# Hello all. :)

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [June 4, 2011, 9:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607 "2011-06-04T21:52:15Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 5\
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**Author:** ![RiChess](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e9bcb4/32.png) [@RiChess](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RiChess)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2011, 9:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607/1 "2011-06-04T21:52:15Z")

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Hey guys,

I’ve been roaming this site for a while so I decided to jump in and tell a bit about myself today. I’ve read up on as much as I could, bought some [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), and began testing a bit already (2 months or so). Never had much experience before, except for a bottle of Realm for Men I got years ago (didn’t do anything, but I still have it for the cologne part lol).

To introduce myself: I’m a 19 year old living in the US. I’d say I have above average, slightly boyish/cute, look. I’m about 5’11 and fit (neither muscular nor fat).

I work in financial sales so I am fairly outgoing at work since I deal with clients all the time. In social settings, I’m a pretty silly and easy going guy once you get to know me. Otherwise at first, I can be slightly reserved until I get to know you. So when I meet girls, it takes me a bit longer to create some type of connections the first time around.

Most girls find me cute, fun, and NICE in general. I actually hear these words quite often. It leads me to have many girls who enjoy hanging out with me and feel comfortable around me. BUT this, also, often lead more toward friendship than relationship in the short term.

Based on this forum’s previous discussions, is this partly due the fact that I have high levels of Androsterone and lower levels of Androstenone ? Do I smell too ‘sweet’ to attract women?? lol I’m convinced it’s more on ME than my natural ’ mones , but it’s been interesting to learn about how they ‘can’ possibly affect things.

I’ve dated and been involved with girls of various ethnicities from blacks to whites to Latin (not many Asians). Growing up in Europe, I mostly learned to be around white girls (French, Italians, Germans, etc…) and also Africans (Moroccan, Senegalese, etc…). Living here, I’ve learned to expand my horizon even more so and enjoy women of various backgrounds. Strangely enough, I still never really found myself connecting with Asian (American) women. So, although I’m not excluding them, I’m not trying to attract them specifically either (unless I can find a nice Euro-Asian girl here in the states )

The pheromones that I have are: TUTH , IG , IH , IO , IJ (just added) and finally to-go AMMO & IS. I’ve used a combination of everything at one time or another without much result (1x to 2x spray at a time)

In clubbing and bar scene, I’m always wondering if it’s the drinks or the music or the actual ’ mones ? The most obvious result I got is from this girl I know who kept saying: “Wow you smell so good” (said it several times that night while were closely dancing but not much more than that)

That night, I used 3 to 4 sprays of TUTH + 1x IS + 1x IO with not much results. But I don’t believe I OD 'ed either as I was talking and dancing with my female friends as I usually would. Other women were not running away from me (got a couple of look and smiles I think) while guys were not trying to beat me up. I’m still testing IJ so I’ll let you know what I see any reactions from that in future club scene.

Even better, I’ve used a couple of sprays of TUTH in a work setting buffered with IG . I barely noticed anything except small compliments from co-workers about how well I dressed that day and this client might have checked me out for a second.

In more social & work events, I’m definitely noticing much less results in general. Not much self-effect nor effect on others. What I do notice is so SUBTLE that it could be anything… Bad day or good day for people around me. OR perhaps I was funny today but not the next. Maybe I dressed well and did look and feel like James Bond so that’s why the client felt like chatting more than usual that day. BUT it’s not anything I would think: “Wow that’s different!! What was that?”

I’m not discrediting the products at all in any way. I think they DO work in the RIGHT working situation (distance, room temperature, humidity, combination of sprays, persons involved, timing). I mean I have noticed things happening to a certain level, but it’s not magic (as others have mentioned).

SO I guess my questions are: What I am supposed to REALLY notice that I am missing right now? Am I expecting too much? I’m a fairly good judge of character and I’m not seeing changes in people. What combination should I try based on my background (socially & professionally)? Should I just increase my dosage?

Thanks for any help (but sorry for the long post)!

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**Author:** ![ScienceStudent](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/839c29/32.png) [@ScienceStudent](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ScienceStudent)\
**Post date:** [June 4, 2011, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607/2 "2011-06-04T21:55:46Z")

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What sort of business are you in? What is your natural (current) personality?  
Emm

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**Author:** ![sugarplum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarplum/32/2259_2.png) [@sugarplum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarplum)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2011, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607/3 "2011-06-05T01:23:12Z")

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Welcome! You have a nice collection of pheromones already. Have you tested each on their own? Or have you just been combining them? You say that you are low in androstenone, so maybe combining -none products like Instant Jerk and TUTH with other products like Instant Gentleman or Instant Shine is cancelling out the effects of the -none? Also, you will not always get in your face hits. Most of them will be subtle. When I first started using pheromones, I thought they didn’t work because I thought they would produce really unnatural effects in people. Now I know that I have to really pay attention because most reactions I get are very subtle and natural, easy to miss. You really have to make note of everything that happens to you during a day, even if it doesn’t seem too out of the ordinary or significant, and then you’ll be able to see what the pheromones may be doing. Also, keep in mind that people you know are used to your natural pheromone signature, so they may ignore the signals they get from your [synthetic pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). You may have to wear a certain blend around them a few times before they begin to associate it with you and react to it. Maybe try wearing a mix around people a few times before switching to something else.

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**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2011, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607/4 "2011-06-05T20:37:12Z")

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I think the best way to discern what each product can offer you is sweet spot testing, and also journaling.

I started soing it about a month ago, but had to stop because i got a new job. I hope things start settleing down in a couple of weeks, and then i´ll continue with my testing.

I´m using A314 with some socials and it´s working great.

Hope this helps.

Talk to you soon.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [June 8, 2011, 12:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/50607/5 "2011-06-08T00:24:53Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk Richess!

You bought some great products and I guess you got them from the research you did on the forum.

For more information on your sweet spot read this thread although I am not sure if that’s the sweet spot you were talking about.

> [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003):
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> Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an…

Now, the comments you get from the ladies about being nice has a lot to do with why you alaways just end up being their friend and this thread will give you some info as to what am talking about :

> [@Help to the Masses](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help-to-the-masses/189992):
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> I am going to make a thread dedicated to getting better with women. What would you guys like to know more about?

The men on this forum and the products you ordered will assist you in changing things around.

**Your gc was issued! 😉**
