you used on as you screen name? Actually forget that just looked at your profile thing 😛 Lol goodstuff i never thought i woulda met the scent of eros creator on here! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jvkohl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jvkohl/32/1297_2.png) [@jvkohl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jvkohl)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 4:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/11 "2009-09-06T04:57:34Z")
> [@embracelife84](#): > > Lol goodstuff i never thought i woulda met the scent of eros creator on here! 🙂 Thanks, I must be somewhere and am grateful to be here having been banned from the Love-Scent Forum. James V. Kohl > **[Pheromone Cologne and Perfume for Men and Women | Pheromones](https://www.pheromones.com/)** > > Scented and unscented pheromone colognes and perfumes. Over 20 years in business, free U.S. shipping, and a 60-day money-back guarantee. ---
**Author:** ![embracelife84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/919ad9/32.png) [@embracelife84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/embracelife84)\ **Post date:** [September 6, 2009, 2:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/12 "2009-09-06T14:59:12Z")
> [@jvkohl](#): > > Thanks, I must be somewhere and am grateful to be here having been banned from the Love-Scent Forum. > > James V. Kohl > `http://www.pheromones.com` Why would they ban u from the lovescent forum? thats where i bought your scent of eros from. ---
**Author:** ![jvkohl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jvkohl/32/1297_2.png) [@jvkohl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jvkohl)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/13 "2009-09-08T02:10:58Z")
> [@embracelife84](#): > > Why would they ban u from the lovescent forum? > thats where i bought your scent of eros from. Most of my posts were to the research section. They didn’t like what I was saying about the non-functional human VNO. James V. Kohl > **[Pheromone Cologne and Perfume for Men and Women | Pheromones](https://www.pheromones.com/)** > > Scented and unscented pheromone colognes and perfumes. Over 20 years in business, free U.S. shipping, and a 60-day money-back guarantee. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 2:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/14 "2009-09-08T02:26:52Z")
Well, it is great to have you here! ---
**Author:** ![embracelife84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/919ad9/32.png) [@embracelife84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/embracelife84)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2009, 6:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/32140/15 "2009-09-08T06:35:41Z")
yeah bugger them! its there loss!