# Hello all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 4, 2009, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608 "2009-12-04T04:13:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![laali](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3ab097/32.png) [@laali](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/laali)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/1 "2009-12-04T04:13:51Z")
Hi everyone. I guess Ill be honest and pour it all out on here haha. Im sorry if this is too long but they stated for it to have a little detail so I might overdo it. Im a 25 year old Indian-Italian guy whos in the health care field. I have a slim, somewhat muscular build. 5’11", 175 pounds. I get mistaken for arab a lot with my ethnicity mix and sometimes Persian. Im out in minnesota and was in ohio previously for 4 years for grad school. Originally from california previously but I moved at 21 and have regretted it since. My love life’s always sucked more or less. I bloomed late far as dating at round 18 cuz I was a pretty shy guy. I’ve dated maybe 5-6 girls my entire life. Ive had a lot of potential girls that could have turned into something more but my luck is horrible and something always seems to fall through. For example, like a girl had broken up with her boyfriend after she found out he cheated on her. Me and her were getting really close and hanging out a lot and there was attraction. After 2 weeks of hanging out, I had to leave to go to another school to do a month-long rotation which Id scheduled a year in advance. Anyways ya, I was busy and so didnt have a chance to keep much in touch but thats the way it is in the field Im in. When I got back, shed gotten back with her bf and so Im not gonna move in on that cuz the bf is my classmate at the time and drama, etc. Another example of my cursed luck: a chick was really diggin me but is in dental school in boston. I take vacation to go back home but our vacations differ by a week. I miss seein her when its obvious things would have sparked up if wed have been at home at the same time cuz of the flirty messages shes been sending me and stuff. Anyways ya, tons of crappy stories like that. I have kind of variable self esteem. Right now Im at a pretty low point. Some girl I was hooking up with/dating for about 3 weeks broke it off with me and found another guy. 2 potential girls just blew me off and when I asked em what the deal was, they said theyd started seein someone else. I dont really know what to think of how I look and I tend to fixate on it a lot. A few girls have said Im cute but I just really usually dont get those “I want you” looks. A couple of times, Ive gotten them but Im too big a pansy sometimes to capitalize and ask the girl for her number or whatever when talking to her. I got a huge nose which Im not really too keen about but whatever I guess. Chicks who are my friends or whove even been into me sometimes call me a nice guy which kills me cuz nice guys never prosper. My lucks screwed, remember? Id tried [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) out 2 years ago but didnt get results worth a dam. I think Id bought liquid trust but I cant remember. Anyways what Im looking for outta this is some assistance. I feel like nothings worked and Im willing to try pheromones again. Ideally Id just want something where girls just give me that “I want u look” and approach me and stuff like that. I dunno if that would exist but whatevers close to it, I guess. In short, HEEEELP. ---
**Author:** ![laali](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3ab097/32.png) [@laali](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/laali)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 4:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/2 "2009-12-04T04:21:23Z")
i dunno.. I guess Turn up the heat or [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) sounds nice. I hate to be a typical guy but Im like fiending for sex these days so I need somethin that hooks it up cuz Im a pansy right now when it comes to approachin women and gettin their digits or whatever. :-/ ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 4:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/3 "2009-12-04T04:22:08Z")
OK. Well, you need to get in touch with your masculine power, get your balls back. As far as pheros go, maybe some androstenone based products, Ammunition or Turn Up The Heat. But those seem to be out of stock right now. Psychologically, I recommend the Authentic Man Program, (google it), they show you how to balance your nice guy with your masculine power. Being nice isn’t bad, it’s just bad if it’s out of balance with your inner jerk. Good luck and have fun. Oh, and DON’T BE AFRAID OF SCREWING UP. Making mistakes is how you learn. So what if you blow it with some woman? It’s probably better to push too hard and then back off than wimp out and get nowhere. ---
**Author:** ![tourch10](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tourch10/32/2390_2.png) [@tourch10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tourch10)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/4 "2009-12-04T04:37:09Z")
Welcome to the Forums 🙂 your gonna love this place. There is tons of good Info here. Yeah sounds alot like me. I would highly recommend a314 gives ya a very nice self affect that boosts your confidence and people will sure respect you alot more. That goes with women. It kind of says to them hey im the kind of guy that will take care of you and you need me mentallity. And if your like me your probably way to nice. From my experiences girls just dont want nice guys. They say they do but in the end they really dont. Nice comes off as weak to them and they want someone that can protect them. I would also recommend [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/). Give you that more of a hmm whats his deal sort of vibe and they will want to get to know you and it has a nice self effect that makes you not really care to much making them want you more cause your not trying to please every wim they have. Well hope that helps and i know those 2 i suggested has really helped me out tons. I tried tuth and i still cant get anything off of it so im still playing around with it but so far no luck. Oh yeah on top of a314 and IJ i usually hit 2 sprays of IO just so they feel like talking that way you dont come off to arrogant. ---
**Author:** ![Cherub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cherub/32/1282_2.png) [@Cherub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cherub)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 5:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/5 "2009-12-04T05:47:37Z")
Aloha and welcome [laali](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/laali) ! And suggest you check out some of the stickies in the intro forum, they will help give you a lot of good advice, and you will also find one that says just how to qualify for the nice $25 [gift certificate](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) for making an introduction. Again, welcome and best of luck! and please post your findings! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 4, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/6 "2009-12-04T18:58:12Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![laali](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/3ab097/32.png) [@laali](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/laali)\ **Post date:** [December 5, 2009, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/34608/7 "2009-12-05T03:25:57Z")
thanks guys for all your input.