# Hello All **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 22, 2011, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447 "2011-11-22T05:04:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![LCuervo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@LCuervo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LCuervo)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 5:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447/1 "2011-11-22T05:04:55Z")
Hello. My name is Leo, and I am a 19-year-old college student. I was born in the U.S. but grew up on the U.S. side of Mexico. It’s funny, because I was born only about 15 miles from the city in which I grew up, and then came back to that city after 13 years. After being tired of living in Texas (with the heat…) and not being happy with my old school, I decided to transfer to a private college in Massachusetts! I’m currently studying Psychology and Art. I like the change of everything (especially mentalities with people) around here and think I will stay here for a while. I am also close to Boston but haven’t visited it during the night (which is always fun, as I like to go clubbing 😉 haha). Some of my interests include the areas I am studying, as well as working out (cardio and weights), music, Tumblr, video games, foreign languages (I speak 4), other cultures, food, etc. Due to this range of interests, I feel like pheromones are a very interesting subject of discussion and research. I consider myself non-heterosexual seeing that I am attracted to men much more often than to women. I also feel like the reason why I would call myself bisexual would be to fit the standards of society, although I am not sure of this. In a way, I am kind of confused but am much, much more physically attracted to men. I’ve known of pheromones for a while and have always wanted to try them to see what would be the effects they have on me. I have noticed that hormones and other body chemicals are very important to us. I personally have always been into less “masculine” things in life such as watching sports, and more into art and fashion. I also tend to make female friends much more easily than male friends. Although growing up in a conservative and homophobic environment made it hard for me to make more male friends to be open about my sexuality with, I feel like even here it’s slightly difficult. Since starting to workout again (and growing facial hair for No Shave November, which I’m participating in), however, I have noticed that I feel more confident and masculine. The honest reason why I would want to experiment with and use pheromones is to make more heterosexual male friends to have in life, as well as to attract men. I’m wondering, what would be something that would work for those two things? I have looked up PHERX, Mystery Boy, and L’Uomo Amore but don’t know about the specific chemicals and blend that would give me desired effects. Since I study Psychology, I know the effects of oxytocin, but that is a hormone and more for love-like attachment. I’d like to have very strong bonds with hetero males and be more attractive to people in general. I hope you all read this, thanks:) ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 5:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447/2 "2011-11-22T05:13:58Z")
Hi there Leo, Thats cool that your 19.Thats awesome that your studying psychology and art.Those are pretty interesting subjects.I have a friend doing the same majors(^_^)Sounds like you have lots of things your interested in.Thats always a good thing(^_^)Hmm,for the making more friends.You could go with the social products like instant shine for putting people in a good mood or instant openness to make people more chatty and help with icebreaking.Instant honesty is also good if you want to build a deep connection and have a longtime friendship.It helps to build very strong bonds(^_^)Not sure what would attract men but you could give ammo a try since it will just give you a more sexy and cool vibe.Although instant gentleman might be a better one which gives off an alpha masculine vibe but its out of stock at the moment.Can keep it in mind for when it comes back though(^_^)Think gay men are attracted to the same [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) as women although you could look at instant sexiness B if you were interested in giving of a more feminine vibe.Dont really know though(\>_\<)All the best and hope you get what your looking for out of your testing.You might want to check out the 2 stickies below as well as they will give you a good base for testing and are interesting(^_^) [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447/3 "2011-11-22T05:19:39Z")
Hi Leo Welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com) Nothing wrong with being a bisexual, it’s just your perception of love that others see it as different. I do have friends who are hetro, homo and bisexual, all of them are nice people to begin with. My ex was a bisexual herself. I would suggest as what meng have suggested to you, which is to take a look at; 1. IH - For bonding 2. IO - For social icebreaking These two products should be sufficient enough to start you off. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 5:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447/4 "2011-11-22T05:50:01Z")
Hi there, cuervo and welcome to the forum! You’ve gotten some attention from the guys already and I’m sure you’ll get more as the days progress. I think the combo Oasis prescribed is good. To get others to feel open to talk to you and have the confidence to talk to you intimately, if the convo goes in that direction. Though, I’d also suggest IShine for a bump in self confidence, always a good thing to help alleviate any self doubts, and especially for the comfort of those to be around you. I like that It’ll get me a youthful vibe about me… others consider that I have a youthful vigor! Welcome to the forum and hope you start up testing mones and reporting on their effects in your social environment! Cheers! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![LCuervo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/fbc32d/32.png) [@LCuervo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LCuervo)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2011, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447/5 "2011-11-22T22:49:58Z")
Thank you all for your responses. 🙂 I can’t wait to start testing out pheromones! I have a question though: How could I use pheromones to approach men and start conversations with them without creeping them out? I have noticed that there is this guy at my school who makes eye contact with me often. I’m not sure if he’s straight and just notices me (maybe due to me being another male and therefore hypothetical competition), or if he’s attracted to me. How can I approach him without him thinking I’m creepy/ making it really awkward? How can I tell what message I’m giving off from people? I’m thinking of buying [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), but I’m not sure. I am semi-popular at my school and people say hi to me all the time, but this is different from actually going up to someone and making a conversation? I just really want this boy but am not sure if he’s heterosexual or not lol. Another thing is that since men (especially with the whole not out thing) tend to be more sexual or have one-time things, should I mix some of the more sexual pheromones? I know what I could hypothetically use but am worried about sending off the wrong signals, since I haven’t tried pheromones at all. There’s this other guy I would also like to approach (since he looks at me as well), but he seems a tad more alpha/aggressive. I really wonder what thins says about my own pheromones/hormones and how I come off to people…I’d just really like to approach these two guys but don’t know if using one pheromone will have different effects on them (due to their personal chemistry)…Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2011, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/53447/6 "2011-11-28T17:49:47Z")
Welcome to pherotalk LCuervo! You received some great advice as to what products to get. When it comes to homosexuals and lesbians if you are feeling a vibe towards someone most likely they are homosexual, rarely do lesbians or homosexuals feel vibes towards straight ppl. I think that has to do with [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) as well but it’s a whole other topic. _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _