# Hello all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 14, 2009, 8:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087 "2009-11-14T20:12:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![om86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@om86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/om86)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2009, 8:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/1 "2009-11-14T20:12:22Z")
Hello! I’m 23 yr old guy from Scandinavia. I’m very shy and uncomfortable with new persons. I’d like to try [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) to make my company more comfortable for girls I know, have them to dare to show their sexual interest for me more openly and deepen my relationships with them to deep friendships or most happily to LTR. Also I’d like to compensate my anxiety and lack of interpersonal skills by some level with pheros. It would be fun to see, how they affect to persons I know. So, do you have any ideas, what pheros should I try? I’d like if they would be in stock now, good phero doesn’t help if it’s unavailable right now. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2009, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/2 "2009-11-14T20:46:11Z")
Welcome to the forum. IO and ih are both good for stimulating relaxed conversations with people, and helping build rapport. IG also helps some people with relational fluidity, and gives a warm masculine aura. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [November 14, 2009, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/3 "2009-11-14T21:35:53Z")
Try [Come Talk To Me](https://a314.com/product/come-talk-to-me-cttm/) Mix 2, that may get people to approach you and talk to you. But you will have to become more confident and develop your skills… you have to work the pheromones. The better your social skills, the more the pheros will enhance them. It’s like an amplifier. A quiet sound when amplified won’t be very loud, but a loud noise will be REALLY loud when amplified. Get out there and practise. Good luck and welcome to the forums. ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/4 "2009-11-15T00:44:35Z")
> [@om86](#): > > Hello! I’m 23 yr old guy from Scandinavia. I’m very shy and uncomfortable with new persons. I’d like to try pheromones to make my company more comfortable for girls I know, have them to dare to show their sexual interest for me more openly and deepen my relationships with them to deep friendships or most happily to LTR. Also I’d like to compensate my anxiety and lack of interpersonal skills by some level with pheros. It would be fun to see, how they affect to persons I know. So, do you have any ideas, what pheros should I try? I’d like if they would be in stock now, good phero doesn’t help if it’s unavailable right now. Heya Om! Welcome to the friendliest, most informative web site on increasing social interaction with the help of pheromones! Sounds like you are looking for an increase in social interaction all around. Were you aware that new users can qualify for a $25 gift certificate for androtics excellent products? In order to qualify, and to better assist you, you should provide some more information. For example, I read from your post that you are somewhat shy, how does this shyness effect you when you attempt to interact with the lady folks? Where are you located in Scandanavia? Where do you go to interact with women? Bars? Clubs? Do you work with someone you would like to attract? How about interactions in general? Is it difficult or impossible to make friends? Sorry to sound intrusive and/or creepy, but the information will go a long way to help determine which product would work the best for you. From the limited information that I have gotten from you so far, You prolly want to get your hands on either sociables, or buffered products that will help in attracting people and getting them gravitate to you. I can honestly say that one product in particular, Instant shine has really helped me get out of my shell and had the benefit of helping me come off as a more interesting, outgoing person. I have recently received another product, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and am quite happy with the results of that product as well in terms of getting noticed. Like yourself, I am pretty shy and generally not outgoing around strangers. I/G ups your status but is buffered with sociables to provide an interesting, charismatic vibe. Respectability is a higly valued trait in terms of attraction so I/G may be just the ticket for you. As mentioned in the other replies, the products will help get you noticed but you really have to do the “heavy lifting” in terms of coming out of your shell, expanding your comfort zone in order for the pheros to be effective. I have found that both products produced in me a self-effect that helped me to exhibit a greater degree of self-confidence which will definitely help you maintain your phero “signature”. Well, hope that I have been of some help to you and if you have any furter questions feel free to post them in the forum, you are bound to get good, informative responses! And best of luck on your phero adventure! ---
**Author:** ![om86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@om86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/om86)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/5 "2009-11-15T00:59:16Z")
Hey Chris Thank you for welcoming. I’m from Finland. I feel that I can only make friends, if I get know them first by email and meet after then. My shyness forbids me to speak IRL persons for example in hobbies, I don’t have confidence to do that. I’d like that I could be sure, that the others would be good mood and welcoming, if I go to talk with them. I feel that the good mood, which would come with pheromones, would make me more confident and others would be happy with me. Relationships are easier, if I know the person well, but “breaking the ice” is stressful and takes time. For that sexual interest, I feel that I would need some spray to be “more masculine”, because I feel that naturally I have too little these hormones. I don’t usually like talk much with men, so it isn’t that important in this case. Your advice was helpful. I’m interested in that IG, but also IS, IH, IO, TUTH and CTTM2. Are some of these same-like stuff or do they have big differences? Is there somewhere descriptions, for what social situation would be best for each of these sprays? And how about women’s sprays, I noted that when they say that they make the user (woman) feel great also, do they have however turnoff effect, if they are used by man? I didn’t know that $25 bonus, but that would be cool 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/6 "2009-11-15T06:21:02Z")
> [@om86](#): > > Hey Chris > > Thank you for welcoming. I’m from Finland. I feel that I can only make friends, if I get know them first by email and meet after then. My shyness forbids me to speak IRL persons for example in hobbies, I don’t have confidence to do that. I’d like that I could be sure, that the others would be good mood and welcoming, if I go to talk with them. I feel that the good mood, which would come with pheromones, would make me more confident and others would be happy with me. Relationships are easier, if I know the person well, but “breaking the ice” is stressful and takes time. For that sexual interest, I feel that I would need some spray to be “more masculine”, because I feel that naturally I have too little these hormones. I don’t usually like talk much with men, so it isn’t that important in this case. > > Your advice was helpful. I’m interested in that IG, but also IS, IH, IO, TUTH and CTTM2. Are some of these same-like stuff or do they have big differences? Is there somewhere descriptions, for what social situation would be best for each of these sprays? And how about women’s sprays, I noted that when they say that they make the user (woman) feel great also, do they have however turnoff effect, if they are used by man? > > I didn’t know that $25 bonus, but that would be cool 🙂 Glad to make your acquaintance! I/S, I/H, I/O & CTTM2 fall under the category of sociables. These products help you give off a charismatic vibe and can help inspire people to want to talk to you. I/S is charismatic and if you are older, helps you to give off a more youthful vibe. I/H and I/O are to help get people to open up to you with I/H resulting in deeper conversations. CTTM2, if I am not mistaken is a mix of I/H and I/O and it is again mainly to make feel comfortable opening up to you. As far as sexiness and masculinity, TUTH is good, but has limited applications as you come of as a virile dude who wants to lay pipe _now_, (which while it is good in clubs and discos, is not a state that is appropriate in most conditions you would find yourself day to day). That’s why I recommended I/G because, while it is not a “sexual” phero per se, it can increase your self confidence and gives off the scent of a confident Alpha male that most women find appealing. It ups your status but it is buffered with sociables, so you are much less likely to suffer from O/D (where your status goes up so much that you are viewed as unapproachable). Once again I do want to stress that while the pheros can assist you, and some products may even help you with self-confidence, as I have found with I/S, A314, and I/G, it falls on you to push yourself out of your comfort zone and initiate conversations, especially with women. I have had a number of random dudes come up to me and start talking while wearing I/S and while there have been instances of being approached by woman, you have to realize, if Finnish culture is like American or European culture, it falls on your shoulders as the male to approach the women you are attracted to. Pheros can up your attraction and appeal, but they won’t counteract hundreds of years of established gender roles. On the andriotics home page, if you go to where it list the Instant line, under each product, there is a description of reported effects on self and others. There used to be a table that broke down in which situation you would want to use each product, but I’m not seeing it now. Follow these links: [Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) and [Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168) as well as [Pheromone guide for newbies and doubts](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-guide-for-newbies-and-doubts/27291) these threads have been written/vetted by experienced phero users and are entertaining and simple to understand. for excellent detailed guides on how to most effectively use the products. As far as the female products, I can’t really speak to that as I have never used them, but I would advise against it as you may end up coming of as a femme and I can’t see that being helpful at all for what you are trying to achieve. Once you are a bit more advanced you may want to check on some of the putatives or MEO EST which have been reported to have a calming effect on the ladies. Best of luck, and hope this helps! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/7 "2009-11-15T18:51:59Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![om86](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@om86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/om86)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2009, 2:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34087/8 "2009-11-16T02:51:06Z")
Thank you, it hasn’t yet came but will wait that GC 🙂